PL-ish but, I imagine like many members of this forum, I have some very real autistic traits. Now female socialization is not male socialization and autism looks different in females but I think I can still make the comparison: I am absolutely mortified of embarrassing myself by not taking social cues properly. I probably take this too far and it makes me neurotic but it's a shame thing and shame when you are doing something shameful is an appropriate emotion. Flam on the other hand has no shame whatsoever and seemingly no embarrassment that he is not acting according to social expectations (which is basically one of my biggest fears.)
I don't ask that he get neurotic over it but I don't see how he just doesn't care. He's embarrassing himself, causing people to think less of him, and just making himself look bad. I hate that. I just don't get how he doesn't hate it too: I guess he's just a huge fucking narcissist, with narcissistic gratification in having an internet audience, big time, to the point where it swelled his head to dysfunctional levels. Internet clout drives people fucking insane, I know first-hand, but he manages it particularly badly. The narcissism and autism is a hell of a one-two punch.