You're both right.
However.. It just comes down *entirely* to luck.
The thing is, this girl at 23 is already fucked because she should be way more mature and switched on already to the ways of the world, and if she hasn't learnt it now, she won't.
Her only hope is finding some lame, similarly unintelligent dude to be with forever.
We can also assume she absolutely fucking blows at acting/doing anything within the actual framework of school, and is probably deeply annoying, and people are probably trying to ice her out so they don't get lumbered with her in groups where... they have to act things out and they have one hugely distracting person in the troupe (I don't really know what goes on in dram a school tbf but I am using my imagination)
Or something yk?