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My dad's car got stolen while he was at work, so I'm now his uber until the police find it.

Here's what his car was, a 1990 Kia.

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About to have this baby some time in the next couple weeks. I dunno man, I’ve been super chilled out about it so far but now… the fear is creeping in big time.

I keep telling myself that if demented freaks with threads on this website can have babies, we will be just fine. But the confidence is wavering, my dudes. Let us mooch a couple o’ prayers for safety, please and thank you.
 
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Heya Kiwis I'M KINDA DRUNK SO BEAR WITH ME. I broke up with my GF of 4 years back in January. It ended mutually as we had to move apart due to career opportunities and family stuff and we didn't want to drag out a long-distance relationship. We're still making an effort to be friends and stay in touch and we haven't really written off our future together, we just don't know what our 5-10 year plan is right now. Anyway she let me know today that she's seeing someone new. I'm glad that she's being honest with me as honesty was a huge part of our relationship but I'm feeling pretty shit about her moving on when I'm sitting here going through all 5 stages of grief at once. I know I need to move on, and I really want to move on and find someone new, but I can't help but have all kinds of "what if" thoughts. Time heals all wounds and this isn't really anything I haven't been through before but it still hurts bad enough that I decide to drink to forget about what was lost and isn't coming back. This might not be super coherent but I just felt like I needed to vent a bit more, and what better place than a gossip forum???

Anyway if any of you are going through a breakup my heart goes out to you. Whether it ended on good or bad terms I hope you know that things will get better. You had a life before this person and you will have a life after them. You WILL find somebody who will make you as happy, and even happier, than they did. Don't stop trying, don't stop looking, don't stop hoping, don't stop improving!!!

Foltest said:
worked suck today (yes, I am looking for new jobs) but I felt much better att bicyckling at the gym.
getting rid of the beer belly.
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Don't ever stop working out! Even on the shittiest days when you're dead tired and just want to eat and sleep just go for it and work out! You'll never regret going for a run, or a bike ride, or a lifting session. You'll always regret skipping out, especially when the missed days start adding up

Coffee Druid said:
Kind of pissed off right now at my boyfriend. I've been needing to take my car in for a checkup since it's been 500 miles since I got things repaired on it. This afternoon was one of the few times I could take it in in order to drive out of town later in the week.

I told my bf this situation a couple times over the weekend. He said he wanted to go to the neighboring city to look at a Lego store but he planned to go in the morning. I call him when I get off work at 2, saying I'll probably get to the shop at 2:30. He had been at the Lego shop for a bit already. I ended up getting to the shop later than I thought, at 3:15. I call and he's still at the store. And he wasn't done looking through things. Now, it would take an hour at least to get back here so for all I know it would be 2 more hours. He suggested I walk.

So I did. Because who knows when he'd get here and I didn't want ro awkwardly wait at the mechanic for a couple hours. It's been 30 minutes now and I just got to the main street of our town. Most of that was in the sun and since I didn't plan this I have no hat or sunscreen. My face is already red so I guess I'll have a wicked sunburn all over tomorrow. Guess I'll eat since I'm parched before walking another 40 minutes home. This town is spread out so there's no real public transit and Uber is expensive.

I feel like it's kind if pathetic. Maybe I should've waited like 2 hours. Maybe he could have just not spent so long looking at legoshit. Who knows. My legs hurt.
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Kinda fucked up on his part honestly. Lego can always wait for another day and I DEFINITELY wouldn't want my partner to walk 1+ hours in the heat when I could easily give them a ride. He's not missing his mother's funeral they're fucking plastic bricks. They'll be there next week

The Fraggle Queen said:
Finally got my first concert post-Fragglet booked. Mr Fraggle is taking me to see Rammstein and I’ve never been more excited.
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I hope the concert is insane 🤘

Shitted Scaredless said:
Well. One of moms closest friends just passed. I didn't really know her. But I'm still sad to. It's hard to see mom like this.
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It's always difficult to see your parents in a tough spot. Just be there for her

RicoNecroDoc said:
My dad's car got stolen while he was at work, so I'm now his uber until the police find it.

Here's what his car was, a 1990 Kia.
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I hope you guys get the car back or at least get a good insurance payout. I've dealt with a car theft before and there are few feelings worse than your car just being straight up gone right as you start your daily routine. It's gut wrenching. We should be hanging car thieves just like they used to hang horse thieves

Rome's rightful successor said:
Been dealing with on and off depression since January but today I have been feeling much better.
Got some big plans tomorrow, It's going to be a big long fun day for me.
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Keeping fighting man. It may be hard at points to do anything at all but don't ever give up. Try not to think that things won't ever get better. There's an answer for your problems out there, whether it's therapy, religion, medication, exercise, friends, romance, hobbies, etc. Always try to find things to look forward to

Brett DeLawyer said:
About to have this baby some time in the next couple weeks. I dunno man, I’ve been super chilled out about it so far but now… the fear is creeping in big time.

I keep telling myself that if demented freaks with threads on this website can have babies, we will be just fine. But the confidence is wavering, my dudes. Let us mooch a couple o’ prayers for safety, please and thank you.
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If you do the best you can and truly want the best for your family I'm sure everything will work out fine. I have plenty of doubts myself about whether I'd be a good husband or a good father but I think someone who's willing to place the needs of their loved ones before their own can't possibly fail with those things. But if they do then they'll have done enough for others that they'll receive help and forgiveness in return
 
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Brett DeLawyer said:
About to have this baby some time in the next couple weeks. I dunno man, I’ve been super chilled out about it so far but now… the fear is creeping in big time.

I keep telling myself that if demented freaks with threads on this website can have babies, we will be just fine. But the confidence is wavering, my dudes. Let us mooch a couple o’ prayers for safety, please and thank you.
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Here’s to a healthy baby and speedy recovery!
About two months in myself, and trying to stay away from all the fucked-up baby threads and that one about unconventional birthing practices. Talk about nightmare fuel.
 
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went out to a local pub.. Ended up being a baby sitter because my alcoholic friend got black out drunk. Had to wait outside with him for an hour because I know if i'd left him alone, he would either cause a big scene, a fight or get another drink. This is a pretty common occurance (happens about 2 to 3 times a month)
I kind of wish my family raised me differently or if I was born a sociopath. Pretty fucking tired of sacrificing my night to make sure he doesn't fuck up even harder than he usually does.
 
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Hung out with some people I didn't really know yesterday, and pretty much instantly clicked with two of them. While the rest of the group was leaving, us three stuck around for a few hours, just talking mutual interests while sipping coffee.

Even if we don't develop a deep connection with one another, it still felt nice; and left me with an incredibly warm and fuzzy feeling I haven't felt in quite a while.
 
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Brett DeLawyer said:
About to have this baby some time in the next couple weeks. I dunno man, I’ve been super chilled out about it so far but now… the fear is creeping in big time.

I keep telling myself that if demented freaks with threads on this website can have babies, we will be just fine. But the confidence is wavering, my dudes. Let us mooch a couple o’ prayers for safety, please and thank you.
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Congratulations! Praying for you.

It is absolutely normal to feel fear over becoming a parent. It shows that you care. You just gotta do what you gotta do.
 
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I'm having another sternum/chest muscle inflammation.. flair up. I dunno what causes them but boy do I hate it.
 
So I’m gonna assume the depression I was talking about last time I posted on this thread was from PMS or PMDD. Tracking has paid off since I have an easier time predicting when I might experience a depressive episode, but I still don’t have the skills to cope with it. Besides that I’m anxious and excited about my future, I’m gonna experience some scary shit like living alone for the first time. My grandma is doing much better too and is walking as much as she back allows her. I’m doing good right now guys.
 
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A filling I got in February 2020 came out. It partially came out a few months ago when I was picking popcorn bits out of my teeth, and I was chewing gum (to cure my hiccups, mint gum is the only shit that works and if you can't cure your own hiccups definitely give it a go), and I hear a crunch, which is the filling. Hope I can get an emergency appointment tomorrow but I'm an NHS dental patient so my hopes are not high (:_(
 
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