Attempting to Understand Cucks

[Aldeland]

What causes it to be attractive to people? It is such an opposite view point from my own that I have trouble seeing the allure.

 

[Gone Ham]

It’s a fetish. What do you expect. Why do you think some people are into feet or deathfats? They can’t help it

 

[Vingle]

You can't understand brain damage.

 

[themasterlurker]

They're losers, that's it

 

[Cypher]

closeted homosexuals

 

[Mnutu]

What causes it to be attractive to people? It is such an opposite view point from my own that I have trouble seeing the allure.

On the cuckolds part, it’s a mix of humiliation, auto-gynephilia, and pornography addiction. For the belle and the bull, it’s about dominance, control, and power. A well-adjusted person will be rightfully disgusted by the act and everyone involved in it because it is incredibly disgusting (which only helps the cuckold get off). It’s the same reasoning behind Sub men.

 

[Honest Fan Soni-chan]

I'm gonna second porn. I'm trying to quit watching it and the hard increase in black guys degrading white women in the most mainstream stuff is only helping.

 

[a mask of my own face]

drive to self erasure? probably a cope for doormat social status ("I'm shit and this confirms it"), or an inversion of high social status ("I'm such a chad I can endure this"). fetishes are commonly inversions of non sexual values. it's exciting cuz it's fucked up

 

[Exigent Circumcisions]

Ask your dad, LOL

 

[Red Hood]

I concur with the "porn addiction" theory. People are so used to porn that they can't get off without watching, rather than actually participating, in sex acts.

 

[Solid Snek]

Spoiler: According to cucks:

tl;dr it's because they're masochists who are keenly aware of their own deficiencies as men and lovers, and have learned to sexualize their feelings of anger / fear / helplessness.

I've also heard from several sources that cucks tend to have a lot of barely-concealed gay tendencies. If you're a queer but don't want to admit it, either to yourself or anyone else, then watching some dude fuck your wife is probably a "safe" outlet.

As for porn addiction, I'm not sure. It's certainly possible that porn plays a role, and I suspect it does (possibly by reinforcing feelings of sexual inadequacy?) - but so many people watch so much porn nowadays, that I'm not sure if it'll ever be possible to determine whether porn is causal, or coincidental, to cuckoldry.

 

[TVStactic]

What causes it to be attractive to people? It is such an opposite view point from my own that I have trouble seeing the allure.

your answer:

It’s a fetish. What do you expect. Why do you think some people are into feet or deathfats? They can’t help it

that's why we need to bring kinkshaming back into fashion, and while we're at it: stonings.

 

[Dyn]

From what I've read it seems to have a lot to do with them being political conservatives.

 

[L50LasPak]

There's an incredibly old theory that people violently terrified of rape will eventually develop a rape fetish because having it finally just happen to you would provide some kind of sense of "relief". This theory assumes people dwell on it a whole lot when they really have no reason to though. I guess if someone's biggest fear is being cuckolded and they dwell on it a lot the same could apply to them.

 

[Tim Buckley]

It's a deviation from masochism, like COCK AND BALL TORTURE

 

[RussianMozart]

Why would you want to understand this? What benefit do you get from understanding their mindset?

 

[Aldeland]

Why would you want to understand this? What benefit do you get from understanding their mindset?

I wish to understand the circus that we live in.

 

[Bad Gateway]

"tell me how to cum to this" lol

 

[Solid Snek]

There's an incredibly old theory that people violently terrified of rape will eventually develop a rape fetish because having it finally just happen to you would provide some kind of sense of "relief". This theory assumes people dwell on it a whole lot when they really have no reason to though. I guess if someone's biggest fear is being cuckolded and they dwell on it a lot the same could apply to them.

That's a good theory, and it's probably true in a lot of cases. See my post earlier; according to cucks, masochism is the primary appeal for them. You feel like you're an inadequate lover, you're worried your wife's going to fuck some roided up Chad; when it finally happens, it's horrible, but also weirdly a relief.

(a lot fetishes on the BDSM/rape spectrum seem to operate this way)

Again:

Just like skydiving, there's a pleasure and a rush in facing your fears. By playing with the things that scare us, we feel like we can control them better.

It's not just that he likes being cucked. It's that he's scared of being cucked. It's the fear of being cucked, being sexually humiliated and eventually having his wife leave him, that turns him on.

So, yeah. Violently terrified of being cucked - in the case of Oh Joy Sextoy guy at least, that's definitely part of why he's got the fetish. I'm not sure if it's true that conservatives are more cucky than leftists (was that from Pornhub search records by state or something? Heard it asserted before but don't remember where) However, if true, the obsessive fear factor might also explain the increase in cuckservative fetishists.

 

[CrippleThreat]

From what I've read it seems to have a lot to do with them being political conservatives.

For do-nothing individuals, they usually do work hard enough to get together with often good-looking women, and build a nice-looking family on a quality plot of land. However, it all goes to show that like their polar opposite (politics-wise), they cannot just live life happily. There always has to be "something."

Have a wife that truly loves you? "Hey honey, why don't spend some time with the pool boy? Go on, I'll wait."

Literally turning your idyllic life into shit just for the sake of "why the hell not?"