Incel thread - Vocal losers or average men scorned?

[National Defense Advocate]

In this thread, we will discuss the rapidly growing trend of "incels" (involuntary celebates) to conclude whether or not they have any right to complain or if they're right about modern women and dating as a whole.

 

[SofondaCox]

It easy to quit. It's easier to blame someone other than yourself. Due to this, there will always be a large contingent of bitter people looking
for a cope. Incels and troons are two sides of the same coin.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Stop watching porn, learn to properly wipe, make sure your BMI is bellow 35 and don't be an asshole. Its not that hard . Most women overlooking even lack of basic life skills as long as you say the right words.

 

[❤️ Rivet ❤️]

Most women overlooking even lack of basic life skills

Why would any sane woman settle for a man without basic life skills? That's often a worse option for them than being alone.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Why would any sane woman settle for a man without basic life skills? That's often a worse option for them than being alone.

Don't ask me ask your women nigga . I have hard time wrapping my head around it myself. Women marrying and dating useless eaters as long as they tell the right stuff at them .

 

[AfroMegan]

Most incels I know have some sort of mental illness. Their biggest mistake is to insist that their problems affects the average Joe when they are not.

 

[GunCar Gary]

incels’ biggest mistake is seething about lack of pussy instead of harnessing their virginity into savant wizard powers like Tesla did

you could be designing a death ray or advancing battery technology but you choose to spend your time jerking off to 4/10 trashy tramps on OnlyFans? pathetic

 

[Duke Nukem]

incels’ biggest mistake is seething about lack of pussy instead of harnessing their virginity into savant wizard powers like Tesla did

you could be designing a death ray or advancing battery technology but you choose to spend your time jerking off to 4/10 trashy tramps on OnlyFans? pathetic

I don't honestly believe that the types of guys who would beat off to mid girls on OnlyFans would be the type to advance human knowledge of anything, let alone electricity, in the absence of their beloved "content creators."

Most incels I know have some sort of mental illness. Their biggest mistake is to insist that their problems affects the average Joe when they are not.

I've heard that there's a higher than average occurrence of some form of autism amongst those who identify as incel. I can understand maybe giving up if you're autistic and past the age of 30 but a lot of modern incels are high school or college age and are simply clueless guys who have no experience and see no way to get any. It's honestly easier to blame "Chad" than it is to just accept that you just might not be good enough for the kinds of women that you wish you could attract.

 

[The Entity]

Stop watching porn, learn to properly wipe, make sure your BMI is bellow 35 and don't be an asshole. Its not that hard . Most women overlooking even lack of basic life skills as long as you say the right words.

I don't get what the point is to just this blatantly lying. Why is it so hard to admit that yes, women want good looking men and most men simply aren't good enough for them? Because if you genuinely believe that there is a significant portion of people who don't wipe their asses outside of India then you desperately need to get off the internet.

 

[DiggieSmalls]

I don't get what the point is to just this blatantly lying. Why is it so hard to admit that yes, women want good looking men and most men simply aren't good enough for them? Because if you genuinely believe that there is a significant portion of people who don't wipe their asses outside of India then you desperately need to get off the internet.

Dude, boogie fucked a woman he didnt pay. Chris-chan had a normal looking woman lusting after him. Ethan Ralph has two kids. DSP had Panda Lee begging for his dspdick. RTU has children. Fat titted women have simped for jewsh. KingCobra has fucked women.
I think theres some blame to be passed to the men here too since if those speds can get fucked, incels can too.

 

[The Entity]

Dude, boogie fucked a woman he didnt pay. Chris-chan had a normal looking woman lusting after him. Ethan Ralph has two kids. DSP had Panda Lee begging for his dspdick.

Yes but you are ignoring 2 things. All of them are older people, meanwhile the incel phenomenon at this scale is relatively new and mainly affects the under 30 age group. And second they are all extremely infamous people.

I think theres some blame to be passed to the men here too since if those speds can get fucked, incels can too.

True to an extent. Due to how broken dating is now in society these people never completed the necessary social milestones in their teens so they are already starting with a massive disadvantage.

 

[DiggieSmalls]

Yes but you are ignoring 2 things. All of them are older people, meanwhile the incel phenomenon at this scale is relatively new and mainly affects the under 30 age group. And second they are all extremely infamous people.

True to an extent. Due to how broken dating is now in society these people never completed the necessary social milestones in their teens so they are already starting with a massive disadvantage.

They are extremely disgusting people. They also scored poon many years their junior. I'm only pointing them out because people here know them, not because I'd be able to say "you know my disgusting nephew jon has been able to fuck women".
There have been plenty of young men who a lot of people who would say definitely aren't chad getting laid. Even far away from being Chad. I see men at my gym in their 20's who are working on fixing themselves, are they models? No. Are they chads? No. Do they smash box? Yes, and they have girlfriends.
I've read incels talk on here and I imagine horrifying disfigurement and disability is not the over arching concern for not being able to score. I think there are some things true of what they say and I can empathize with them as men.

 

[National Defense Advocate]

I'm gonna drop my own opinion in my own thread, and just remember I'm human like all of you.
I think this is a pretty substantial social problem, at the least. You don't get statistics like 28% of young men aged 18 to 30 just haven't fucked ever or in the last few years when your social environments are healthy.

There really aren't very many places you can go to meet women. It's mostly just work or dating apps and dating apps are skewed very heavily in favor of hot dudes, that's not even up for debate.
You can reasonably meet women at a job, but swapping jobs to find a GF is hardly a realistic idea.

Bars and clubs are dominated by boomers and niggers respectively so a sensitive young Kiwi farmer would not flourish in those environments.
Idk bros, it's rough down in the trenches. I feel for you, I don't even admonish the 40 year olds trying to pass on advice because that advice DID work 30 years ago.
Young guys trying to navigate a new social environment that's different than what they were taught as kids.

 

[AgendaPoster]

Stop watching porn, learn to properly wipe, make sure your BMI is bellow 35 and don't be an asshole

You can be an asshole if you deal with the BMI, muscle mass and cleanliness issues.
Asshoe away chuds.

sensitive young Kiwi farmer

Horrifying.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

You can be an asshole if you deal with the BMI, muscle mass and cleanliness issues

The only time you can get away with being asshole is when you pay all the bills and have kids every other option she will shank your ass in the worst possible time. Don't make enemies out of your gf or wife bud especially when it cost you nothing to say few supportive words .

And believe me western women are good at one thing is to get their pound of flesh if they feel it its owed to them . There is reason why their men shit their pants over divorce and family courts .

 

[National Defense Advocate]

Horrifying.

Kiwi zoomers are sensitive souls, just look at Turkey Tom.

 

[AgendaPoster]

Don't make enemies out of your gf or wife bud.

I don't speak with any of my exes lmao. All my relationships (minus maybe one) were highly toxic and antagonistic, but that's exactly what I wanted out of them.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

I don't speak with any of my exes lmao. All my relationships (minus maybe one) were highly toxic and antagonistic, but that's exactly what I wanted out of them.

Were they western women?

 

[AgendaPoster]

Were they western women?

Of course not!
Maybe partially. Who cares tho'.
I did have a French GF that works at some cheesy multinational corpo here. She was pretty hot looking but fucking passionless and dead inside. I suspect she was on some meds that are not commonly used here. Yuck.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

I'm gonna drop my own opinion in my own thread, and just remember I'm human like all of you.
I think this is a pretty substantial social problem, at the least. You don't get statistics like 28% of young men aged 18 to 30 just haven't fucked ever or in the last few years when your social environments are healthy.

There really aren't very many places you can go to meet women. It's mostly just work or dating apps and dating apps are skewed very heavily in favor of hot dudes, that's not even up for debate.
You can reasonably meet women at a job, but swapping jobs to find a GF is hardly a realistic idea.

Bars and clubs are dominated by boomers and niggers respectively so a sensitive young Kiwi farmer would not flourish in those environments.
Idk bros, it's rough down in the trenches. I feel for you, I don't even admonish the 40 year olds trying to pass on advice because that advice DID work 30 years ago.
Young guys trying to navigate a new social environment that's different than what they were taught as kids.

I wonder what percentage of self-described incels have healthy groups of irl friends. Isolation and only non-in-person interaction retards basic social skills. When I look at my kids and their peers, though some dated earlier and more often than others, the ones who were happiest and the most competent in basic social interaction were those who had circles of friends that spent time in both same-sex and mixed-sex company. That's always been the case, but it seems a greater percentage of young people today have the ability and choose to minimize actual interaction with other humans in the flesh. Socializing, like everything else, takes practice. And if you can't socialize at all, it's infinitely harder to date, either because you just don't know what to do, or because you act in ways outside social norms.

The good news is that it's possible to get better and more comfortable, and therefore more successful...unless, of course, you cling to deranged viewpoints or persist in believing you're above it all.

You can be an asshole if you deal with the BMI, muscle mass and cleanliness issues.
Asshoe away chuds.
.

Why would you (the general you, but I guess also specific you) want to be an asshole?

To be clear, I mean if you're actually in the market for something good. If not, then I retract the question bc I both know the answer and also don't care.