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I've only been able to get horny once in the past six months. Why is this, and what can I do to fix it?
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What sort of thing you saw? I recommend trying to see something normal, brainwash yourself in to going back to normal but they can be ineffective and backfire so it's best to just socialise more if you don't, go outside, even seek therapy, group therapy if it's necessary ( i know that sounds depressing but this may give you a community with the same problem to support you ) and trying to meet someone regardless of your fears, maybe this can snap you back. Anyways could you define thoses fears? Fear of not being able to do it?Never been intimate. Scared to express any form of it as anything vanilla or sensible seems unappealing. Which almost certainty stems from being exposed early-on to very deviant stuff.
Not on any meds and don't have anybody to have sex with at this instant.If you're on any medication, check to make sure none of it is known to cause sexual dysfunction. If you have someone to have sex with, make sure they aren't ugly.
@Omori Boy has made me consider it. But I'm content being a man.Your body is obviously telling you something is wrong. Now I'm no doctor but it sounds like your penis doesn't fit your body image anymore. Have you considered transitioning to a woman?
Vary rarely. Only if I'm extremely bored and it's late at night and can't fall asleep.Do you watch pornography?
Not. Currently as happy as I have ever been. This is only a small blemish on my joyful life, but I'd still like to fix this issue with my dick.Stop being depressed
Do you have difficulty having erections when you watch? Do you watch something very specific. Some men start having difficulties after watching porn and can't get off to normal sex and often only get off to some very specific cues that are present in niche porn. But since you watch rarely that don't seen to be the case, anyway, it's good to avoid specially niche stuff. Maybe you are getting old?Vary rarely. Only if I'm extremely bored and it's late at night and can't fall asleep.
Yeah, it's all extremely niche stuff. Can't even pin down what it is exactly that I like about it. But anything outside of this niche category doesn't interest me the least bit. Even then, I struggle to maintain an erection.Do you have difficulty having erections when you watch? Do you watch something very specific. Some men start having difficulties after watching porn and can't get off to normal sex and often only get off to some very specific cues that are present in niche porn.
Is this the root or the symptoms? Did you had theses issues before you started watching this? How did you discovered? By going deeper in the porn algorithm? And please tell that I'd not sissy stuff.Yeah, it's all extremely niche stuff. Can't even pin down what it is exactly that I like about it. But anything outside of this niche category doesn't interest me the least bit. Even then, I struggle to maintain an erection.
Discovered this stuff so early on (12, 13ish) that there really isn't a history of me having normal interests beforehand. Found it out through unsupervised Internet access.Is this the root or the symptoms? Did you had theses issues before you started watching this? How did you discovered? By going deeper in the porn algorithm? And please tell that I'd not sissy stuff.
That's the issue, when you are this age your brain still developing and you just started maturing sexually so you can get imprinted ( I don't know if this is the right word ) very easily, a girl that you like at this age may define what you find attractive for the rest of your life. The earlier you are exposed to porn the more damage it's does specificaly something super kink anyway did you ever had difficulty having intimacy?Discovered this stuff so early on (12, 13ish) that there really isn't a history of me having normal interests beforehand. Found it out through unsupervised Internet access.
Never been intimate. Scared to express any form of it as anything vanilla or sensible seems unappealing. Which almost certainty stems from being exposed early-on to very deviant stuff.anyway did you ever had difficulty having intimacy?
What sort of thing you saw? I recommend trying to see something normal, brainwash yourself in to going back to normal but they can be ineffective and backfire so it's best to just socialise more if you don't, go outside, even seek therapy, group therapy if it's necessary ( i know that sounds depressing but this may give you a community with the same problem to support you ) and trying to meet someone regardless of your fears, maybe this can snap you back. Anyways could you define thoses fears? Fear of not being able to do it?Never been intimate. Scared to express any form of it as anything vanilla or sensible seems unappealing. Which almost certainty stems from being exposed early-on to very deviant stuff.
Maybe your penis is depressed, you self centered prick. Give it a pep talk.Not. Currently as happy as I have ever been. This is only a small blemish on my joyful life, but I'd still like to fix this issue with my dick.
I fear that if I become too close and intimate that I'd want to play along with what I've seen and accustomed myself to viewing as sexually attractive. Which would immediately repel any women. I don't want to scare an innocent girl like that.Anyways could you define thoses fears? Fear of not being able to do it?