Concepts such as etiquette don't get to make demands. Free speech and honesty, regardless of subject, are far more worthy of healthy discourse.
I try to say things as I see them.
If a thing is ugly, say so.
If a thing is beautiful, say so.
I won't be told what is or isn't, that's my subjective choice.
You have opinions on us and vice versa.
The thing is, in the main your opinions are based on the thin arc of our lives we show in coming to the farms. OUR opinions are based on your continual and relentless documenting of your weird life from birth to present day.
In summary, we have a FAR better picture of who you are than do you of us.
You don't even know my name. You INSIST people know yours. Regardless. Tell the world everything, you'll get feedback. You wanted all this.