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- Nov 16, 2014
I’ve decided to lay off the food for a bit, and go on the booze.
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I wish my room/mate would stop. Drinks easily a pint of vodka a night plus beer. Hides the bottles in the garage because he doesn't like when I drink. I finally quit - he hates fun and music and that's how I roll when I drink. I stopped to save from arguments and the cold shoulder all week because I dared to listen to Rush for an hour or two on my laptop. I know, I know, I'm just a terror!!
It's getting so bad he thinks people are videotaping him on their phones at work. He's a fucking mechanic, not a CIA agent for God's sake! He'll never go to the doctor because he knows what they will say; plus, he thinks HR or the insurance company will snoop on his records.
I don't drink either and it's for the same reason as you. Can't stand the taste, and it's so much so that I don't really understand why anyone would drink. Why drink something that tastes like shoe polish? To numb all your other senses? I dunno, I've never gotten drunk so I don't know how it's supposed to feel but I can't imagine it feels that good, even moreso that you have to drink quite a bit of something nasty just to get there.I don't have any alcohol problems 'cause I don't like the taste.
However, I understand why people booze. I get how quickly you can get addicted so fast..
That really depends. Your casual heavy drinkers will definitely gorge on food after a bender, but a lot of serious alcoholics barely eat anything at all. They're too busy drinking all day erryday to reach a point of intoxication that feels like semi-functional normalcy, and by that point they're often too wasted to care about shit like nutrition.Alcohol is also an appetite stimulant. By drinking less, you may also be eating less.
I lost about 20 pounds when I stopped drinking and I'm under 5ft and have never been more than 130 pounds. I also stopped smoking weed so I was just barely eating because my appetite was completely gone.
It was pretty nuts. I ended up stopping cold turkey and had a seizure. It was absolutely terrifying.
So the next time I stopped, I ended up getting medical attention to prevent that from happening and ended up going to rehab.
It took about 5 months for my hands to stop shaking. I was drinking a stupid amount though, like half a gallon a day.
Good for you for stopping. It's incredibly difficult but after a bit of time, you feel so much better about it.
My problem was that I didn't like just drinking, so I'd smoke a ton of weed while doing so, which makes you ravenously hungry. So I would eat quite a bit once I was sufficiently fucked up, like complete shit of course, but at least I was getting enough calories from actual food. The times that I didn't have any weed, I'd still drink like an asshole, but I noticed that I never got really hungry, and in fact would think, "Hmm... If I eat food I won't be able to get nearly as drunk. Fuck eating, booze it is!"That really depends. Your casual heavy drinkers will definitely gorge on food after a bender, but a lot of serious alcoholics barely eat anything at all. They're too busy drinking all day erryday to reach a point of intoxication that feels like semi-functional normalcy, and by that point they're often too wasted to care about shit like nutrition.
I guess that, at a certain point, your body is so used to and dependent on alcohol that it becomes the only thing it really cares about and responds to.
Alcohol is also an appetite stimulant. By drinking less, you may also be eating less.
Liquor all day every day will do that to you. Are rehabs in the UK just a bunch of AA bullshit like they are in the US?I am an alcoholic, and have no shame in saying that, and I have been sober for nearly 3 years straight now.
I was the opposite end, once I stopped drinking, I actually put on 2 stone, because I was actually eating healthy. I was painfully thin before, because I was drinking a litre of vodka every day, and mostly passed out around 7pm and would just wake up about 5am to get another bottle. I was constantly drunk at work too, but because I was so far gone, I needed 350ml of vodka at work just to function. My way that I got round this was we all had our own sweet jars on our desks, for ourselves and clients to help themselves to. Mine were either herbal tablets or Fisherman's friend, and I was always conscious about breathing close to anyone...
I was so bad I ended up in rehab, (which was ok, because I got to meet some good people, a few minor UK celebrities LOL (really minor) and an ex world champion boxer, who is still friends with me to this day.) and had to do the medicated withdrawal over 40 days: 40 Librium tablets day one, 39 day 2, 38,37 etc etc.
I was so bad that cold turkey wasn't an option, and the only reason I went to rehab was my wife had left me because she was sick of my bullshit, and then I drank more than I usually did at work and passed out at my desk and got rumbled. They were good enough to pay half though, when I really thought I was getting the sack. Still was out about £12k paying the other half but it probably saved my life so money well spent.
Have no problem with other people drinking, but most people can handle it and just get wasted once in a while. Took me nearly 18 months to be even able to go into a pub or bar though socially. Otherwise I would have fucked up.
All good now, but man if it gets you, it's the worst drug because it is everywhere 24/7, like even now I've got half a bottle of wine in the fridge because I invite my aunt over for Sunday lunch each week, and she only has 2 small glasses so I'm saving it for her for next week. No temptation, because I know if I did, as soon as it kicked in, I'd be straight out getting vodka within minutes.
Yes and no...Liquor all day every day will do that to you. Are rehabs in the UK just a bunch of AA bullshit like they are in the US?
My problem with AA is that those faggots think that they have a monopoly on addiction treatment, at least in my experience. I had to go to court ordered AA once, and the amount of absolute bullshit I heard was staggering. I heard more thought terminating cliches from AA members than I ever heard from any religious devotee. "That's some stinkin' thinkin'!" "Let go and let God." "Take the cotton out of your ears and stuff it in your mouth!" "Your best thinking got you here!" etc, etc. Their whole "program" is designed to foster total dependence on the group, and utter helplessness in the individual. Hence the cliches, the insistence on 90 meetings in 90 days, and so on. Essentially, it's a cult, and a poorly designed one at that. My favorite thing is that when someone in AA goes back to drinking, it's their fault for "not working the program hard enough", and if they manage to stay sober, it's because the program "works if you work it". AA is always blameless, the program never fails, only people do. And God forbid that someone quits drinking without AA, they aren't really sober, they're just a "dry drunk", which is so ridiculous that it would be laughable were it not for the fact that the AA cultists actually believe that bullshit.Yes and no...
I have experienced the way AA and CA and NA go there, and it's all based on the 12 Steps... It isn't dissimilar in any country because it's still based on Bill's book. For me, it's not my thing... I know people who have said that the 12 steps saved them, and I believe them, but for me It was just a stepping board to sort my shit out...
I'm not gonna be too dismissive of AA because it has saved lives but my personal take on it is I've seen people addicted to AA when they should have just got over it, which is hard to say with addictive personalities, but when you live your life at meetings, and are not living your own life, that is just as bad.
Only my opinion, but I know people that go to 5-6 meetings a week, and mostly in the afternoon. Good people, but broken people, but they would do better to just get a job.
powerlevel: I still hit up a CA or AA meeting every other few months, but it's just to keep me grounded, and realise what I have... May sound selfish, but I don't judge others, because every "newcomer" reminds me of me and it humbles me a bit... Selfish? yeah... So what? Not my thing though...
Luckily I never made it to the 13th step...