I was explaining the irony written by another user, namely that self-entitled people often say that incels aren't entitled to anything. And the question of entitlement is very iffy. In some societies (both present and historic) women aren't even entitled to choose their partners, let alone navigate the world without a male's oversight. You can appeal to modern sensibilities if you like but they are just that. Personally, I don't think anybody is truly entitled to anything, which can cut both ways.
>tfw no flapper gf
If it weren't for the protections of modern society, this man would be beaten to death. Takes out pepper spray like a bitch getting raped when women are chasing him. lmao
This is literally Youtube prank channel tier; Act like a complete fucktard in public then double down when people inevitably get mad
How many women have you dated?
4. Although other women I've known in my family have been even worse than the women I've dated so that probably influences my opinion a bit.
Is this like four first dates, or multiple dates and you've actually spent some time with them?
I've dated all of them for a few months, and lived with two of them.
That's significant then. I think you've probably just had some bad luck, but I know you're not going to take my word for it.
I don't really want to call myself an incel but I'll answer from the standpoint of someone who's extremely bad with women.
Yep, that's the guy.
She was probably hoping to text back and forth a little before you met up. She's a woman, so she was hoping you'd take the lead on it. TBH you probably could have went to her place fucked her by Wednesday night if you were texting back and fourth and it was going well and she liked you.
We hadn't been, no. My own mindset was "we set up a date, I'll see her then, maybe just message her the day before to confirm". It never really occurred to me that there was any need to communicate again before the date, since I thought that was the point of a date.
See this is how men think. Women don't think like that.
That's fair enough. I've always found it very difficult to understand how women think, which I think is one of my big problems.
It's like women have a little monster inside them that feeds on her emotions and if you don't feed it enough, it makes the woman sad. She wants you to feed the monster by showing you're excited about going on a date with her, not necessarily by directly saying it, but by showing enthusiasm. Then by Wednesday you're like, "Gosh darn it, older big tiddy mommy woman, I'm just so pumped to hang out with you. Are you sure you won't grab a quick coffee with me tonight? I'll come to a place near you." Most women want you to be spontaneous and take the lead. They want you to flatter them and they want you to be direct about it without being gross.
It's not about them wanting to talk to you. It's about them wanting to know you want to talk to them. They want you to make the first move. If they like you they will make it easy for you, that's the key.
Yeahhh she's not going to want to hang out with you IRL until she knows you actually get along socially and that is always done before the date. Being stuck on a date with someone you don't mesh with is torturous for both parties - there needs to be a social report established first. You want to make sure you can actually conversate and such so you're not sitting in awkward silence at a restaurant the first time you meet.
