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- Apr 26, 2019
No, it doesn't. Door 1 is false. It goes back to the drunk/scholar dad example. If you are from an underachieving demographic, you should be ashamed of part of your history and you should seek to make changes. China is a good example that started making economic changes away from their communist ideas that they had adopted and let to stagnation and adopting some free market principles to start to do better. An example of a country that is refusing to make changes is Pakistan in relation to consaguinity; they have the highest rate of consanguinity in the world, shamelessly. After all if it was good enough for the prophet, it's good enough for them. It's causing an ever increase in birth complications.
You should be ashamed of the part of your history that is underachieving and yes, that means that some shame for brutalities can be appropriate as long as you don't let it dominate (like the scholar dad coming home drunk twice and being a bit of an ass). You have to keep things in perspective of course.
Door 2 is a false proposition as well. If I'm from a chinese family that knows the secret of making silk, yes, I only know that because I was born in the right family, but I still had to learn how to make it and guard its secret. The choice to follow in the footsteps still have to made and the sacrifices and effort to learn that. This means the personal choice isn't meaningless, even if you had the advantage of having good parents who passed it on to you.
It really boggles my mind that you would find it unpleasant for people to be connected to previous generations and groups larger than 1.
Because it keeps leading back to those doors. It keeps fucking happening, and when it does I want to pick up that cudgel of collectivism and beat them all about the head with it and ask them if they still love that shit when it's hurting them in particular.
I follow aristotle's thinking in the sense that a virtue is a balance between two things and the extremes are vices. If you want to go as far as possible into individualism I consider that as much as a threat as someone that wants to go as far into collectivization as possible. Why do you presume there would be no possibility of balance between the two?
Have you never experienced being part of a group effort? Of being responsible for something collectively, even if it's a group of 5 or 6, where you can't say "I OWN THIS", but only "WE DID THIS"?
Let's just say group projects of pretty much any size are magnets for do-nothings and free-riders who will happily drag other members under given the opportunity, rather than put in anything of worth themselves. I loathe working with people for this reason. I also want to reduce the variables in the equation to a bare fucking minimum to ensure that when problems arise I can determine their nature and correct course if necessary. I don't trust any given Tom, Dick or Harry to A. not fuck up and B. not obfuscate their fuck-ups in order to save face. I have seen it happen and I'm sick of dealing with it in situations where it's not ABSOLUTELY necessary.
Group efforts are great right up until the point they turn into quagmires of nepotism/favoritism, bullshitting and free-riding.