Those are fake messages. Or they were when she was having a fever dream in hospice and couldn't figure out why her son was ignoring her.
I absolutely cannot believe Sandra would use that has her profile photo, even if she was the least vain woman on earth.
This is unironically giving me feels. For all of Ralph's negative qualities and times Ralph treated his dying mom like shit, she still had that motherly love for him. That's the kind of unconditional love that only a mother could have. It's a shame Ralph is the way he is.
Only after her lonely death did Ralph realize he lost the only human on earth that loved him unconditionally and she sacrificed her life to keep a fat, angry, manchild son from having to be an adult until age 35. The minute Pantsu agreed to lease a house he dumped his dying mom when she actually really needed him.
You can judge how a man treated his mother by the way he talks about women in general. Sandra had it very rough and the boy she loved unconditionally treated her like utter garbage. I have no pity for an abusive shitbag like Ralph, I do feel bad Sandra sacrificed the last 18 years of her life for a mean, lazy, ungrateful, hateful, selfish, drunk manchild.
I doubt Gunt feels guilty for using and abusing his mom, but he does have a pity party about now being utterly alone and unloved. He treats his wife and baby even worse than he treated Sandra, but Pantsyu won’t stick around she’s sick, or on her deathbed, for Ralph to abandon. Ralph will die much like Sandra did - alone and unloved. Unlike Sandra, he’s earned it.