Orbiter How I entered the Amberland universe... the backstory

The reasons I finally spoke out and got verified:

1) Norma, Becky, and ALR started to try to scam unsuspecting people on GFM. My ex owes me several months back pay from the divorce settlement amounting in the thousands. If I was after the money that he owes me I would have kept my mouth shut and pushed to get my money from him. No, scamming people is wrong.

2) I have posted on the Farms before and didn't reveal my identity because of my daughter and the fact I had a DVO against Jerry. Now, my daughter is safe away from the insanity and I don't care they know it is me. Too many lies upon lies that now affect strangers.

3) To answer some questions about Jerry's retirement. Yes, he retired from the US Navy. (We actually met while both of us served it the US Navy.) I was injured in the line of duty and was medically discharged. I know how Navy retirement and insurance work. You get half your base pay for the years you were in and your discharge rank. It is not actually a retirement per se it is a retention payment in case of a full-blown war they call up all retired military. Tri-care covers the spouse and underage dependents. Cancer treatment is one hundred percent covered including implants and reconstructive surgery. He also has a full-time job.
Girl, get your money. It’s not a scam if it’s genuinely owed to you. He’s on a military pension and has a FT job and Norma is on disability? Fuck that. Get what’s yours if for no other reason then they’re actively scamming about something as serious as cancer.
 
@FrazzleCakes along with the screenshots already asked about are there any court related documents you can share? I’m not surprised they’re as scummy as Amber, but any hard evidence is really helpful to paint a full picture.
I have DVO papers, I have divorce papers which I gave already sent to the Farms staff to be verified. I have some screenshots of facebook and the proof of my ex-husband federal prison history. I am a private person. I don't rant on facebook and try to keep to myself.
 
I have DVO papers, I have divorce papers which I gave already sent to the Farms staff to be verified. I have some screenshots of facebook and the proof of my ex-husband federal prison history. I am a private person. I don't rant on facebook and try to keep to myself.
A great trait to have. If you’re willing to share any of it here, we welcome it. Since Becky’s family private’d much of their social media after speaking with people who leaked the conversations, it’s left many of us pretty curious. Speculation is fun but getting confirmation to our craziness is the best part.
 
We knew Becky was a piece of shit and her fake ass acting (begging for handouts yesterday) was all a farce.

Sounds like she and her whole damn trash family deserve big Al.

It sucks you and your daughter had to deal with that mess. Your ex is totally weak for letting a woman control his relationship with his daughter.
 
@FrazzleCakes , are you aware of any criminal history Norma may have?

Becky knew your daughter, is this how Norma met your ex? Did Becky set them up?

I knew Becky was a piece of shit, but I drastically underestimated her backstabbing and manipulation skills. She has the same level of animal cunning as Amber.
 
I have DVO papers, I have divorce papers which I gave already sent to the Farms staff to be verified. I have some screenshots of facebook and the proof of my ex-husband federal prison history. I am a private person. I don't rant on facebook and try to keep to myself.
You’re a proper Kiwi and I respect your privacy, absolutely. Thank you for what you’ve already provided. It made a lot of pieces fall into place.
 
@FrazzleCakes , are you aware of any criminal history Norma may have?

Becky knew your daughter, is this how Norma met your ex? Did Becky set them up?

I knew Becky was a piece of shit, but I drastically underestimated her backstabbing and manipulation skills. She has the same level of animal cunning as Amber.
As far as I know, Norma doesn't have a criminal history. She can still owed firearms however, Jerry isn't allowed to have access to firearms, bow and arrows, knifes over 6 inches, etc. It's a concern.

Jerry and Norma met when they both worked at Walmart. Jerry introduced these unhinged loopy people into my daughters and my life. Jerry and I were separated and still on speaking terms when they met.
 
@FrazzleCakes So Norma's husband owes you a fuck ton of money per the divorce and hasn't paid up, and now Norma has thousands in grifted money with your ex listed as the beneficiary. Goodness. That doesn't sound legal.

We have a scammer trying to hide funds from the government by making her felonious husband the beneficiary, while said felonious husband owes thousands of dollars in a settlement. Innnnnteresting.
 
@FrazzleCakes - Curious if your daughter is following this drama at all? Those texts sound really incriminating, and I'm sure she could add a lot to the conversation if she felt comfortable doing so. (Totally understand, if not) :heart-full:

I also wonder what Amber thinks about Becky texting something like that to another woman so early in their relationship. Sounds like an emotional-cheating-situation-type-deal to me, even if it was super cringy and clearly not reciprocated.

God, these people deserve each other...
 
Do you think Becky got with Amber because she sees Norma in her?
I think it’s a strong possibility. Sometimes folks who’ve been put down and humiliated all their lives gravitate toward it. Call it a weird form of Stockholm Syndrome.

That or she got Norma’s grifting gene. May as well check for that when she gets her genetic testing for the BC gene.
 
@FrazzleCakes, what do you MEAN it's a scam?? They need that money for more breast cancer merch girl!!

We really do appreciate you for posting. Especially in this dry time of salad mukbangs and hauls, it's nice to see a little genuine truth in the Amberverse. I don't doubt you'll receive some form of backlash over this, and my heart goes out to you for it, but you did the right thing imo. Even if it doesn't prevent all her asspatters in lala land from donating to this despicable, cancerous (literally) hag, I hope you feel better for speaking up.
 
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