Lolcow Dani Sparkavery / Daniel Pelletier / Dani Pelletier/ @sparkavery - Chronically useless deadbeat troon dad who whines about his ex on twitter, embarrassment to his kids, is probably drunk right now

This was a great read, really well documented
He’s a giant asshole and I really felt some secondhand sadness for his family, especially his poor kids. I can’t imagine what kind of therapy they’ll need, but won’t get, because “transphobia”
I agree. It's nice to see a troon who focuses his spite on his family and friends instead of the whole world. It makes for a more focused narrative.

It reminds me of a really great book by christine benvenuto, "Sex Changes". (recent, available in Kindle form) same autogynephile situation from the wife's perspective that's wrought in explicit detail. Very interesting. People like Dani and Christine's husband really undergo a massive transformation from typical boring and weak husband to a massively self involved black hole of narcissism. Kiwifarms is merely the hubble telescope observing the accretion disk of relationship wreckage rapidly being broken apart by the massive gravity of their troon self involvement. Top stuff.
 
This troon will never be an actor..

Happy
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Wanting to die
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Dan is dipping his toe back in the waters of internet oversharing, I see. He got some pointed criticism on his Twitter account after this post, now deleted:
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Subsequently, his Twitter account was made private but is now reopened.

I’m sure the people who critiqued his parenting choices were from Reddit because Kiwis would not poke cows, especially not cows at home with tiny newborns, even if said cows were really dumb.

And please indulge a breastfeeding sperge, which I’m not going to spoiler, in the event a non-member like Dan happens by.

The problem with dudes nursing newborns is not that their moobs produce “pus” — I’m sure their vestigial male mammary glands produce milk. The issue is the quality and quantity of the milk and those factors are critical for a newborn, especially. In the the first couple of weeks nursing is very effortful for newborns and they need a big payoff in both areas. Moobs are not up to the job. They don’t have the mammary infrastructure, so to speak, of normal female development after a year or two of hormones plus some weeks of domperidone. (Still no word on whether domperidone shows up in the milk, btw.) Also, it is the act of nursing that triggers milk production, so that newborn effort needs to be focused on the boobs that can actually feed them.

TL;DR: Moobs will never be an adequate substitute for boobs, even if hormones or certain anti-psychotic meds confuse them into leaking. Don’t make a newborn find that out the hard way.
 
Dan is dipping his toe back in the waters of internet oversharing, I see. He got some pointed criticism on his Twitter account after this post, now deleted:
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Subsequently, his Twitter account was made private but is now reopened.

I’m sure the people who critiqued his parenting choices were from Reddit because Kiwis would not poke cows, especially not cows at home with tiny newborns, even if said cows were really dumb.

And please indulge a breastfeeding sperge, which I’m not going to spoiler, in the event a non-member like Dan happens by.

The problem with dudes nursing newborns is not that their moobs produce “pus” — I’m sure their vestigial male mammary glands produce milk. The issue is the quality and quantity of the milk and those factors are critical for a newborn, especially. In the the first couple of weeks nursing is very effortful for newborns and they need a big payoff in both areas. Moobs are not up to the job. They don’t have the mammary infrastructure, so to speak, of normal female development after a year or two of hormones plus some weeks of domperidone. (Still no word on whether domperidone shows up in the milk, btw.) Also, it is the act of nursing that triggers milk production, so that newborn effort needs to be focused on the boobs that can actually feed them.

TL;DR: Moobs will never be an adequate substitute for boobs, even if hormones or certain anti-psychotic meds confuse them into leaking. Don’t make a newborn find that out the hard way.
I hadn't even realised how much I missed this horrorshow.
But can he please go back to passive aggressive ex-wife attacks and stalking random acquaintances and stop forcing infants to suckle nasty watery moob juice?
FFS I've known women to pump and dump for weeks because they had to take a med that's not guaranteed safe for nursing. But for this scrote his success at secreting liquid supersedes all needs of an actual small person give me my hats now.
 
Dan is dipping his toe back in the waters of internet oversharing, I see. He got some pointed criticism on his Twitter account after this post, now deleted:
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Subsequently, his Twitter account was made private but is now reopened.

I’m sure the people who critiqued his parenting choices were from Reddit because Kiwis would not poke cows, especially not cows at home with tiny newborns, even if said cows were really dumb.

And please indulge a breastfeeding sperge, which I’m not going to spoiler, in the event a non-member like Dan happens by.

The problem with dudes nursing newborns is not that their moobs produce “pus” — I’m sure their vestigial male mammary glands produce milk. The issue is the quality and quantity of the milk and those factors are critical for a newborn, especially. In the the first couple of weeks nursing is very effortful for newborns and they need a big payoff in both areas. Moobs are not up to the job. They don’t have the mammary infrastructure, so to speak, of normal female development after a year or two of hormones plus some weeks of domperidone. (Still no word on whether domperidone shows up in the milk, btw.) Also, it is the act of nursing that triggers milk production, so that newborn effort needs to be focused on the boobs that can actually feed them.

TL;DR: Moobs will never be an adequate substitute for boobs, even if hormones or certain anti-psychotic meds confuse them into leaking. Don’t make a newborn find that out the hard way.
I hadn't even realised how much I missed this horrorshow.
But can he please go back to passive aggressive ex-wife attacks and stalking random acquaintances and stop forcing infants to suckle nasty watery moob juice?
FFS I've known women to pump and dump for weeks because they had to take a med that's not guaranteed safe for nursing. But for this scrote his success at secreting liquid supersedes all needs of an actual small person give me my hats now.
Maybe I’ve missed something but this isn’t the same Dan. This guy lives in Denver and he has a different birthday from the OP which says March.
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This guy also has nothing but praise for his wife.
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But I’m not saying say that he isn’t worth looking into.
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Maybe I’ve missed something but this isn’t the same Dan. This guy lives in Denver and he has a different birthday from the OP which says March.
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This guy also has nothing but praise for his wife.
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But I’m not saying say that he isn’t worth looking into.
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I think you’re right! There was some thread that made me think he had changed Twitter handles and gotten a lot happier and more mellow but I was mistaken. I don’t know if this Dan warrants his own thread but he would be an ideal example for a Trans Moob Feeding thread.
 
I think you’re right! There was some thread that made me think he had changed Twitter handles and gotten a lot happier and more mellow but I was mistaken. I don’t know if this Dan warrants his own thread but he would be an ideal example for a Trans Moob Feeding thread.
There is a FTM seahorse parent thread. It may be worth kicking the tires on a MTF "mom" thread.
 
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