Dave from boyinaband is an abuser, polyamorous and a hebephile (youtuber)

I wrote to the admin this morning with this story and he gave me a link to reset a password and have this account to post it. You can just have a look at the screenshots if you don't want to read the whole thing. Thank you
I'm sorry, I didn't know where else to put it. If it's the wrong place for it, I'm sorry
Alright, I’ll at least offer some benefit of the doubt and try to help, since this is meant to be the place for fixing up opening posts.

1. Read up on this post as a general overview for writing an OP:

OPs on this site will typically offer a summation of why a person or community is interesting, usually with screenshots, videos, photos, archives, etc. sprinkled throughout. You want the reader, who’s often completely new to this topic, to walk away from the thread with a baseline understanding of what makes this person/group stand out.

2. I get that this subject is far more personal, though when you say things like:
David is now a 35yo polyamorous man with over a decade of provable history of dating girls much younger than him, including his highly gullible, obsessive, young fans.
I would like to see this provable history with more compelling evidence beyond a few imgur links of screenshots. The cropped text messages are especially dubious as there was a past situation with Slazo being accused of raping his ex-girlfriend, with many text messages being maliciously taken out of context. After he disproved many of the claims, thread and public perception then shifted to focus on his accuser and her friends being a bunch of vindictive assholes. I’m not saying that you’re all definitely pulling the same shit as them, though as it stands, the information you provide needs to convince us that there’s some legitimacy.

Also, while you can still include the imgur links, you should be adding the images into the post itself (attach files and then insert any images, audio or video that are relevant).

3. If you need examples of how to go about writing this beyond the letter, consider looking through some of these threads that covered other popular creators accused of some heinous shit:




TL;DR: We’re open to publicly posting this thread to the site, but you have to put in the legwork to convince us (and anyone outside the site) that all of this is legitimate and provable.
 
This is so stupid, for so many reasons.

First, none of this actually happened to OP? Sure.
A 23 year old dating a 17 year old is not that bad, it certainly does not make him a pedophile, as she claims.
Writing letters to his family: pathetic.
A porn addiction?! Oh no! Anyway.

As a girl who knows how girls like this think and operate, it's just sour grapes. These bitches are butt hurt that they eventually got dumped, left for another female, whatever.

He always refuses to take any personal responsibility and accountability for how cruel, vindictive, callous, hurtful, and abusive he is. If you ever wondered why years of therapy never really helped him, it's because he cannot face who he really is, and he's unable to take ownership of the things he did, painting himself in bright light in front of his therapists. That's a ticket to nowhere.

Oooh, a guy treats a girl like shit. In another news, water is wet. OP is gay and Dave probably would not have sex with her. I thought he was gay anyway. Come back when you have pics of him putting gerbils in his butt or something, lol.

edit: that shit on imgur, which I can't get past with an adblocker, is from 2009!!!!!!!! jfc
 
Archiving the texts here directly instead of relying on Imgur links would be a good idea
 
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I want you to know that we tried to handle this privately and quietly - we sent a letter to his family in attempts to stop him but without any results.
We know you love your son/brother. We know you just want him to be happy. But he's not happy, he destroys people. He's an abuser, a groomer, a pedofile. We know this is hard, we never waned to do this but what about those girls? They're people. They're not lesser than him. Please, we don't know what to do. This needs to stop, he needs to be stopped, please.
Why did you send that shit to his brother/sister and dad/mom?
 
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i mean if this guy's a groomer then the issue is they can't figure out how to make a lolcow thread I guess

Well at least that’s what prospering grounds is for. Hear people out, ask them for more solid proof, and see if they deliver. If they do, great. If they don’t, then that’s on them.

Yea sorry, I meant it as just lighthearted ribbing more than any real critique. I'll take the dumbrates.
 
This is not shocking in the slightest. Dave has always been a creepy feminist retard and this is just everything coming out as it always does with these types.

Admittedly I haven't seen anything from this guy in near a decade and to be perfectly honest I can't remember what gay meme song on YouTube I remember him from, but his hair and his fucking general aura of scummy faggot are two things I won't forget about him.
He did a few videos I really liked debunking Prince Ea, a retard philosophaster rapper whose 2deep4me "work" was popular on Facebook for a while. He also collaborated with iDubbbz for a RiceGum diss track.
 
There's quite a few typos in your op.

Everyone can misspell a word it's fine but it caught my attention because multiple people wrote this and you already sent it to multiple of his family members.
It's most likely not the first version of this text and multiple people had to read to give you feedback.

That's why it's odd.
 
Lurk moar and get to know this forum's culture, just to get a feel how a thread should look like. That would be my best advice.
Archive everything, nobody will believe you if you do not provide proof of everything. Better luck next time!
 
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