caffeinated_wench
kiwifarms.net
- Joined
- Nov 26, 2013
Cheaters.
One of the more reprehensible types to me is someone who claims to be remorseful but spent the relationship lying about it. To me, it's not the one who doesn't give a shit; it's the one who claims to care, love, and respect their SO while doing this. (And then may or may not try to justify their actions anyway.)
I don't care if you've never done it again. I have no reason to believe you after you spent the relationship since then lying to me and completely disrespecting me.
Perhaps it's not right of me to judge so harshly. Perhaps my personal issues with it get in the way of sound reasoning.
...really, this is less grinding my gears and more smashing my berserk button.
One of the more reprehensible types to me is someone who claims to be remorseful but spent the relationship lying about it. To me, it's not the one who doesn't give a shit; it's the one who claims to care, love, and respect their SO while doing this. (And then may or may not try to justify their actions anyway.)
I don't care if you've never done it again. I have no reason to believe you after you spent the relationship since then lying to me and completely disrespecting me.
Perhaps it's not right of me to judge so harshly. Perhaps my personal issues with it get in the way of sound reasoning.
...really, this is less grinding my gears and more smashing my berserk button.