I was thinking about all this again last night. I think we’ve relaxed the rules that kept us on the straight and narrow too quickly. We like to think we are enlightened but we aren’t. The slippery slope of the last decade shows me quite clearly that humanity needs a firm hand and rules or it degrades.
So my parents, early boomer gen grew up with strict rules in society, accountable to a smaller social circle of their own communities. Shame was a big thing, , but as they grew up those rules started to break down. By the time they had us, gen x, the rules of society as whole were much looser, but they as parents didn’t enforce similar rules as they’d had probably becasue that initial loosening was fun.
So my generation grew up a bit directionless. Now the generation below us had even fewer societal positive rules. You add technology in as well and you get people growing up who are not influenced by their immediate community and accountable to that community. They’re influenced by people geographically and culturally distant.
It’s been a rapid removal of shame based rules, of community based rules and of religion based rules. And nothing good filled the hole, only consumerism and wokeness and sexual degeneracy. We are like untrained dogs let loose. It’s not good.
What can bring us back? Hardship, maybe. A massive war, or some very bad happening to focus minds again. Otherwise we are fucked if we carry in like this.