I wouldn't agree with that - I'd be perfectly happy to have sexual intercourse if it jumped into my lap with no implied obligation, but I've had enough sex and endured enough women over the years to decide sex isn't worth the effort required to get it.
That might make me lazy or insufficiently horny, but not an incel.
I am divorced. I never want anything to do with a woman for the rest of my life. Getting your dick wet just isn't worth it. I want to retire to a cabin in the woods with a great big FUCK YOU dog.