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What we need to realize is not every kid is born with the native capacity to do STEM or pursue post-secondary education...and that's OK. Society can't all be geniuses.
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Dude, I know your pain. Its such a fucking time sink. I literally told this one company that I can spent 27 hours in three days to study topics people build 20 careers on to then have my aptitude be based on a 30 minute test is ridiculous and I have no motivation to do it. I just can't do the bombastic interview processes some company's have. I don't need two interviews prior to an 8 hour interview with a 1 hour lunch where I constantly was being assessed. What really gets me pissy is when I have to explain this to someone who is oblivious to the process. Don't have an opinion of technical interviews unless you have actual experience with them.i went for stem because i watched too much Dave ramsey and thought being an IT/coding fag was the ticket to being successful. Well i graduated and did well and all that but guess what, i cant get hired because the decent internships are all in coast cities and i cant move there. And the normal jobs want you to have sixty years of experience and be a specialist in every programming and software known to man, thanks to pajeet hiring practices. and im fucking female so they should apparently be showering me with offers. not really. at least im not in debt because i was a studyhard autist in HS and got funding.
it really sucks to bust your ass for 4 years doing everything "right" and then become a failson anyway![]()
I agree the whole internship bullshit needs to end. companies should suck it up and employ new people and give them a training period or something because not all of us can get the time, transportation or nepotism to drive up to the shiny city buildings every day for free labor (ahem, ~experience~) while doing 18 credit hour semesters.I can sympathize. I went full IT and because my university wasn't on the coast and I couldn't afford to take an internship (I crunched the numbers and I needed to take more classes to make sure I got scholarship money to feed myself), I ended up with a 6 year gap in my resume where I jumped from retail job to retail job earning minimum after graduation.
Let me tell you, feeling like you pissed away 4 years of your life and having it seem like your unemployable is a good way to experience massive near suicidal depression. Year 5 and 6 were especially brutal as my siblings graduated, got work, and my parents started thinking of me as the failure son. I eventually met someone who took me on as an assistant and had tons of amazing connections. This opened doors for me and I've been able to springboard to where I should generally be at this point in my career. However, I know I got lucky as fuck. I still could easily be washing dishes or serving coffee right now.
Trades are absolutely a viable option that we as a society need to push more. Especially since academia demands higher end mathematics for most sciences. (And beyond basic Algerba, I've never needed the bloated higher requirements my university demanded. But they gotta tack in as much extra courses as possible to get more guaranteed student loan money from the government.) The harsh truth is that a lot of people won't be able to handle it and effectively condemning people to menial retail work is completely ass backwards and will end up wasting a generation of viable middle class workers.
The sad shit is that we are already seeing this with the middle class on a scary downward trend and worker visa abuse bringing in foreign workers when the job really should go to a domestic citizen.
working for small business aka doing janitor or cleaning work isnt what you get a fucking tech degree for, and career wise it's a worthless dead-end tooIt also helps if you can get over yourself and reconcile the fact that you're not going to be CEO of Alphabet straight out of college. Working for small businesses isn't "beneath you", it is in fact right on your level. There are so goddamn many jobs out there for freelancers and contract workers that nobody wants because they think life is The Sims and the only thing that matters is how many days you've been at a given company.
It's a great ideal to have your kids gain discipline the thing is that often kids in disciplinarian households tend to just end up developing authority issues and resentment later on I know it's the common idea that they'll learn to appreciate it later on but that just isn't what always happens
I don't recommend this. The multi year gaps of the technical employment will negatively affect you. The SJW's aren't going anywhere anyways, their just infiltrating and shitting up AI now instead of doing more to the massive fag pit of JS.Bottom line is, unless you're exceedingly good, don't even bother. Find another job. You can get back into the field 5-10 years down the line when all the blue haired transgender trend followers have moved onto whatever career Vice promises them is the one that will definitely take all the bad thoughts away this time.
I've never encountered that kind of mentality.It also helps if you can get over yourself and reconcile the fact that you're not going to be CEO of Alphabet straight out of college. Working for small businesses isn't "beneath you", it is in fact right on your level. There are so goddamn many jobs out there for freelancers and contract workers that nobody wants because they think life is The Sims and the only thing that matters is how many days you've been at a given company.
I don’t know how to feel about the ‘join a trade’ advice. Someone who drops out of college because their grades are bad from doing nothing but smoking weed and playing vidya isn’t going to become a great carpenter, because they don’t have a work ethic. I’m from somewhere with strong labor unions, so the pay is good, but that also means they aren’t going to let just anybody into apprenticeships.I can sympathize. I went full IT and because my university wasn't on the coast and I couldn't afford to take an internship (I crunched the numbers and I needed to take more classes to make sure I got scholarship money to feed myself), I ended up with a 6 year gap in my resume where I jumped from retail job to retail job earning minimum after graduation.
Let me tell you, feeling like you pissed away 4 years of your life and having it seem like your unemployable is a good way to experience massive near suicidal depression. Year 5 and 6 were especially brutal as my siblings graduated, got work, and my parents started thinking of me as the failure son. I eventually met someone who took me on as an assistant and had tons of amazing connections. This opened doors for me and I've been able to springboard to where I should generally be at this point in my career. However, I know I got lucky as fuck. I still could easily be washing dishes or serving coffee right now.
Trades are absolutely a viable option that we as a society need to push more. Especially since academia demands higher end mathematics for most sciences. (And beyond basic Algerba, I've never needed the bloated higher requirements my university demanded. But they gotta tack in as much extra courses as possible to get more guaranteed student loan money from the government.) The harsh truth is that a lot of people won't be able to handle it and effectively condemning people to menial retail work is completely ass backwards and will end up wasting a generation of viable middle class workers.
The sad shit is that we are already seeing this with the middle class on a scary downward trend and worker visa abuse bringing in foreign workers when the job really should go to a domestic citizen.
I agree with you, but I think one thing you're forgetting here is that highschool and undergraduate life is completely different. Highschool students are always put under scrutiny and their life is basically micromanaged in many ways (especially if they are involved extra-curricular activities). Undergraduate life is completely different. When you go from highschool to college you are basically going from an environment where you have ask permission and fill out paperwork to take a piss to an environment where you can just skip class and nobody can do a thing about it. I think that whole process trips some people up.you're mixing two different situations here: failing stem students, and socially alienated nerds. there is some overlap between these phenomena, but they are not the same, and they have different causes.
about the college dropout types: from my experience, in more than 90% of cases, it's not an issue of them lacking brain power or smarts, but an issue of them lacking discipline and work ethic. these are often smart boys, who cruised through high school with zero effort on pure brain power alone. then, when that is no longer enough because college classes are actually challenging, they suddenly fail miserably. because throughout their entire life they never had to actually put effort into anything to succeed, and nobody taught them the importance of discipline and work ethic, it was always just "look at how much of a genius our boy is" and "work smart, not hard"
imo it's not so much a failure of the education system, more a failure of parenting.
Do you think you can elaborate on this? I've heard this from time to time, but I simply can't understand it. I was raised by and around people with the exact opposite mindset so, me trying to understand it is like a guy who wants to lose weight trying to understand someone with an eating disorder. Why do some Black people think like this?I've been thinking about this with the BLM movement.
One of the big arguments is that black men don't have enough opportunities to go to college.
While that CAN be true and is to an extent, that doesn't solve the biggest problem. I can tell you from personal experience that I was constantly bullied by black men, mostly being called a sellout or one of dem smart niggas (Carlton was my personal favorite).
Creating opportunities for black men to go to college doesn't matter if you don't solve the key underlying issue that black men don't WANT to go to college; that being booksmart to large sections of the black community is a giant negative.
it's the 'crabs in a bucket' phenomenon combined with resentment fueled by envy and jealousy, and a big ego. and it's not just blacks, you see the same mindset in underclass populations of all races, they just use other words than "acting white" for it.Why do some Black people think like this?
There’s a lot of people who aren’t prepared for independence, and that you should go to class even if there will be no immediate consequences for not doing so. It’s a lack of self control.I agree with you, but I think one thing you're forgetting here is that highschool and undergraduate life is completely different. Highschool students are always put under scrutiny and their life is basically micromanaged in many ways (especially if they are involved extra-curricular activities). Undergraduate life is completely different. When you go from highschool to college you are basically going from an environment where you have ask permission and fill out paperwork to take a piss to an environment where you can just skip class and nobody can do a thing about it. I think that whole process trips some people up.
Do you think you can elaborate on this? I've heard this from time to time, but I simply can't understand it. I was raised by and around people with the exact opposite mindset so, me trying to understand it is like a guy who wants to lose weight trying to understand someone with an eating disorder. Why do some Black people think like this?
Do you think you can elaborate on this? I've heard this from time to time, but I simply can't understand it. I was raised by and around people with the exact opposite mindset so, me trying to understand it is like a guy who wants to lose weight trying to understand someone with an eating disorder. Why do some Black people think like this?
The contract jobs generally are indian boiler rooms. Being a contractor can fucking blow too with the fact that the company could be implementing real retarded stuff and you have no say other than "got it". Building a solid technical resume with contracts can be hard. I don't include some because it wasn't pertinent to anything and I was basically the scape goat of any bad implementation. And if project wraps up early or shit, they'll give you a wave while you pack your shit. I didn't like the tech interview time sink before and I don't like it now. having to do it multiple times a year would be a terrible inevitability.
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In all honesty, people are better off now to build their own passion project. This shows so much more ability of an individual. I wouldn't do contracts unless its necessary or you're doing those HUGE $120/hour contracts. I just plain don't like the environment of contracting.
working for small business aka doing janitor or cleaning work isnt what you get a fucking tech degree for, and career wise it's a worthless dead-end too
working for small business in any actual tech related position? maybe if you live in LA, otherwise good fucking luck finding anything lol
Not everyone can just pack up and go.I don't have a degree from university, but I went to IT trade school. After finishing as an apprentice in August I couldn't get a job in my area because there was really too much competition, and it's really tough to even get an interview when you don't have a lot of work experience on your resume, and I had to take a job as a taxi driver which I really fucking hated, and that really motivated me to look elsewhere. Well, in January I got a job, 2000 kilometers away, in the middle of nowhere. I bought a used van, packed as many of my things as I could fit in it, and drove off.
I often hear people complain that there are no jobs in their area, even with a fancy education. Well, move! Opportunity isn't always next door. 100+ years ago people moved from Europe to America in droves so they could till the dirt! But now, many people seem to be unwilling to move to "flyover country". Maybe because they need to be within a 5 minute walking distance from the weed shop and comic book store.
it's the 'crabs in a bucket' phenomenon combined with resentment fueled by envy and jealousy, and a big ego. and it's not just blacks, you see the same mindset in underclass populations of all races, they just use other words than "acting white" for it.
if i had to name it, i'd call it antisocial culture or criminal culture. it's the same mindset that creates attitudes like 'snitches get stitches'.
if you want to see that culture in action, look how prison populations or street gangs behave. and i don't mean "look at the crimes they commit" but look at how they socialize, what values they uphold, what rules they follow and enforce.
I don't have a degree from university, but I went to IT trade school. After finishing as an apprentice in August I couldn't get a job in my area because there was really too much competition, and it's really tough to even get an interview when you don't have a lot of work experience on your resume, and I had to take a job as a taxi driver which I really fucking hated, and that really motivated me to look elsewhere. Well, in January I got a job, 2000 kilometers away, in the middle of nowhere. I bought a used van, packed as many of my things as I could fit in it, and drove off.
I would argue that critical theory/social sciences spillover is actively more harmful than merely pushing more people into STEM. Pushing more people into STEM will simply produce a larger, more variable crop of graduates, but intersectional metastasis will eat out STEM from inside.