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- Feb 23, 2019
Look...
These YWNBAW posts are not funny anymore. I don't know, I've been feeling a little bit sad due to regret for what I have previously said, thought, and even did about them. I have met a few people IRL and online who were transgender, some FTM, and others MTF. They did not appeared to be fetishists, coomers, or AGP crossdressers as I have previously presumed. The people I met were kind, but rather paranoic and severly depresesed from abuse that they have endured during their lives.
And, you know, seeing them cry while telling me about their hardships they faced made me feel remorse.
Their pain and hurt in their eyes will probably stay with me for awhile, and, I don't know if these "troon haha" posts are funny anymore.
However, it's not just my personal experiences that have made me regret my previous views. I was also subjected to painfully retarded genders norms too, just like many non-trans people do too, but they never notice.
Recently I have seen a post on Twitter from ValidLs, and... after reading this, I realized that not all of them deserve this. I don't know, it's quite disturbing.
I still think that people like Keffals are total assholes, but I have changed my approach on trans people. I think that disrespecting their identity just for the sake of them being trans makes me as a huge asshole as certain people who hate 50% of the world population due to trauma. Some people see what constitutes as male/female from biology, and others from identity. These people will never agree with each other, and these debates will never end.
I just don't want to make people sad, I don't like upsetting others, realizing that I'm literally one of the same people who have made my new friends depressed and cry themselves to sleep made me feel regret.
I don't know. I just don't think that they are "lolcow worthy" anymore. Gender roles fucking suck, so I have some empathy for them. Am I wrong, or just being heavily biased?
These YWNBAW posts are not funny anymore. I don't know, I've been feeling a little bit sad due to regret for what I have previously said, thought, and even did about them. I have met a few people IRL and online who were transgender, some FTM, and others MTF. They did not appeared to be fetishists, coomers, or AGP crossdressers as I have previously presumed. The people I met were kind, but rather paranoic and severly depresesed from abuse that they have endured during their lives.
And, you know, seeing them cry while telling me about their hardships they faced made me feel remorse.
Their pain and hurt in their eyes will probably stay with me for awhile, and, I don't know if these "troon haha" posts are funny anymore.
However, it's not just my personal experiences that have made me regret my previous views. I was also subjected to painfully retarded genders norms too, just like many non-trans people do too, but they never notice.
Recently I have seen a post on Twitter from ValidLs, and... after reading this, I realized that not all of them deserve this. I don't know, it's quite disturbing.
I still think that people like Keffals are total assholes, but I have changed my approach on trans people. I think that disrespecting their identity just for the sake of them being trans makes me as a huge asshole as certain people who hate 50% of the world population due to trauma. Some people see what constitutes as male/female from biology, and others from identity. These people will never agree with each other, and these debates will never end.
I just don't want to make people sad, I don't like upsetting others, realizing that I'm literally one of the same people who have made my new friends depressed and cry themselves to sleep made me feel regret.
I don't know. I just don't think that they are "lolcow worthy" anymore. Gender roles fucking suck, so I have some empathy for them. Am I wrong, or just being heavily biased?
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