Are we becoming too arrogant? - Or is thegooddoctor too sensitive?

obviously I can’t force people to think a certain way
For someone who claims to realize that, you still seem to try pretty hard.
But I don’t know, I began to see a growing ugliness towards some of the users here and just wanted to remind people there are good things on this site. People really should just lighten up, you’ll be happier this way.
I can tell your life is not going so well that you're in a position to give advice, and my life is not doing so poorly that I need to take advice from you.

Maybe you should have these epiphanies in the privacy of your own thoughts, or inked in the pages of dear diary. I don't want to hear your sophomoric ideas on what "we" "should do", and I don't want to hear your musings about lessons you learned from the pushback. You can have thoughts that you don't speak, and you can have thoughts you don't type into a forum post. We don't need to hear them.
 
It's not spilling into the lolcow threads so what the fuck do you even care, aside from it pissing you off that there's a corner of the Internet where people can have contrary opinions to yours? You're not fooling anybody.
Or, to put it simply, this is a discussion forum. If it is to serve its purpose we need people to hold opposing views and confront those views, otherwise there will be no discussion.
 
For someone who claims to realize that, you still seem to try pretty hard.

I can tell your life is not going so well that you're in a position to give advice, and my life is not doing so poorly that I need to take advice from you.

Maybe you should have these epiphanies in the privacy of your own thoughts, or inked in the pages of dear diary. I don't want to hear your sophomoric ideas on what "we" "should do", and I don't want to hear your musings about lessons you learned from the pushback. You can have thoughts that you don't speak, and you can have thoughts you don't type into a forum post. We don't need to hear them.
Okay why the hell would I do that though, people can discuss whatever they want on the internet? I thought you said the value of the farms for better or for worse was that we can express our ideas freely without people censoring us. I am not forcing you to think any way but you telling me I have to keep these intrusive thoughts and keep them in some silly diary and not express myself online is ridiculous, it’s my freedom of internet expression and say what I want, get bent dude.

My musings or life lessons are not obligatory following obviously but it’s just something to consider since the ever changing nature of this site means we’ve had an influx of new gags here and it is making this place sometimes ugly to be in. It’s just food for thought.
 
For someone who claims to realize that, you still seem to try pretty hard.

I can tell your life is not going so well that you're in a position to give advice, and my life is not doing so poorly that I need to take advice from you.

Maybe you should have these epiphanies in the privacy of your own thoughts, or inked in the pages of dear diary. I don't want to hear your sophomoric ideas on what "we" "should do", and I don't want to hear your musings about lessons you learned from the pushback. You can have thoughts that you don't speak, and you can have thoughts you don't type into a forum post. We don't need to hear them.
tgd's been here for 6 years longer than you, I think they know more about the site's evolution and devolution than you bubba. Anything you're saying can easily be flung back at you and none of it has to be said since you apparently don't want to hear the topic of the thread.
 
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Okay why the hell would I do that though, people can discuss whatever they want on the internet? I thought you said the value of the farms for better or for worse was that we can express our ideas freely without people censoring us. I am not forcing you to think any way but you telling me I have to keep these intrusive thoughts and keep them in some silly diary and not express myself online is ridiculous, it’s my freedom of internet expression and say what I want, get bent dude.

My musings or life lessons are not obligatory following obviously but it’s just something to consider since the ever changing nature of this site means we’ve had an influx of new gags here and it is making this place sometimes ugly to be in. It’s just food for thought.
you're clearly literally very autistic so I'm going to stop making fun of you or replying to your posts, good day.
 
thd's been here for 6 years longer than you, I think they know more about the site's evolution and devolution than you bubba.
His posts demonstrate that he absolutely does not.
Anything you're saying can easily be flung back at you and none if it has to be said since you apparently don't want to hear the topic of the thread.
tgd is mad that trannies are made fun of and started this thread whining about it. Such notions are completely unworthy of respect. And fuck you.
 
His posts demonstrate that he absolutely does not.

tgd is mad that trannies are made fun of and started this thread whining about it. Such notions are completely unworthy of respect. And fuck you.

He recently came into the "Videos of people dying" topic and tried to tone police it as well. He's probably been all over the farms doing shit like this recently.
 
My musings or life lessons are not obligatory following obviously but it’s just something to consider since the ever changing nature of this site means we’ve had an influx of new gags here and it is making this place sometimes ugly to be in. It’s just food for thought.
Next time, perhaps don't lead off your 'food for thought' with an accusation about the entirety of the Farms based on being annoyed by a small segment of it. A small segment that, you were repeatedly reminded, is often made fun of by the rest of the Farms, as you got defensive and talked around what was apparently really bothering you.

Sincerely glad you're feeling better enough about your life to realise there was a problem in your approach, but I don't think you get to be the 'lighten up' guy after being told that repeatedly and refusing to yourself. Also, part of the free and robust discussion means that if you post something people don't like, they'll tell you so. Again, you don't get to be the 'why are you reading this thing that annoys you?' guy after how you have been behaving. I hope you continue your personal growth to the point where you understand not just the mistakes you made in trying to elicit a certain response, but the mistakes you're still making.
 
People see your point, and you're growing too. We're all getting better, and that's what happens when free and honest discourse is allowed. People naturally change their opinions over time, everything you absorb changes your psychology in a fundamental way. Which is why people also see my point, that as the new influx of users come in and decompress from hugbox algorithms and algorithms that program people to be deliberately combative, their cognitive dissonance can rub off on others if not monitored. I think that's why so many opinionated posts get sequestered into the autistic thunderdome while the posts exclusively about hard archival of data stay at the front of the website, and debate should be mature and reasonable while people exercise their opinions. That's one of the many things that makes Kiwi Farms truly great, and it needs to be maintained. Doubling back on my point about a need for more hands on deck. Also Jack Scaffaldi might die soon, left him out of the list but let's not forget about our pink chicken, stepson choking, limp clawed man.
 
His posts demonstrate that he absolutely does not.

tgd is mad that trannies are made fun of and started this thread whining about it. Such notions are completely unworthy of respect. And fuck you.
Are you okay?? And yes I do know the Insides and workings of this place, I was here before it was even called the farms as we know it dude, give me more credit than that.

I am not furious that trannies are made fun of, it was a stupid post I made like a year ago just in sideshows not getting the point of it. The purpose of this thread was to just simply discuss the arrogance of some users it is not based on previous grudge I have about how certain degenerates want to normalise pedophilia or cut their own dicks off to move out a fantasy should be treated. It was a year ago peoples opinions change over time.

He recently came into the "Videos of people dying" topic and tried to tone police it as well. He's probably been all over the farms doing shit like this recently.
Yes I’ll take credit for that, that was gay of me but I haven’t been going out of my way to police anyone else dude, don’t put words in my mouth.
 
Are you okay??
People really should just lighten up, you’ll be happier this way.
When you can't prove your accusations against your opponents you resort to commenting on their mental health. You're not caring or concerned. This is just another tactic to belittle, gaslight and bully your opponents into thinking "hey, maybe I am too arrogant." You don't care about anyone's mental health; you're just using it as another weapon for winning your faggoty little argument. This thread is filled with that craven tactic.
Insides and workings of this place, I was here before it was even called the farms as we know it dude, give me more credit than that.
You just doubleposted within a minute of each post.
 
Read the title of this thread
This is irrelevant. I am attempting to try and make people aware of how miserable and sour so much of the community has become, I only have that tone because I’m just trying to suggest ways we could improve it, I’m not asking anyone to heed my words obviously but like I said it’s just a suggestion. Otherwise what are you living for, being relentlessly cynical and downcast about everything is not a healthy way to live, they call them ‘lol’ cows for a reason.
 
I'm not arrogant enough. Anyway, it's natural that the off-topic forums would see so much use. Anyone can laugh at fools, but it takes some time to ease into laughing at fools to the quality expected here. I had to ease myself into it, but I'm getting accustomed to it well enough. There are better places to rant about politics than here.
 
Lol calm down.
Bro, why are you even continuing to engage?

You're saying it was a poorly thought post, which I can understand. I think you would be hard pressed to find anybody here who did not commit a miss step at one point or another. Just let it go.

You've been here for a while. You know that letting this shit die is the best way to go about it. If you were not in the thread, it would be dead already.

Just take it on the chin, and move to areas of the site you actually like. If you are right in your assessment, who gives a shit about newfags throwing vitriol all over the place? The people you identify as being part of the community you cherish are the only ones whose opinion should matter.

In my own experience, forums have always had this phenomenon one way or the other. New people come in and try super hard to project an image they think will appeal to others.

Given how KF is being presented in medias, it only makes sense that most new recruits think this is the place to call everybody a nigger, try to dox and swat them.

With this post, you don't accomplish much when it comes to these users. If they lurked, they would know what the community is like.

Instead, you insult every single person who actually cares and does not want to lumped in with retards.
 
The only thing that I really dislike here is when people performatively have to come into a discussion to proclaim how little they care and how everything is just a giant joke to them and they don’t hold any convictions at all. Like… good for you, I guess? Why is it so important to you that I know and believe that you don’t care about anything? Do all of your +2k posts consist of you telling people that you don’t care about anything, I’m too lazy to click and find out but that seems like a lot of posts coming from a man who is too cool to care about anything.

Just let the rest of us hold serious debates about silly topics. It‘s fun, and we‘re anonymous. Just be uncool.
 
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