Have you ever had to change yourself because you found out you are actually kinda unlikeable?

[DoeZA]

I think we've all had moments where we realize we might not be everyone's favorite. Taking feedback helps us improve and connect better with others

 

[Neo-Nazi Rich Evans]

i did find out im am very unlikable, but i have yet to be able to change myself into something likeable.

 

[eatler]

yeah, why you have this epiphany recently?

 

[TETRABAX]

You'll never make everyone happy, you should only change to make yourself and your loved ones happy

 

[Gangstalker #32194]

its very difficult for a person to change for any reason, so if you managed to pull it off that's something to be proud of

 

[Party Hat Wurmple]

No, although I am unlikeable, I refuse to change. Barack Obama wanted change and he was a nigger. So now I never change. Even my underwear.

 

[dick brain]

There are worse things than being alone
Though it often takes decades to realize this
And by then it's too late
And there is nothing worse than too late

 

[AnsemSoD1]

I mean, there are little things like taking a shower in the morning now and doing at least 5 push-ups for every loss in an online gaming match, but yeah, not much else.

 

[DankSmoker]

i did find out im am very unlikable, but i have yet to be able to change myself into something likeable.

I like you, no homo.

 

[TETRABAX]

I think we've all had moments where we realize we might not be everyone's favorite. Taking feedback helps us improve and connect better with others

I've find that if you smile and make eye contact and gestures to show you are listening, people feel more enjoyment when talking to you. I also have a sort of detached optimism that normies don't find unlikable. Oh, and make sure to have good hygiene and dress at least somewhat presentable to make a good impression. Don't wear strong scents, your smell should be as subtle as possible.

And make sure to get all your shit posting out anonymously online so you don't accidentally power level in conversation

 

[ConsentAccidentVictimNo98]

People that are likeable to one, can be unlikeable to others and vice versa. Somehow can dislike me, and can be disliked by others. It is irrelevant what others think in my view, I'll improve where I see fit (as I hope everyone else does) but truth be told, I know there will be those that will always dislike me so what's the point? I'll hang in crowds where I am likeable if I wanted to be liked. Truth be told, I want to contribute to shit that I'm interested in. That's where I'd put my time.

 

[Poppavalyim Andropoff]

No.. Everyone likes me. I’m fucking tops.

 

[Drip Torch]

Not my problem. Everyone else is the problem.

 

[Jason Wynn]

You may be someone’s idea of the perfect person and someone else may want to cave in your head with a sledgehammer Gallagher style. You’ll never be able to please everyone, and the sooner you realize this, the happier you’ll be. If people like me, awesome. Always enjoy making new friends. If not, oh well, can’t win ‘em all.

If you get reasons why someone doesn’t like you, listen to what they have to say at least and if you feel they’re valid criticisms, take steps to improve on them. I used to get told I come off as aloof and cold and it made me look pompous and rude. Up to that point I hadn’t given it any thought but on reflection I could understand why some people would perceive me as rude and distant, so I took measures to be a little more warm and open with people and it helped with how others perceive me. If it’s petty shit why someone doesn’t like you, like your politics or your taste in movies or whatever, tell ‘em to pound sand

 

[SSj_Ness (Yiffed)]

I would if I could, but you can't change being boring.

 

[Sparkletor 2.0]

Yes. I was somewhat unlikable and some people didn't enjoy my company. I worked really hard to change and now I am completely unlikable and nobody enjoys my company.

Success!

 

[Alex Hogendorp]

I became gay when I realized a Yaoi artist didn't like me, so yes.

 

[Broseph]

I wouldn't really say that I was/am unlikable but it's more so that I really need to learn how to better socialize with people and not act like an aloof sperg.

 

[parsnip]

No, because I like me. Luckily I am naturally a fucking delight and the people I want to like me do.

 

[mister meaner]

I changed the way I laugh because I didn’t like how I sounded, but then the way I laugh shifted a bit so now this new one also sounds dumb