Is being a stepfather cuckold behavior?

[Colon capital V]

>I naziheart making fun of guys who take after other woman's kids evendoe I also make fun of kids for having fatherless behavior.

 

[Idiot Doom Spiral]

Of course it is.

Chad gets to blow his beans up your useless wife’s muff, then rides off into the sunset for mucho fucking and partying while you beta-provide for the post-wall witch and her progeny; wiping the shitty arse of a child who isn’t even yours.

Bringing up another man’s kids is the definition of cuckoldry.

 

[MrTroll]

Only if you don't take advantage of your hot teen stepdaughter.

 

[NotADrunkLawyer]

I'd say it depends on the situation.

In the average "chick had four kids with various losers and decided now is the time to settle down" situation, yeah, 100% cuckage.

But there is a lot of grey area. Say the girl was a faithful tradwife who had a kid with a guy, and then that guy got ran over by an 18 wheeler on the way home from work..... well I think that's okay, probably.

 

[ShamefurDispray]

Going by strict definition no. You have to be unaware about not being the father. The term comes from the behavior of cuckoo birds. They would replace eggs in an unknowing birds nest with their own and the cucked parents would raise the hatchling/s as their own.

 

[Lithuophile]

It's even more cucked to leave your bio kids to be molded and reshaped in another man's image.

 

[ENDTOPII]

From an evolutionary perspective, the existence of a "pure good stepfathers" is an illusion, the voluntary a cuck gene would have died out a long time ago (only to pop up as a few rare mutations here and there to die off with no offsprings). But if a man sticks around, he can have kids with the stepdaughter, this is the only evolutionary explanation for why men would ever accept such a situation. I'm pretty sure that if we would look at statistics about single moms with daughters vs. sons and how many dates/potential men that approach them, we would see a grim pattern.

The voluntary/knowing cuck stuff is just a jewish meme made to demoralize men and a trust comfort meme for single mothers. In addition, stepsons often are more neglected (or even abused) than the biological sons and we know about gorilla infanticide, nature is sometimes pretty fucked up.

 

[Fathomless Eminence]

Going by strict definition no. You have to be unaware about not being the father. The term comes from the behavior of cuckoo birds. They would replace eggs in an unknowing birds nest with their own and the cucked parents would raise the hatchling/s as their own.

This, unless the child is black in which case it becomes a cux post facto situation.

 

[Fatniggo1488]

Depends. If you're picking up the slut's baggage for her and the baby daddy, that's pretty cucked. If it's something like her ex husband died, or she had some other valid reason to be a single mother then it might not be.

 

[Mister Baranavichy]

I'd say it all depends on specific circumstances, my bio is the realest piece of human garbage the soil has ever sprouted, and without my stepfather, I wouldn't even be able to read and write as my first school was complete dog water.

Unironically, during my childhood, the best times I had were when it was just me and my stepdad, I was better organized, had better scheduling, and was genuinely happier.

But my luck, at least during that time, is 100% not the standard so again, it depends on the circumstances.

 

[Dysnomia]

I'd say it all depends on specific circumstances, my bio is the realest piece of human garbage the soil has ever sprouted, and without my stepfather, I wouldn't even be able to read and write as my first school was complete dog water.

Unironically, during my childhood, the best times I had were when it was just me and my stepdad, I was better organized, had better scheduling, and was genuinely happier.

But my luck, at least during that time, is 100% not the standard so again, it depends on the circumstances.

My biological father was also human garbage. Junkie trash who stole anything that wasn't nailed down and let his kids live in poverty. Shacked up with some crazy bitch and ran up utility bills in my mom's name. He took my great grandmother's jewelry that she brought over from Poland and had left to my grandmother. I was only five but I was glad my mom divorced that scum. I was already an adult when my mom got remarried. But he was a way better person. Also he looked just like Tommy Chong.

Of course not every spouse is a bad person and sometimes marriages just don't work out. If you can move on to someone you are better with then that's great. Some people have a type though and end up in multiple bad marriages. All this stuff is on a case by case basis.

 

[Fanatical Pragmatist]

Only if you don't drop your own seed in that pussy and end up being a biological dead end while raising some other dude's kids

 

[56 others]

Depends on if you already have custody of your own kids

 

[Irregardless]

All depends. If you just end up with some burn out who has you picking up the slack of the dead beat father, then yea, you're a cuck. On the other hand, if you end up with a woman whose kid is like 2 and the father died in a car accident it's probably not as big a deal. Well, as long as you have your own kid with her as well. The truest cuck behavior is being a childless man who gets with a single mother and never ends up having any biological kids of their own. At that point idc what the circumstances are, you're a cuck.

 

[Cryin RN]

From an evolutionary perspective, the existence of a "pure good stepfathers" is an illusion, the voluntary a cuck gene would have died out a long time ago. But if a man sticks around, he can have kids with the stepdaughter, this is the only evolutionary explanation for why men would ever accept such a situation. I'm pretty sure that if we would look at statistics about single moms with daughters vs. sons and how many dates/potential men that approach them, I we would see a grim pattern.

The voluntary/knowing cuck stuff is just a jewish meme made to demoralize men and a trust comfort meme for single mothers. In addition, stepsons often are more neglected (or even abused) than the biological sons and we know about gorilla infanticide, nature is sometimes pretty fucked up.

The evolutionary benefit to being a stepdad is that you're boning a woman who can guarantee a pregnancy, which is not something to take for granted in humans with our 1% childbirth fatality rate. Widows with proven childbearing ability were hot shit in historical marriage markets because you know they can actually deliver an heir and not like, fucking die immediately (middle classes not nobility, obviously). The step daughter might be a perk (gross) but the real gift is that you know she can live through labour and you won't have wasted 9 months+ of your investment, plus, she's capable of raising a child, which again is not an automatic guarantee and is the primary fitness component in female mammals.

 

[Ravier Xavenblood]

If you don't want kids of your own and you shack up with a single mom, yes. That is cucked love and cucked love isn't worth the headache.

HOWEVER, if she lets you have your own kid with her then I guess it's ok. Not really the life I want though.

 

[Fakenamemagoo]

So one of the biggest problems in society is the plague of Single Mothers, and what solution is there for that than Step Fathers?

 

[beautiful person]

It's even more cucked to leave your bio kids to be molded and reshaped in raped by another man's image.

Fixed.

 

[SphinxItOver]

Is being a stepfather cuckold behavior? That is a loaded question. It requires MANY assumptions to be made.

If it's a question that's being honest on it's surface about the contents it's discussing. Then the answer is 50/50 depending on situational factors. Factors that range so broadly that even a decision tree would be needed with looping paths that discuss family history of both marriage partners, genetics, wealth, and mental health and so on. That's with excluding the opinions and experiences of step kids involved. You would have better luck reading the linux distro lineage chart.

If the question is being dishonest about the contents it's discussing. Then what it's discussing is the social status of men dependent on their family structure and sex life instead of achievements and this is an attempt to derank or exclude men from discussion based on sex and reproduction. This is an easy route to prove false considering the amount of men in history that did not even have children but still contributed greatly to society and science. It's also an easy route for low intelligent men to use as an excuse to convince themselves as being a higher status man with children and no achievements compared to a man with numerous achievements and step children or no children of his own.

Some loaded questions in the same vein of thought: Does adoption make you a cuck? Is a stepmom a cuck? Are grandparents raising step kids cucked? I often wonder if people complaining about lack of payoff from raising other peoples kids watched their parents abandon their grandparents. Wouldn't having children in the family pay off with them participating in the family as supporters and caretakers?

 

[Safir]

Is being a stepfather cuckold behavior?

Depending on the circumstances, it can go anywhere on a spectrum of cuck to biodad-is-a-cuck.

Consider: if you marry a rich trust fund babby and change your surname to hers (meaning, her father's), is this cuck behavior or not? It's somewhat dodgy, at the very least it's disrespectful to your own father. In that light, if you knowingly raise someone's kid well to consider you the father, you'll be cucking the deadbeat sperm donor. If however you get a wigger who takes after the bio dad, well too bad. And if your own genetic son takes after Chris Tyson, it's probably worse.

Consider: your memes are just as valuable as your genes, maybe more so (they separate us from animals). It may be better to raise a genetically unrelated intellectual heir than a genetically related troon (although OF COURSE raising your own kid gives you better chances to succeed).

The evolutionary benefit to being a stepdad is that you're boning a woman who can guarantee a pregnancy, which is not something to take for granted in humans with our 1% childbirth fatality rate.

The worst thing isn't that she dies in childbirth (it's always a risk, but you can remarry a younger woman and have even more children), it's that she's infertile. Christian marriages for life are nice until you're the one stuck in a childless marriage begging God to grant your 98-year-old wife a miracle babby. Sometimes I wonder how many of the Euro bloodlines aren't cucked. Look at Japanese nobility with their multiple wives and sidehoes and see how many of the wives were infertile or "infertile" (honorable legal wife stayed faithful, clever sidehoe fucked a stablehand).

In modern times, marrying a young mother from some economic classes can mean marrying a family-minded woman -- if she's not too retarded to abort (don't put your dick in retard), she must have wanted a kid and a family. It's probably better to marry a 20-year-old divorcee with a baby who got tricked into marriage by a faux-conservative than a childless 30-year-old fresh off the cock carousel with a spiral up her unmentionables. She'll be raising your kids at least 50% of the time, you need her to be imparting your memes.



Hell, it's probably better to marry a 20-year-old divorcee with a baby than a 30-year-old virgin. Gold-star virgins have issues. Source: am old virgin, no takers.

Of course it's better to marry a 20-year-old virgin, but there aren't enough of them for everyone. By the time the average huwhite male saves up to buy one (if he ever does), he'll be 50, and in the end she'll be raising his genetic child with her second husband.