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That quote is very famous and it is even referenced in the book. The Local History even included a list of Honorable and Virtuous Women, dedicated to the widows who chose not to remarry which often involved disfiguring the face or suicide. A law was written that any widow who remarried would have to give up her dowry to the dead husband's family, to incentivize widows not to remarry, but this had the unintended side effect of promoting the dead husband's family to coerce the widow to remarry. The widow, lived with the husband's family, and widows would be seen as a burden, especially if they had not yet produced any sons, but by this law, the family could still profit from the marriage by taking away the widow's dowry.@Ughubughughughughughghlug
I recall, from Chinese history class, something of a Confucian official, high up, saying it is better widows starve to death and keep their honor intact than dishonor themselves going out into the world. Chinese culture is callous and disgusting. (the quote thing is white for some reason)
It just shows the difference in understanding of the imperial court and how its understanding of creating an orderly society breaks apart against the chaos at the local level.