Never. Those close to me know that I like Lolita, but only those really close to me know that I have a handle somewhere online going by Humbert Humbert doing bad things.
Friendly reminder, communists aren't people. They're sub-human. TCD.
Like the women their ideals are molded after, your existence will infuriate them. Live, live well, and resist. Be the nail that cannot be hammered. That's enough.
This is something I notice with both genders, they can't cook at all. I blame a combination of everyone always being busy + people becoming reliant on fastfood and prepackaged crap. I know back in university that was my reason for eating poorly, I knew how to cook but felt too busy and didn't want to. I do cook now though, I'm glad my mom taught me a valuable skill.
See I feel this way about the city guys I dated, they didn't have much to say and it was very boring. I'm the type of person that can talk about anything and I can keep a conversation going even with the most shy/introverted people, but I don't want to have to be the one carrying it the whole time.
This is one thing that makes me sad about American culture in general. I would say it's a city problem but I have seen it more recently in rural areas too. Kids just don't respect the elders like they should. Bums me out, I love old people, especially hearing about historical events from their perspective. And I could never be disrespectful to my parents or date anyone that my parents didn't like. Not saying my parents have to approve of my dating life but generally speaking if your parents don't like who you're dating there's probably a good reason.
Porn really is garbage and it's getting harder to find guys that aren't into it. I can kind of understand guys watching porn when they're single (though I still think porn is bad) but once you're with someone porn should never be used. It's crazy how many people excuse guys watching porn these days and if you don't like it, then you're just being a prude.
I don't need a guy that's a roided muscle freak. When I say in shape, I mean not fat, not skinny-fat, and they are actually strong enough to lift things. Most women don't like guys with huge muscles, and I am one of those women. I just don't like fat, out of shape, or limp noodle arms.
Good for you for sticking with it, keep it up. And to me, my definition of a gym freak is the kind of guys that basically have no outside hobbies out of getting swol. You know, the big beefy guys who are most certainly on gear and stuff. I wouldn't consider what you're describing as being a gym freak, that just sounds like being healthy and taking care of yourself.
That was the best part about working during / while covid was "winding down", 150+ on the way to work everyday.
No idea what your financial or insurance situation is or where you even live, but at least in the US, you could consider hiring a home health aide for a few days. They are often available through medical temping agencies. Did this for my grandmother when she had to have things like this done.
Happens. Best time I had driving fast was in Montana. The speed limit is high in some places. I have a German driver's license, but have never driven in Germany. I think now I would like to rent some retarded car and go run it for the few km that exist there without a speed limit. Most of the Autobahn is speed controlled, but there are rando sections that aren't.
I think this was part of the reason my ex and I were so reluctant to divorce for so long. We had been with each other nearly half our lives. Neither one of us wanted to be back out on the market unless there were really no other options. We exhausted them. I spent most of the day driving and caught up on some MATI streams. In one, Null was talking about Destiny's relationship and did say something that is true. Once enough resentment is built up in a relationship, there is no going back or fixing it, no matter how much either of you might want to. I hope you and your husband spend the rest of your lives happily together.
I hope you get better soon. I was really sick like that in August. Before then, I hadn't been sick in several years.
It isn't, tho. Unless you're talking about the, what was it, 90s? When Montana had unrestricted areas iirc. When America was great.
It isn't great the other way around either. I have good parents and I'm pretty close to them, but a lot of families don't treat each other well at all, the elders included. One of the worst things I see from parents is the "kick the kids out at 18" mentality. It's a very selfish thing to do. Then there are other things like how a lot of families will fight over inheritances after a death in the family instead of actually mourning the person who died. My family is nothing like that so I can't even fathom that mindset.
I've always been extremely ambivalent about it, but once you're in a relationship it just seems like the kind of thing you need to talk about and find an agreement on. I think it's perfectly reasonable to expect someone to stop watching it if they're actually having the sex, at which point it's just redundant.
I could never do steroids, I like my hair.
The day I was banned from Reddit was the day my mental health improved massively.
I have that problem too. I make a point of calling family, but with friends, most of the friends I've had just sort of faded off because I was the one who always had to contact them first. I have like one friend I still keep in touch with regularly, and I think that's largely because we share a hobby and it's what we talk about most.
I definitely feel you. I think I wouldn't be so lonely if I kept in contact with my friends from college (or even the undergrads I met this semester) on a somewhat regular basis. That's something I really need to make a New Year's Resolution about and stick to it. There's enough people around me that I can make and keep some connections.
Feeling this. Growing up I was one of those obnoxious "born in le wrong generation" fuckers, and while I grew less cringe over the years my tastes never changed. I'm mainly drawn to 70s and 80s shit, music, clothing, aesthetics, culture in general. And even though I work in IT I'm highly skeptical of modern technology and my interest in the field was born out of an appreciation for old computers and software, like 80s-90s PCs, Amiga, Unix/Linux.
"Honey, come check this out: another one of my posts in the Fatrick thread became a highlight. That's already a third one this week alone. When was the last time you posted something that got highlighted in the Beauty Parlor, huh?
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Hey, at least you and I were grew out of the worst parts of it. There are still some people that are 40 and older that act like goths, punk music and nu metal are still the new hotness. It's better to let nostalgia for the past be put into something useful like a hobby or job than to cling to the past so dearly, you lose the present and your future as well.
I want to say it was as high as 90mph at some point. I don't recall them having no speed limit, though I could be wrong. It seems like something they would have considered though in the empty corridors, but I can't imagine it ever happening because the NHTSA would cuck them over it on interstates. However, I was often going around 110mph on open and empty stretches. My car was a surprisingly fun manual and wanted nothing more than to run. I miss my manual. I have an auto now I can paddle shift but it isn't the same.
Only thing good about getting older is the benefit of hindsight. Youth is wasted on the young.
