Orbiter How I entered the Amberland universe... the backstory

[Optavia Sales Rep]

First of all thank you for sharing Frazzle. It's truly a shame that you lost any sort of civility with your ex, and heartbreaking that your daughter lost her relationship with her father. It seems everything was progressing smoothly with your divorce until Norma the Fat Harpy moved in with Jerry.
I'm guessing Norma, Jerry, and their friends/relatives have spun a totally different story about you and your daughter on Facebook. That's really shitty and awful, and I hope your daughter can recover from it.

 

[Blathersnake]

Well that is some fucked up shit, but exactly the type of backwoods trailer park trash drama that you'd expect from this bunch. Puts some things into perspective.

 

[The Flawless Gazelles]

this reminds me of the time hambers aunt showed up, i wonder if op will go down the same road

 

[Concerned Vagino-American]

I wonder how Amber's going to feel when she lurks this thread and realizes she's losing her control of the narrative, even if this tea is about Becky and not her. Since Becky is essentially her 'property', after all

Amber's so furious she is going to respond with at least ten laughing-crying emojis. It's that bad. Maybe 15.


@FrazzleCakes can you post screenshots of those FB posts if you can get them? I 100% believe you that Norma is a monster, but receipts are the icing on the cake (or, sugar in the tea?) !

 

[WeDon'tNeedToWhisper]

Norma moved in with Jerry and my daughter very soon after and by Oct 2016, I received a call that Jerry and Norma had thrown her out and that I need to come get her NOW! [...] Their reason for throwing out my daughter was because she is gay. And they didn't want her girlfriend and her to do vile and disgusting things in Jerry's and Norma's house while they were at work. (To this day, my husband refuses to see or talk to my daughter until 1) she apologizes to Norma for being disrespectful and not obeying whatever Norma says to do and 2) Stop "throwing" in their faces her unnatural, disturbing and disgusting lifestyle. 3) Norma will decide when Jerry can spend time with my daughter and Norma MUST be there.

It seems like old habits die hard for Norma Jean Collins. Whata fucking cunt. If all this is true, any sympathy (which wasn't much) I had for NJ is obsolete. Throwing out other people's children because they're gay, should I really be surprised though? She sounds like a nasty person who likes to play the victim. Norma and Amber seem to have pretty similar personalities.

 

[Whatthefuck]

Damn, I’m so sorry you and especially your daughter had to go through that. Very interesting how being gay gets you kicked to the curb unless you can cough up shekels. What a piece of work that whole family is. I’m sure this is just the tip of the iceberg.

How fucked up is it that Norma makes Hamber seem relatively sane? Maybe Becks is just doing a sort of weird Oedipal thing where she’s attracted to crazies like her mother? Of course, it would also seem that Becks is a piece of shit in her own right.

Wow, KY Clusterfuck 3.0.

 

[FrazzleCakes]

@FrazzleCakes Do you know if the job she left provided any sort of benefits?

No, it doesn't have any benefits.

 

[DelicateMageflower]

Yeah, this 100% confirms that Becky only was after Amber's money all along. She saw the pile of gifts Destiny got that final Xmas and wanted it for herself. Gotta give her props; she is good at playing the naive rube role.

@FrazzleCakes I'm sorry you and your daughter had to deal with that. I hope she's okay now.

 

[Whatthefuck]

No, it doesn't have any benefits.

Ah, so where is the insurance that Hamber claims Becks has and Becks co-signed in agreement come from? Holy shit, you don’t think she’s being covered by Jerry as well? How old is Becks? Surely she’s aged out of that. So, is it a ?

 

[toilet_rainbow]

My sympathy for your daughter and you. I didn’t like Norma and Becky to begin with but this cements the deal

 

[vroomrustproof]

This is good

While most of the post is about Becky's stepdad being a typical white trash sperg we also got some good info on Becky that confirms a few things

• Becky quit her job because she got togheter with Amber who has money, so she doesn't need to work anymore (I hope she's happy that by "better job" she ment being a caretaker of a 550+ lb woman)
• Becky still tried to hit on her coworker after Becky got togheter with Amber

 

[Final Fight 3 Pipe]

Did Norma also disown Becky for being gay? How did they reconcile? I'm trying to understand the timeline.

-Norma is Becky's Mom
-Norma, at some point before being Jerry disowns Becky
-Norma remarries and kicks out someone else's kid for being gay (big yikes)
-Becky trying to awkwardly pressure that girl into shacking up with her

Is that all correct?

 

[marjoram]

Firstly, I'd just like to add my thanks to Frazzle. I'm sorry this toxic bunch of losers infected your family.
Secondly, what a fucking bitch. Not surprising, but seriously--what a fucking bitch. I can just SMELL the self righteous smugness from jebus' bestest buddy norma---jebus hates the gayz.
And the Thumb is a back stabbing bitch? Who knew??? Well, besides us, that is...

Must feel good to vent, huh Frazzle

 

[classtrash]

Jerry has small dick energy.

 

[amberLAH]

Hi Frazzle.
Not sure if you’d have any information on this, but a little while back there were some vague Facebook posts from Becky’s family. People suspect it was about Amber. Can you confirm? I have attached the screenshots below.

Spoiler: Images

Edit to avoid shitting up the place by double posting. I did not remember that you’ve been on the farms longer than a few days! Thanks for the info. I’ll go through your post history to avoid asking something you’ve already answered.

 

[THOTto]

@FrazzleCakes along with the screenshots already asked about are there any court related documents you can share? I’m not surprised they’re as scummy as Amber, but any hard evidence is really helpful to paint a full picture.

 

[FrazzleCakes]

The reasons I finally spoke out and got verified:

1) Norma, Becky, and ALR started to try to scam unsuspecting people on GFM. My ex owes me several months back pay from the divorce settlement amounting in the thousands. If I was after the money that he owes me I would have kept my mouth shut and pushed to get my money from him. No, scamming people is wrong.

2) I have posted on the Farms before and didn't reveal my identity because of my daughter and the fact I had a DVO against Jerry. Now, my daughter is safe away from the insanity and I don't care they know it is me. Too many lies upon lies that now affect strangers.

3) To answer some questions about Jerry's retirement. Yes, he retired from the US Navy. (We actually met while both of us served it the US Navy.) I was injured in the line of duty and was medically discharged. I know how Navy retirement and insurance work. You get half your base pay for the years you were in and your discharge rank. It is not actually a retirement per se it is a retention payment in case of a full-blown war they call up all retired military. Tri-care covers the spouse and underage dependents. Cancer treatment is one hundred percent covered including implants and reconstructive surgery. He also has a full-time job.

 

[vroomrustproof]

wish this came out sooner

the gofundme page for norma is already at $3,685/$5,000 as of this post

 

[FrazzleCakes]

Hi Frazzle.
Not sure if you’d have any information on this, but a little while back there were some vague Facebook posts from Becky’s family. People suspect it was about Amber. Can you confirm? I have attached the screenshots below.

Spoiler: Images

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I was the one that let that cat out of the bag if you look at my forum post history.

 

[Final Fight 3 Pipe]

The reasons I finally spoke out and got verified:

1) Norma, Becky, and ALR started to try to scam unsuspecting people on GFM. My ex owes me several months back pay from the divorce settlement amounting in the thousands. If I was after the money that he owes me I would have kept my mouth shut and pushed to get my money from him. No, scamming people is wrong.

2) I have posted on the Farms before and didn't reveal my identity because of my daughter and the fact I had a DVO against Jerry. Now, my daughter is safe away from the insanity and I don't care they know it is me. Too many lies upon lies that now affect strangers.

3) To answer some questions about Jerry's retirement. Yes, he retired from the US Navy. (We actually met while both of us served it the US Navy.) I was injured in the line of duty and was medically discharged. I know how Navy retirement and insurance work. You get half your base pay for the years you were in and your discharge rank. It is not actually a retirement per se it is a retention payment in case of a full-blown war they call up all retired military. Tri-care covers the spouse and underage dependents. Cancer treatment is one hundred percent covered including implants and reconstructive surgery. He also has a full-time job.

So the TLDR here is that her cancer treatments would be 100% covered based on Jerry's insurance, yet they are still doing a go fund me?