Dave from boyinaband is an abuser, polyamorous and a hebephile (youtuber)

idk why anybody would date this
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gagabobo1997 said:
Could be a good story if there were any proofs -_-. I wouldn't be surprised if it were true, but there is no reason to believe it is atm.
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Except there's nothing even in this story that shows him as being anything other than a typical douche bag. They claim he's a pedophile, an abuser, and a groomer, but literally offer nothing that would back that claim up. They write huge walls of texts to describe how mean he is and how bad he made the women feel, yet never actually offer any details to clarify why they're accusing him of being a pedo/groomer/abuser, all very serious claims to call someone.

If you take out all the emotional drivel meant to pull at your heart strings, this is what they're claiming makes him a pedophile/groomer/abuser:

1. He tries to make himself sound cool to get laid;
2. He dates multiple women at once, and then dumps them when he gets bored of them
3. He's addicted to porn and sex;
4. He acted like he cared about these women, only to dump them and act cold after he got laid;
5. He has a poly relationship with some women who have never done poly before;
6. He was a bad friend and bandmate;
7. He never apologizes or admits he's wrong;
8. He uses his depression as a way to gain sympathy or excuse poor behavior;
9. He dated a 17 year old when he was 23.

If we take all of this at face value and assume it's all 1000% true, then we're left with a man who is a gross degenerate and an asshole. That's all. Why would that deserve a thread? It's not funny or entertaining. The entire letter reads like it came from disgruntled exes that can't get over the fact that they were used and lied to.

The fact that they sent this letter to his parents and are shocked that they didn't respond only highlights how crazy and personal this whole thing is.
 
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Congratulations, @7 Girls. You played yourself.

Even if someone else comes along and makes a decent OP about this dude that proves even half your claims beyond reasonable doubt, it'll be tainted by association with your absolute abortion of a post. A histrionic meltdown and a lack of receipts does not a good OP make.

Do better.
 
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7 Girls said:
...it's still a real concern with a pattern confirmed by a double-digit number of girls.
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As everyone else has said, the OP is terrible. Your evidence is a random bunch of out of context cropped screenshots, some of which are censored, a lot of which you can't even see who is saying what and could just be random anons shit stirring, along with a 'letter' sent to his family which mainly is "some YT dude is a dick sometimes", the most damning thing you seem to have is that he apparently hit a girlfriend but there is no proof of that. You mention sexual abuse but really didn't mention anything about him sexually abusing girls in your letter.

My favourite bit is: "Let us add that this relationship in many countries would be considered as pedophilia."

So, by that you mean what he's doing ISN'T pedophilia where he lives, because he's English and their age of consent is 16... so him being with a 17 year old (when he was 23) isn't illegal... which was also 12 years ago apparently. The fan 'falling in love with him' at 15 makes literally no difference to the story apart from you trying to get under that 16 year age of consent, but her feelings to him at that age mean nothing if he isn't fucking her. If this was also your point for him being a groomer, that's not grooming. Him being a celebrity and just his existence makes a girl want to sleep with him before she hits the legal age, that doesn't make him a groomer. You don't even imply they had any form of communication when she was underage.

But then you randomly claim he is attracted to "pre-teen girls"... but call him a hebephile, but if he's interested in pre-teen girls he would be a paedophile, but you provide no evidence again.

Your point also really loses some weight when you're complaining about him "leaving" lots of girls. Surely you should be celebrating that? Instead you sound upset about getting dumped.

The main points seem to be:
1. He's 35 and likes being with younger girls (10 years younger than him... which is 25, not even an unreasonable age gap)
2. He may have hit one girl, once.
3. He's an emo attention seeker (One look at one of his videos told me that)
4. He's not a good friend to people (Refer to point 3)
5. He dates fans. So? They're all adults. They're consenting to being in a relationship with him. So what that he earns more than them?
6. He 'coerces' them into being in a poly relationship. You do realise they could just break up with him and say no? And if that's the best you have, that he convinces the girl to let him cheat on her and she agrees, you really don't have much.
7. That you aren't willing to do anything apart from cry to his mum to stop him dating 25 year old girls... and if this mum won't do it, you want KiwiFarms to do... something?

This is not shocking that Boyinaband is a weirdo, like I said, one look at him confirms he's a weirdo.
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At least this ex girlfriend had the balls to do a music video response citing racism. (Archive)
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I wish I hadn't looked at that but at least it kinda confirms that the OP and their "group" (if one even exists) are a bunch of jealous ex-girlfriends who are upset they were fuck buddies and/or dumped.

A diss track by an ex-girlfriend who rants that Pewdiepie is a Nazi so he shouldn't have collabed with him, that he's somehow a racist for... not being nice enough to her I think, being jealous that he was hanging out with other people and not texting her enough, all wrapped in the nice bow where she claims she's such a great SJW (her own words) that she can beat him in all of his arguments and if your Youtube isn't about Social Justice you're being "stupid" (her own words).

There's literally nothing to it. There isn't even any abuse. She comes across like a fuck buddy who was upset she never reached girlfriend status and he didn't give a shit when she was ranting at him about SJW shit because he dared hang out with white people. When your main arguments are you being upset that he didn't look like at you like a queen and didn't text you back quickly, you're probably the mental one.

The description of the video is even better since it is full blown "Why didn't he like me enough? Why'd he stop texting me back? How DARE he speak to Pewdiepie when he'd stuck his dick in me?!?! Was he not even THINKING about me?!?!?! He criticised INDIA?!?!?! BUT I'M INDIAN!!!!!!"

What a shit show.
 
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out of all the websites, why tf would you pick KF and insta? i'm sorry but this post was obviously written by a bunch of retarded normie women who only use instagram. anyone with any basic internet knowledge would know this is just discrediting your claims.
 
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[insert "Love from Kazakhstan" quote here]

OP you are a turbofaggot and nothing here is funny. Wahhhhh I dated a shitty asshole. Yeah, you and every other woman on the planet. Go to the cops if he did anything legitimately wrong. OH WAIT

Fucking retard.
 
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I have a feeling OP is a BPD whore who needs to take the meds but regardless Boyinaband deserves to be made fun of helping make this atrocity:
I tried listening to this song for the first time in years. I don't know how the fuck I enjoyed this shit. The production is annoying as fuck, there is no flow to any of these bars, and the bars are so fucking corny (DOOD... YOU'RE LIKE A HOUSE TOUR... YOU'RE ALSO LIKE THE DOG FILTER ON SNAPCHAT TOO...). At least RiceGum managed to buy some decent production and writers, what the fuck even is this
 
7 Girls said:
Since you're quite upset about the quality of the post - I will close it and after made one with proper archives, not cropped screenshots etc. Maybe I hadn't handled this well cause I don't know your forum that well but it's still a real concern with a pattern confirmed by a double-digit number of girls.
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Hey guess what? You can't!
 
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