Have you ever realized you're bad for a friend and parted ways with them to save them grief?

[Actual Transphobe]

can't hurt anybody if you dont have anybody

 

[Malagor the dank omen]

I wish i could. But the person i care the most told me he would kill himself if i did anything like that.
I care too much for him but i don't want to screw him over with my depressive mood and fatalism.

 

[Niggernerd]

I've only had one friend for 9 going on 10 years now. Either people are bad for me or I feel like I am for them and just leave without saying anything. Overall my friendship with this person is cemented in complete trust so I can't see myself parting ways with them and they feel the same.

 

[Shadfan666xxx000]

No. I don't see how you end up that way with friends and family. Even if you need to go out and take five from each other for a year, you typically get back together and hang out again if there was some substance in your connection. Now crushes and lovers are whole different story.

 

[Underestimated Nutria]

"I'm dangerous, Bella" - Edward

 

[Inflatable Julay]

no but i've realised some friends are bad for me and left them to save me grief.

In a way, that's the same thing. As long as you keep enabling them, it hurts both of you. Once enough people leave they may change their behavior.

 

[Malagor the dank omen]

In a way, that's the same thing. As long as you keep enabling them, it hurts both of you. Once enough people leave they may change their behavior.

This is true. Once i left home and i stopped talking with everybody i got my shit together and became a responsible adult. Now i'm back at home and i'm more depressed than ever. Never thought this would crush me so hard.

 

[Gravityqueen4life]

the opposite when my childhood friend (the first friend i ever made). had a mental breakdown and got schizophrenia. i just could not deal with it anymore.

 

[Token Weeaboo]

I hold myself and others to "treat others the way you wish to be treated" standard. So if someone suddenly want's to treat me like an ass- well two can play that game and I'm usually better!

Don't get me wrong though, I'm actually quite calm and kind though an equal opportunity joke maker.

I'll never leave someone that's a friend- that is implying I had any in the fist place.