Do Men Even Like Women?

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Men of the Farms: is that true?
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I think this is true. But the men who react violently are a minority, and they usually do so because they don't understand the real reason behind their anger. It doesn't feel good for them to be corrected or challenged by a woman, not because the correction is wrong, but because, on some level, it feels the same as being corrected by a child. For most people, that's annoying, and for men who can't manage their emotions well, that annoyance turns into frustration or anger.

Once a man understands that women are fundamentally different from men, and, in many ways, closer to children in how they think, argue, or react emotionally, then there's no real reason to take it personally. Getting corrected by a woman doesn't have to feel like an insult. It can just be brushed off as a “silly moment,” the same way you would when a kid says something out of place. And sometime they can just be right the same way a kid could be. That doesn't mean you should hate them, it just means you recognize the dynamic for what it is. But it is harder for men to find the right balance between seeing women as they are, not fully as kids, and not fully as men.

That’s why the men who constantly rant in the women-hating thread come across as weak or even effeminate. They're letting themselves be emotionally rattled by people they shouldn't see as fellow men. Instead of learning how to live with women and navigate the differences, they act like women are supposed to meet them on the same level, which is unrealistic. Getting angry at a child for acting like a child makes no sense, and neither does getting angry at women for acting like women.

The same logic applies to people who obsess over the men-hate thread, it’s pointless. Men and women are fundamentally different. Treating those differences as if they shouldn’t exist or expecting the same kind of behavior from both will only lead to constant frustration and emotional burnout. Both men and women need to understand that we are complementary, so turning everything into a battle of men vs. women is pointless. But it makes more sense for women to complain about men than for men doing the same thing. It is only an issue when men are reacting to women like they are men too.
 
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The Strongest Haaton said:
While I'm a resident user of the woman-hate thread, it's not all women I hate. Just particular behaviors. It isn't even hard to be decent either, just:
  • no feminism or anything like that
  • don't sleep around or do only fans
  • no tats, piercings, or unnatural color hair dye
That's it. That's literally all it takes for most men to start off with a positive disposition to you. Anything else is just normal preferences. Heck, some men won't even make the third bullet point a problem either. The bar is so low, but somehow this is too hard.
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You don't like a nice set of earrings on a girl? You don't like the smile after getting your girlfriend/wife a nice piece of jewelry that she'll think about every time she puts them on and you go on a date?

Well then, enjoy your boyfriend.
 
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TayTweets said:
I'd say not really given the large number of males that keep praying for robotwaifus and artificial wombs. Then again they're low value males so I may be wrong.
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Most of the desire for robot sex is from people stuck in the modern dating pool. A fate that even other women wouldn't wish on anyone because of how nasty modern women can be.
The amount of feminists that decided to go bi or lesbian and then admit that men were right all along is quite funny.
 
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I think a lot of people do just despise the opposite sex due to not wanting to have to accommodate for them, but rather have the other person do the accommodating.

It's their way or the highway, which make for a poor relationship or one where the person is riding it out like it was an amusement park ride like Pirates of the Caribbean. Which does work for some people that don't want to have to make a lot of decisions, but is really going to annoy the shit out of people that wanted a relationship where each person contributes.
 
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I don’t know how you can be a single man for any stretch of time and not start seeing women through jade-colored glasses. Women are like sexual camels; they don't have that problem.

But some of it is just internet brain rot. I can't speak to politics outside the U.S., but here, the default assumption is that every woman teaches feminist pottery while wearing a pussy hat. Half of them voted for Trump, but conservatives are still stuck in Rush Limbaugh’s feminazi freakout loop.

Even in the “actually, Stalin was too moderate” spaces of the left, women are casually lumped in with trannies / BLM and blamed for costing Bernie the presidency.

Of course, this very normal discourse only happens online, it's not a real thing.
 
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I will say this, this is probably the only community that I've seen to have an active and explicit "man vs woman" gender war.

I mean, of course sometimes I say "☕" with my male friends, and I expect women do the same when talking about men, but it's not hatred as much as it's just fun banter. If a woman is cool, she's cool, if a woman is an idiot, she's an idiot, not much I can say really.

If you participate in one of those hate threads and feel threatend by the kiwi members of the opposite sex, then idk, go outside I guess, lul.
 
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SCRAM said:
You don't like a nice set of earrings on a girl? You don't like the smile after getting your girlfriend/wife a nice piece of jewelry that she'll think about every time she puts them on and you go on a date?
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I do not think thats what he said.... and is the "hur dur ur gay!" response still a thing now?
Captain Syrup said:
I don’t know how you can be a single man for any stretch of time and not start seeing women through jade-colored glasses. Women are like sexual camels; they don't have that problem.

But some of it is just internet brain rot. I can't speak to politics outside the U.S., but here, the default assumption is that every woman teaches feminist pottery while wearing a pussy hat. Half of them voted for Trump, but conservatives are still stuck in Rush Limbaugh’s feminazi freakout loop.

Even in the “actually, Stalin was too moderate” spaces of the left, women are casually lumped in with trannies / BLM and blamed for costing Bernie the presidency.

Of course, this very normal discourse only happens online, it's not a real thing.
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Women do tend to vote left , and if you talked to a girl, more often than not that's exactly what she'll be.

But i do agree with your main point, men online will blame the politics for their lack of success , when it is most likely other things.I mean a bunch or right wing dudes do not seem to have any issue, and last i checked left wing men are not having way more success in the dating market.
 
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I like women but they occupy a completely separate form of social connection than men do. It will always be a different kind of friendship from the kind I have with other men.

Most of the time this is fine but there's a certain kind of woman who wants to be 'one of the guys' and who always gets pissy with me when I refuse to treat them as such.
 
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Fcret said:
there's a certain kind of woman who wants to be 'one of the guys' and who always gets pissy with me when I refuse to treat them as such.
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This is one of the things I hate the most. Very, very few women can achieve that status. Most of the ones I know are usually sleeping around the friend group and causing drama surrounding that action.
 
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Stan said:
Men of the Farms: is that true?
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No
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Do you even like women? If so, why?
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Yes
Because they are women
The rest fall into femcel/poon/twat territory

It may come as a shock, but having a vagina doesn't automatically make a said person attractive/desirable. Same goes for having a dick.
People are slightly more evolved than dogs that do it on the street (not all tho).
So having a conscience, functioning mind and other traits becomes important long term.
While men do like a female appearance, the modern experience is like opening a nice jug of milk and finding out it has spoiled already. You've been duped, again.
 
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As a heterosexual male i'm attracted to women on a physical level, but on an intellectual one, unlike in my youth, I despise women.
I'm sure i'm not the only one who has to deal with this internal conflict, where my base instincts and my rational mind are completely at odds with each other. Luckily I got older I mellowed out a lot.
 
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I often wonder if the problem is that men desire and want and need women and yet at the same time don’t like a lot of what they are. The clash between those things causes the problem. Desiring something you have often negative feelings towards but you can’t do without it.
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The infinite wisdom of god at making women so pretty.
 
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