Opinion How Gender Shapes Presidential Debates — Even When Between Two Men - Trump makes Chris Wallace into a woman


With news that the president and first lady have tested positive for coronavirus, Tuesday night's presidential debate can seem like a distant memory by now.


That is particularly wild because the debate was unlike any Americans have tuned into before. CNN's Jake Tapper called it "the worst debate I have ever seen" and a "disgrace."


In other words, it was a mess — and quantifiably so.


One analysis from Factba.se found that the debate switched speakers 1,210 times. That's more than once every five seconds.


And while both candidates stepped on each other many times, Trump interrupted three times more than Biden, according to The Washington Post's Aaron Blake. By the count, Trump interrupted Biden 71 times, to Biden's 22 interruptions.


(The huge discrepancy between his count and Factba.se's is in part because Blake was only counting Trump and Biden and not moderator Chris Wallace, and also because he used very strict criteria to define "interruption.")


The interruption-fest did not go unnoticed on Twitter — particularly among women.


"Chris Wallace now feels the pain of women in meetings," FiveThirtyEight reporter Clare Malone tweeted. Comedian Sarah Cooper, meanwhile, imagined the overwhelming politeness that would result from two women debating each other.






As a headline at humor website Reductress put it, "Study Reports Biden Interrupted Almost as Much as Average Woman in Meeting."


The debate that was met with near-universal condemnation is a useful window into how gender stereotypes play into expectations of how candidates "should" act — including when the people on stage are both cisgendered white men.


How masculinity showed up Tuesday night


Because men have always been president and because presidential candidates have overwhelmingly been men, that means men — more specifically, cis white men — are still the default in American politics. That can obscure how much of a role masculinity plays in American political discourse.


It is impossible to ignore at times, though, and perhaps particularly so with Donald Trump — most notably in a 2016 Republican primary debate, when he alluded to the size of his penis.


Tuesday's presidential debate lacked that kind of crudeness, but masculine-coded behaviors came through. There were vaguely threatening statements that wouldn't sound out of place in a schoolyard fight — as when Biden told Trump, "You picked the wrong guy at the wrong time."


Trump Derails 1st Presidential Debate With Biden, And 5 Other Takeaways

Analysis


Trump Derails 1st Presidential Debate With Biden, And 5 Other Takeaways


Debate Organizers Say They Will Make Format Changes For Next Time

Elections


Debate Organizers Say They Will Make Format Changes For Next Time


Trump, meanwhile, became inflamed when Biden said he needed to "get a lot smarter" — "Did you use the word 'smart'? ... Don't ever use the word 'smart' with me. Don't ever use that word," Trump responded, then trying to insult Biden's intelligence.


And while few are praising Trump's performance, there is a sense among some that a woman would have paid a bigger penalty for being as over-the-top aggressive as he was.


"If a woman behaved the way President Trump behaved, she would probably be referred to as the B-word," said Alice Stewart, a CNN commentator who worked on Texas Republican Sen. Ted Cruz's 2016 presidential campaign and former Minnesota Republican Rep. Michele Bachmann's 2012 campaign.


"The perception [and] optics of a woman being forceful is offensive to some people," she added. "I don't agree with that, but that's the way the mind of some voters happens to work."


Stewart also believes that Trump's debate performance was more overtly angry than in 2016 because of whom he was debating.


"He clearly felt emboldened to let the fire in his belly rage because Joe Biden was a man," Stewart said.


Moreover, identity can play into what candidates talk about. As 19th News' Errin Haines noted, they largely didn't talk about a variety of issues that disproportionately affect women, women of color, transgender and nonbinary Americans.


Gender-swapping the debates


Trying to figure out how a debate would have played out with hypothetical candidates of a different gender is only of limited use as a thought exercise. After all, it's impossible to know exactly how voters would respond to a theoretical female version of Donald Trump.


And so researchers have decided to make it not as theoretical. In early 2017, Joe Salvatore from New York University and Maria Guadalupe from the business school INSEAD staged a binary gender-reversed version of the 2016 presidential debates, which they titled Her Opponent.


They replaced Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton with the fictional candidates Brenda King and Jonathan Gordon and had the actors replicate Trump and Clinton's debate performances — not just word for word, but gesture for gesture, facial expression for facial expression.


The results were surprising to Salvatore, as well as to audience members. Some viewers who didn't like Donald Trump — and who thought his debate performance was objectively bad — unexpectedly liked the female version of Trump.


"That actress could run for president in 2024. I'm not joking," one man said. "I mean that people are so engaged by the way that woman behaves in those clips."
The fact that some voters liked Brenda King so much also made Salvatore wonder what made her palatable, even to some who didn't like Trump.


"Is it that they value a woman who has masculine qualities in the way she communicates and behaves?" And if so, he added: "Does that mean that the only women that can really find themselves in sort of high-ranking leadership positions are the ones that embrace masculine qualities or characteristics in the way they communicate?"


The male stand-in for Clinton, on the other hand, was considered off-putting for a number of reasons — he seemed practiced to the point of inauthenticity to some. Most notable to Salvatore in this vein was how viewers felt about his smiling.


"Women, when they saw Her Opponent, repeatedly reported at the post-show dialogues that they didn't realize how much [Clinton] was smiling until it came out of him," Salvatore said. "Literally once a night, when we did the show, people would say, 'Did [Clinton] really smile that much?' And I would say, 'Yes, she did.' "


Salvatore and Guadalupe have experimented well beyond gender, for example staging a 2018 dispute between Serena Williams and a male umpire with both black and white men in Williams' place, as well as a white woman. The unsurprising upshot was that race deeply affected how people experienced the fictional Williams' anger. In Salvatore's opinion, those expectations could affect how voters react to Kamala Harris in her next debate.


"If a person of color is expressing anger, it's amplified or exaggerated by the viewer," Salvatore said. "That's where, watching a debate, I think Kamala Harris has a very tough job next week debating Mike Pence because she's going to find herself in a similar situation to Clinton, but also it will be additionally complex, because she is a woman of color."


It's impossible to concoct a wholly unified set of takeaways about gender and racial biases in debates, beyond that voters have different expectations for how people of different identities should act on stage. And importantly, white, cisgendered men have up until now largely set what those expectations are.


It may be that a smile is more expected of a female candidate — to the degree that a smile disappeared on Clinton — whereas a certain sternness is expected of men ... so much so that Clinton's mannerisms were considered off-putting only when they were exhibited on the "default" white, cis, male candidate.


It may be that Trump's 2016 performance, like the way he loomed behind Clinton, seemed less threatening coming out of a woman. Or that his mannerisms made her seem "tough."


It's definitely true that Clinton didn't feel comfortable saying what she wanted to say.


She Got Next

Throughline


She Got Next: How Three Women Challenged The Idea Of Who Can Be President


"If you remember when he was walking around Hillary afterwards, Hillary said she wanted to just say, 'What are you doing?' " said former congresswoman Pat Schroeder, D-Colo., who explored a run for president in 1987. "You know, but again, we're always supposed to be the nice ones."


(Clinton was in fact harsher than this: in her book What Happened; she said she wanted to say, "Back up you creep, get away from me.")


One more complicating factor: It may also be, as Salvatore pointed out, that because Trump, Biden and Clinton are such well-known quantities in U.S. politics, it's impossible to separate their demographics from how people see them.


What we saw from women in the 2020 race


With Harris set to debate Pence next week, there will be entirely new dynamics to watch for, both in terms of gender and race.


One particular moment in the mixed-gender Democratic primary debates signaled that the female candidates felt the need to soften their anger. At a December Democratic primary debate, moderators gave the candidates the opportunity to either "give a gift" to a fellow candidate or "ask forgiveness" of them.


Notably, only the two women on stage asked for forgiveness, and more than that, they asked forgiveness for being passionate.


"I know that sometimes, I get really worked up, and sometimes I get a little hot. I don't really mean to," Warren said.


"I would ask for forgiveness any time any of you get mad at me. I can be blunt," Klobuchar said.


Regardless of how voters felt about those candidates' anger or passion, Warren and Klobuchar clearly felt a need to acknowledge and backpedal them to some degree.


But Salvatore believes that there may be more room for female candidates to express themselves than some might assume.


"I have on multiple occasions, based on people's responses to the female Donald Trump character and her opponent, have gone back and wondered if Hillary Clinton authentically had an angry response to things that Trump was doing," he said. "If she had presented it and reacted with authenticity, would we have had a different experience?"


That raises a raft of new questions, though — do women face a higher bar for being perceived as "authentic," especially when they are expressing anger? And moreover, is the "authenticity" voters expect shaped in fundamental ways by watching mostly male politicians?


(Also, there's some messiness around what "authenticity" even means. As columnist Rebecca Traister has pointed out, plenty of male politicians — particularly Trump, though she also singled out Biden — managed to get a reputation for being "authentic" despite repeatedly saying things that aren't true.)


It may well be that Clinton could have punched back against Trump harder than she did, with no negative repercussions.


She doesn't seem to think so, though.


After Biden snapped at Trump on Tuesday night, telling him to "shut up," writer Jill Filipovic tweeted, "I so feel for Hillary right now because I'm positive she wanted to say that and couldn't."


Clinton responded: "You have no idea."
 
The woman who wrote this and the other women contributing to this sexist horseshit are the problem. They are programmed to be "polite" but no one is forcing them to be. Woman here and I was much more subdued when I was younger but since life kicked me in the lady balls multiple times I am no longer the delicate flower they seem to be portraying women as. Just last night a man was talking over me and I raised my voice and kept repeating what I was saying until he shut up and stopped talking. These stupid women like it when women are outspoken but it's negative when men are? This is a personality issue, if you are dealing with a bulldozer you have to bulldoze back. But let's continue to boil everything down to gender, sexuality and race as usual and see how that works out.
Same. Except I became tougher after I got kids. Not because I yelled at them, but because I needed to stand up for them a few times.

Remember that famous Jordan Peterson's interview with that crazy British feminist? He was talking about how his job involved teaching women to be more assertive because that's apparently a common problem.
 
If you actively search for things to be mad about, you will always find them. If you actively look for ways to play the victim, you will always find them. Stop writing articles about victim fantasies. There was no woman present, trying to make it about muh mansplaining or whatever makes you a worthless self victimizing whore.
 
There's just no way to win with articles like these. It's irritating.

Like fine, there's maybe something to be said for the loud, bombastic man to be preferred over the quiet, demure woman being linked to sexism. But then we got the gender swapped Trump-Clinton debates -- which they cite -- showing that it's not a gender thing. But instead of recognizing that and approaching it from a new angle, they just go "oh, well, masculine personalities are preferred over feminine personalities in leaders and that's sexist". No, fuck off. I know plenty of men and women who are loud and commanding and are usually the center of attention.

What they hate is that people prefer power in their leaders. Maybe they're douchebags who don't make for good friends, but I damn sure would prefer a leader who talks like he's the only one in the room versus a guy I usually forget is even in the room. And if they don't like that, then whatever, but it ain't a sexism thing -- their own evidence proves that.
 
Same. Except I became tougher after I got kids. Not because I yelled at them, but because I needed to stand up for them a few times.

Remember that famous Jordan Peterson's interview with that crazy British feminist? He was talking about how his job involved teaching women to be more assertive because that's apparently a common problem.
Along those lines, something I noticed a lot back when I used to do public speaking mentoring (pre-Covid) with women is that a common conversation would be this:
“Why do you want to get better at speaking?”
“Because I get scared in front of people.”
“Why?”
“I’m embarrassed.”
“Why?”
“Because I don’t have anything to say that people will want to hear.”
“...So, then why do you want to do public speaking?”

and once you could get them out of that loop - either by pointing out that they did have something worth saying or by pointing out that it’s practice so they have a captive audience, it got a lot better.

But I also think it’s not lack of assertiveness per se. Public speaking/leadership/putting yourself out there carries a risk of looking stupid, and many women are far more averse to looking stupid than men are.

Honestly, the best trick I’ve found to help people get comfortable with public speaking is to tell them to overplay their first speech as hard as they can because they’ll know they’re being stupid on purpose. And that seems to be the push.
 
"Chris Wallace now feels the pain of women in meetings," FiveThirtyEight reporter Clare Malone tweeted. Comedian Sarah Cooper, meanwhile, imagined the overwhelming politeness that would result from two women debating each other.
Politeness? That's an odd way to spell 'passive aggressive sniping.'
"If a woman behaved the way President Trump behaved, she would probably be referred to as the B-word," said Alice Stewart, a CNN commentator who worked on Texas Republican Sen. Ted Cruz's 2016 presidential campaign and former Minnesota Republican Rep. Michele Bachmann's 2012 campaign.


"The perception [and] optics of a woman being forceful is offensive to some people," she added. "I don't agree with that, but that's the way the mind of some voters happens to work."
The problem is that many of you can't tell the difference between being 'forceful' and being a 'cunt.' Additionally, unlike a man, when you attempt to be forceful, end up being cuntish, and shit doesn't go your way, you don't take your L and move on with life; you run and tattle to anyone you think you can get someone in trouble with (hence the entirely apt, if overused, Karen meme).

"Is it that they value a woman who has masculine qualities in the way she communicates and behaves?" And if so, he added: "Does that mean that the only women that can really find themselves in sort of high-ranking leadership positions are the ones that embrace masculine qualities or characteristics in the way they communicate?"
Yes. Be direct about you want, don't waste men's time, don't insult men's intelligence by being manipulative, and lighten the fuck up.
 
What they hate is that people prefer power in their leaders. Maybe they're douchebags who don't make for good friends, but I damn sure would prefer a leader who talks like he's the only one in the room versus a guy I usually forget is even in the room. And if they don't like that, then whatever, but it ain't a sexism thing -- their own evidence proves that.

Exactly, even if it IS sexism, that's not a bad thing if it means wishy-washy people who want you to LIKE them more than OBEY them in a rank-and-file manner get shafted, be it because they're women, or just act like them? No matter. The end result is more desirable.

I want a LEADER

Not a CHEERLEADER

In high offices.

I want a person with conviction more than one who says they "understand" me.
 
Holy shit the amount of cope centered around "your genitals totally matter in a political context" here is amazing. "MASCULINITY IN POLITICS IS BAD".

Ok toots.
Screaming about men and how they're all bad is all broads like that can do. Actually realizing that what is or isn't between one's legs doesn't matter when it comes to politics goes against everything all their fancy collage courses have taught them.
 
I will never take a single word from articles like this seriously since its painfully obvious to anyone with eyes that women themselves DESPISE overly feminine men. Feminists even more so than normal ones.

Also I will never comprehend whatsoever how anyone can consider feigned, backstabbing faux politeness superior to just, you know, bluntly saying what you want and not assuming everyone is a mind reader.

Also the fact I found the most funny from the female Trump experiment is how the Hillary supporters found male Hill as being smug and unlikable. It was only when a man was acting that way did they see any flaw at all. These people are blind.
 
All I'm reading is that "Men only interrupt women constantly because sexism, men interrupt other men constantly because sexism." It's a self defeating argument to try to link a guy constantly interrupting another dude to 'men interrupt women because they think women are lesser beings', especially when that guy has a documented history of interrupting both men and women equally, proving he's just rude, not sexist.

But...."I am uncomfortable when we are not about me", I guess.
 
Back