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- Apr 15, 2021
For a long time I've been thinking about how my reaction to 'diversity' in media has changed over the past 6 or 7 years. To give a bit of background before the world went made with wokeness I considered myself a democrat because I didn't want people to be judged on stuff like sexuality/color/etc. During this time I was a decent proponent of shows having gay characters and would always be willing to praise it when I thought it was inserted tastefully and not in-your-face (even then I had some sense). Now, around 2014-2015 when things started to go publicly wrong and what I thought was just a hilariously dumb subculture on Tumblr became the mainstream attitude of an entire political party my attitude slowly started to change. I realized I was probably always a Libertarian since the left had become worse than I had ever seen the right, but that didn't change the fact I was still pro-gay in terms of rights but suddenly media representation changed for me. As I became more aware of how much pretty much all entertainment media was run by people who want to push an agenda it went from something I liked seeing, to something I didn't care about until it was finally something I actively disliked and avoided.
Now I cannot look at a single gay character in media and cynically think they don't exist for any kind of character, writing or story reasons but simply to check a box. Whenever I see one now, which is in 99% of everything, I just cringe at the very idea. Part of me still thinks that sometimes it must actually be an actual character decision but because of all forced corporate shilling it's near impossible for me to accept it as such. It sure doesn't help how obvious it is in 90% of circumstances, but even that 10% I don't think I can take at face value. Over-saturation has just ruined it for me and now what shouldn't be too terribly rare a trait for some characters just feels like something that cannot be done right.
Is this too unusual a change in perspective? Has anyone else had this kind of change? Am I letting modern problems effect my view of media too much? Do you just hate fags and none of this is relevant to you at all?
Now I cannot look at a single gay character in media and cynically think they don't exist for any kind of character, writing or story reasons but simply to check a box. Whenever I see one now, which is in 99% of everything, I just cringe at the very idea. Part of me still thinks that sometimes it must actually be an actual character decision but because of all forced corporate shilling it's near impossible for me to accept it as such. It sure doesn't help how obvious it is in 90% of circumstances, but even that 10% I don't think I can take at face value. Over-saturation has just ruined it for me and now what shouldn't be too terribly rare a trait for some characters just feels like something that cannot be done right.
Is this too unusual a change in perspective? Has anyone else had this kind of change? Am I letting modern problems effect my view of media too much? Do you just hate fags and none of this is relevant to you at all?