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If I had to start all over here's what I would have told young nanny911:
It does matter where you begin! One of my mistakes was diving right into drawing what I wanted, without understanding perspective, volume, composition, or even how
to use a fucking pencil and not use a ballpoint pen to sketch. Here's what I suggest, DO start with the primitive shapes, the sphere, cube, cone, and cylinder, but you don't need to draw them 1,000 times, that's silly and wasteful of your time. Besides, those shapes are used in all drawings, so you'll have plenty of practice, trust me. From there, learn proportions. You will not believe how useful those are! There are many, but the most important are proportions of the body, and proportions of the head. I suggest writing them down and keeping them nearby when you draw because you will use them everytime, eventually you'll memorize them. Next, learn perspective, 1-point and 2-point are the most important, followed by atmospheric perspective, the others you can learn when you need or want them. If you know
basic shapes, proportion, and perspective, good job! You now have the bare minimum to draw and will save yourself heartache and stress later.
From there, figure sketching, knowing how to figure sketch will enable you to draw people, be they realistic, anime, or furry. Once you feel comfortable with the fluidity, anatomy, and proportion, learn the 15 elements of composition mentioned in the video I'm posting. From there...I don't know, focus on what you want to draw and git gud at it. But always add on to your knowledge of anatomy and perspective, that will make you a better artist.
This video is useful although some of it seems a bit excessive (do you really need to master the classic capitals???).
Lastly: with reference, life drawing is the best way to go, but not everyone is super rich and can hire a model, buy a prop, or fly to an exotic location at the drop of the hat. Drawing from photos isn't ideal but it is legitimate as long as you DRAW, not TRACE from them. Using photos is much better than just drawing to draw from nothing because the Human brain remembers things imperfectly.