How did KF influence your thoughts on abnormal psyche/mental disorder? - did it change?

You paradoxical bastard. I'm a lefty and somewhat sympathetic to SJW type social causes but reading on this site and has made me more skeptical of how mentally ill people, while marginalized and stigmatized as a group, can still be manipulative and it can even be mostly caused by their mental illness.
I've had something similar - I'm generally pretty left wing, but this site has shown me that it's not all black and white. Someone can be mentally ill, but still be a total asshole. Or you can be in favour of trans rights, but still get pissed off about troons demanding special treatment.

Funnily enough, I was having a chat with a friend who is very left-wing the other day, and I mentioned the troon epidemic, and she started ranting about the fact that she, too, was sick of it. Then she looked very guilty and said, "As a bleeding-heart liberal, I know I shouldn't say that sort of thing..." I pointed out that you don't have to be 100% behind everything your side supports.
 
I've had something similar - I'm generally pretty left wing, but this site has shown me that it's not all black and white. Someone can be mentally ill, but still be a total asshole. Or you can be in favour of trans rights, but still get pissed off about troons demanding special treatment.

I'm also pretty left wing, and the Farms turned me into a TERF by showing me actual examples of the bad behavior by mentally ill men that the SJW echo chamber pretends does not exist. That is to say, I'm pro trans people not being discriminated against or w/e but I don't want to share a changing room or bathroom or women's therapy group, where I and other women are at our most vulnerable, with someone as dangerous or fucking batshit as Phil or Kjel or Richard.
 
I've always had a pretty strict stance on mental health and subsequent actions, and I've got to say that the Farms has reinforced my belief that mental illness is not and should never be an excuse for bad behavior. It's especially galling to see people in general but rat kings in specific use their minority status as a blade to hurt those around them, then try to use that same status as a shield from the consequences.
 
In a way it made me feel better about how I viewed mental illness.

Mental illness can be many things and effect many different ways from mild to crippling. Till you hit the most dysfunctional mental illness, a lot comes to whom you are as a person.

I think at least in my era and area, mental illness was getting much better understood and we were finding sometimes some actions are influenced or caused by an illness. The mind set kind of swung too far, as we saw it then spread to outside influences.

I'm old enough to remember Columbine shooting well, there was not one spec of blame passed to the shooters, depression, bullying, stress, and video games etc etc. Not one these were some terrible people doing something awful. It has back lashed a bit and people are seemingly becoming less accepting of it thanks to even in main stream cases of awful actions passed off as a mental illness.

I've always thought, we all have our crosses to bear, some people are non functional and those people tend to be well, drooling quite literally. Schizos are of avg if not a touch higher IQ on avg, they are fully smart enough to take their meds (if they can get them) With out sperging on side track of care systems in different countries, a large amount of times we see horrid cases, there were options.

You aren't an idiot or a bad person for having a mental illness, people whom are in this group are probably the largest amount of the mentally ill, it's up to you if you choose to get treatment and manage life.

Much like other things in our lives, battling mental illness comes from if you are willing too. Some people have illnesses they can have a fully fledged life with no serious down sides others a reduced life,some people need treatment others don't.


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You can be a good mentally ill person or a bad one.
 
My perspective is that actual developmental disorders (e.x. austim, mental retardation) are more like "hardware problems" in a computer where the physical components themselves are damaged, and can't just be "fixed".

While psychological issues are more like "software problems" (e.x. a virus-infected computer), and definitely don't just "happen on their own" completely genetically; I think that environment, particularity media exposure plays a lot of a role in influencing them, and unfortunately the internet allows for lolcows who might otherwise be able to get help to just find online "communities" of equally-exceptional individuals who just further enable them and allow their delusions to fester.

This is why you'll rarely find a person "on medications" who's actually mentally sound, since the problem isn't reducible just to involuntary neural processes, but definitely has external influencers as well.
 
Before I started lurking on and eventually joining Kiwi Farms, I was a compassionate and thoughtful individual who hugged every mentally ill person I met. Now I'm a card-carrying member of the NSDAP.

In all seriousness, I learned that there are people so strange, it defies explanation. Those lolcows, or the harmless ones anyway, are my favorite aspect of the forum, and their antics provide me with endless amusement. I couldn't legit hate those people if I tried. However, learning about the very worst that humanity has to offer, like child molesters, neglectful parents, and rapists was an unfortunate side effect.
 
Before, when someone was acting irrational or lashed out at me for no discernable reason I could go for days trying to understand their minds. Did I miss something? In what way could they be correct?

Today I have accepted the fact that many people are simply broken in some way. This doesn't mean dismiss anyone who don't agree with me as a lolcow (which would be very ironic). I just dont bang my head over it.
 
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Well, with certainty, I did realize that there were people out there that made me feel significantly less crazy.

Also, it further reinforced my affirmation that you can surely try to force someone completely unhinged to seek counseling, but they on their own accord being noncommittal or dismissive of it ultimately means they're digging their own grave deeper. That of course would be insinuating that the unstabler lolcows and other tards/snowflakes acknowledge they have a problem in the first place. (slight powerleveling) i know firsthand what it's like dealing with a mentally ill person who won't get help, so at this point I'm desensitized to it. However, the crazier cows just shouldn't expect to be left socially untouched in consequence of their actions. That is the same of anyone regardless of whether you're famous/infamous, discussed on the web, otherwise known, or not.
 
The more I've browsed, I'm honestly shocked at how many members here are autistic. At first glance, especially to me, this site seemed like "Lol, let's insult the retards, etc" kind of forum, yet strangely, I think there are more "lolcows" here than anywhere else (okay, maybe I'm not counting Twitter or Tumblr, but you get the point). The forum that specializes in making fun of them.

Not that I really give any sort of shit about this, just saying it's interesting. Mildly.
 
The more I've browsed, I'm honestly shocked at how many members here are

I think that's what makes lolcows have such a grip on a lot of us (I know it does for me). That "there but for the grace of God go I" thing. As someone very Asperger myself but with a wish to make friends, date people, live life, spend time with family etc. But always struggling with that, nerdy isolated urge.
 
I think that's what makes lolcows have such a grip on a lot of us (I know it does for me). That "there but for the grace of God go I" thing. As someone very Asperger myself but with a wish to make friends, date people, live life, spend time with family etc. But always struggling with that, nerdy isolated urge.

I feel you, even though I'm not autistic. I suppose this is the best place to find like-minded people of all types.

Though I gotta add, there's a stigma that "nerd" automatically means "autist", to which I must disagree.
 
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