Not exactly a small selection of females, evidently.
Way I see it, dangerous guys are known for being fearless, confident and capable of providing protection. MMA fighters' girlfriends are almost always total smokeshows, no surprise there and TBH I kind of see it. If I was a really hot chick who'd get hit on everywhere I went, I'd want a tough bf/husband too. But there's a fine line between dangerous and TOO dangerous, you dont really know where that line is until you've seen some shit. I'm guessing a lot of lesbians (especially pooners) try to emulate that dangerous tough guy act because women have shown since we were apes just how down bad they are for that.
Also, "Hey can I try this, I heard women love it. You might like it."??? Lol, way to sound like you know what you're doing, guy. All I can say is I don't blame you for backing out of that.