Disaster Dead in 6 hours: How Nigerian sextortion scammers targeted my son - They pretended to be a pretty girl his age and flirted with him, sending sexual pictures to coax him into sharing explicit photos of himself.

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Sextortion is the fastest-growing scam affecting teenagers globally and has been linked to more than 27 suicides in the US alone. Many of the scammers appear to be from Nigeria - where authorities are defending their actions and are under pressure to do more.

It has been two years since Jenn Buta’s son Jordan killed himself after being targeted by scammers who lured him into sending them explicit images of himself, and then tried to blackmail him.

She still can’t bring herself to change anything about his bedroom.

The 17-year-old’s basketball jerseys, clothes, posters and bedsheets are just how he left them.

The curtains are closed, and the door is shut to keep memories of him that only a parent would understand.

“It still smells like him. That’s one of the reasons I still have the door closed. I can still smell that sweat, dirt, cologne mix in this room. I'm just not ready to part with his stuff,” she said.

Jordan was contacted by sextortion scammers on Instagram.

They pretended to be a pretty girl his age and flirted with him, sending sexual pictures to coax him into sharing explicit photos of himself.

They then blackmailed him for hundreds of pounds to stop them sharing the pictures online to his friends.

Jordan sent as much money as he could and warned the sextortionists he would kill himself if they spread the images. The criminals replied: “Good… Do that fast - or I'll make you do it.”

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Samuel, 22, and Samson Ogoshi, 20, arrested in Lagos, are awaiting sentencing in the US

It was less than six hours from the time Jordan started communicating until the time he ultimately took his life.

“There's actually a script online,” Jenn told BBC News, from her home in Michigan, in the north of the US. "And these people are just going through the script and putting that pressure on.

"And they're doing it quick, because then they can move on to the next person, because it's about volume.”

The criminals were tracked to Nigeria, arrested, and then extradited to the US.

Two brothers from Lagos - Samuel Ogoshi, 22, and Samson Ogoshi, 20 - are awaiting sentencing after pleading guilty to child sexploitation charges. Another Nigerian man linked to Jordan’s death and other cases is fighting extradition.

Jordan’s tragic story has become a touch point in the fight against the growing problem of sextortion.

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Jordan's mother, Jenn, has posted dozens of videos to raise awareness

Jenn is a now high-profile campaigner on TikTok – using the account Jordan set up for her – to raise awareness about the dangers of sextortion to young people. Her videos have been liked more than a million times.

It’s feared that sextortion is under-reported due to its sensitive nature. But US crime figures show cases more than doubled last year, rising to 26,700, with at least 27 boys having killed themselves in the past two years.

Researchers and law enforcement agencies point to West Africa, and particularly Nigeria, as a hotspot for where attackers are based.

In April, two Nigerian men were arrested after a schoolboy from Australia killed himself. Two other men are on trial in Lagos, after the suicides of a 15-year-old boy in the US and a 14-year-old in Canada.

In January, US cyber-company Network Contagion Research Institute (NCRI) highlighted a web of Nigerian TikTok, YouTube and Scribd accounts sharing tips and scripts for sextortion. Many of the discussions and videos are in Nigerian Pidgin dialect.

It’s not the first time that Nigeria’s young tech-savvy population has embraced a new wave of cyber-crime.

The term Yahoo Boys is used to describe a portion of the population that use cyber-crime to earn a living. It comes from the early 2000s wave of Nigerian Prince scam emails which spread through the Yahoo email service.

Dr Tombari Sibe, from Digital Footprints Nigeria, says cyber-fraud such as sextortion has become normalised to young people in the country: “There's also the big problem of unemployment and of poverty.

"All these young ones who don't really have much - it's become almost like a mainstream activity where they don't really think too much about the consequences. They just see their colleagues making money.”

African human rights charity Devatop has said the current methods of handling sextortion in Nigeria have failed to effectively curb the practice. And a report from NCRI said that celebrating sextortion crimes are an established part of the internet subculture in the country.

In an exclusive interview with the BBC, the director of Nigeria’s National Cyber Crime Centre (NCCC) defended his police force’s actions, and insisted it was working hard to catch criminals and deter others from carrying out attacks.

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Sextortion criminals are not only from Nigeria, Cyber Crime Centre director Uche Ifeanyi Henry says

Uche Ifeanyi Henry said his officers were “hitting criminals hard” and said it is “laughable” that anyone should accuse Nigeria of not taking sextortion crime seriously.

“We are giving criminals a very serious hit. A lot have been prosecuted and a lot have been arrested,” he said. "Many of these criminals are moving to neighbouring countries now because of our activity.”

The NCCC director pointed to the fact that the government has spent millions of pounds on a state-of-the-art cyber-crime centre, to show it was taking cyber-crime seriously, especially sextortion.

He said Nigerian teenagers are also being targeted, and he argued that the criminals were not just a Nigerian problem, with other sextortionists in south-east Asia. Tackling them would require global support, he said.

With that in mind, the director and his technical team are this week visiting the UK’s National Crime Agency, which last month issued a warning to children and schools about a rise in sextortion cases.

The visit is designed to improve collaboration on sextortion and other cyber-crime investigations. It follows similar recent meetings with Japanese police.

Meanwhile, Jenn Buta continues to campaign alongside Jordan’s father John DeMay. They regularly give advice to young people who may become victims.

Advice that Jenn and many law enforcement agencies regularly give people targeted by sextortionists includes:
  • Remember you are not alone and this is not your fault
  • Report the predator’s account, via the platform’s safety feature
  • Block the predator from contacting you
  • Save the profile or messages - they can help law enforcement identify and stop the predator
  • Ask for help from a trusted adult or law enforcement before sending money or more images
  • Co-operating with the predator rarely stops the blackmail and harassment - but law enforcement can
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kinda darwinian tbh, kid shoulda known better, really if gen z cant spot this shit a mile away what odds do the oldies have
He is a 17-year-old horny boy; scams even work on people with jobs in cybersecurity.

These scammers target teenage boys, who are often still extremely insecure about their sexuality, especially those growing up within the propaganda framework of the West.
 
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Is this a thing high school boys do now? Straight ones? Is this something actual female teens are requesting?

Because based on what life was like as a teenager in the 1990s...

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I think it happens about as often as people giving away their million dollar inheritance to the owner of the first email they come across.

This scam format is as old as social media. I remember it from Facebook in the 2000s. Only pants on head retards falling for it back then too.

Still sad though. Had this kid resisted the impulse to an hero the outcome probably wouldn't even have been half as bad as his imagination. And the would have learned a valuable life lesson to be less retarded.
 
I have no sympathy for this. Don't send compromising information of yourself to strangers on the Internet. I don't understand why this guideline is so difficult for people to follow.
Its not even compromising, its just a dick pick.
Just tell them they are faggots for wanting to see dudes dicks and that if they dont send you 100$, you will contact their fathers and tell them their sons are faggot queers.
And then move on with your life.

teenage boys, who are often still extremely insecure about their sexuality
ok groomer
 
Anyone in IT is forced to learn about the 419 Nigerian prince scam. It should be public education taught in schools.

I just got one via email. It was hilarious. Edwards as a first name. Bad grammar all around. I was thinking "Who falls for this?" But sadly people do fall for it.
 
It really should be taught in schools at this point how to identify scams and cretins who want to exploit you.

First lesson: The pretty lady sending you pictures out of the blue is not a woman, nor are they in to you. It's a nigger in Africa who wants your money and asshole pictures.
I haven't thought about this in years but my middle school actually did have us all go through an "Internet Safety" class. I guess I forgot because it was like "okay took a typing class and now do this other computer class" but it was 35 minutes of goofing around as long as we paid attention to 15 minutes of a dorky white dude explaining why you should never give personal information to anyone online, what phishing was, pop-ups, Spam, ransomware, all sorts of things.
Really thinking back on it I have no idea how he was able to get that class approved because it was like a 70% black and Mexican middle school right near the "murder capital" of the state.
That teacher probably saved a few hundred young kids from a lot of trouble because I never heard of anybody I went to middle school with having any Internet shit go wrong in their lives. I learned the terms "flaming" and "flame-wars" for the first time in middle school because of that teacher actually, what a hero.
 
“If you don’t give me money, I’ll send this video of you jacking off to your friends, coworkers and loved ones.”

The correct answer is “lol awesome and that’s funny, do it, nigger.” Then brag about your weiner size and grip strength later. Then get some Nigerian retards busted on CP distribution.
 
“It still smells like him. That’s one of the reasons I still have the door closed. I can still smell that sweat, dirt, cologne mix in this room. I'm just not ready to part with his stuff,” she said.
I get that she's grieving. But that's fucking gross and creepy. It's been two years. Move on.

Also, as people have said, if you're fragile enough to kill yourself over getting catfished for nudes, it's definitely a Darwin award.

Most of the time they won't actually show it to anyone. But even if they do, the worst that can really happen is you get embarassed, learn a lesson, and, if applicable, report them to law enforcement.
 
The kid doesn't look ugly. If you're in good shape and not ugly, they threaten to send it to your relatives and everyone at your school, tell them to eat shit. Anyone that says anything to you, you say "Yeah, you probably wish you looked that good naked". Any girl that mention it say "You've seen mine, show me yours" and any guy that looks at them say "Ha! Queer!".

The winning move is not to be retarded, but baring that, I'd go with the above strategy.

Being a 4/10, anyone asked me for pics I'd just reply, "Trust me, you don't want those nightmares"
 
Wait for white women to claim they're good bois, didn' do nuffin and should be let go
 
You've never been a teenage boy. The horny monster can make dudes desperate.

Teenage boys have a limited amount of blood. When it concentrates in an area other than the brain, they have the potential to suffer serious cognitive dysfunction which leads to a major limitation in the capacity for rational thought.
 
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