Is virginity something to laugh at? - When even the sex dolls say no.

Here yes? When other make it an issue absolutely.

Friendly banter? Sure. Over all it doesn't matter.

Now since this is deep thoughts and I'm bored at work and on a espresso high..

Our views on sex change as we age, as. a life long Chad I teased people not bullied but teased because I got laid young. I had hit this social status in youth and it was a feather in my cap

Looking back the sex was really lame. Funny enough the time I had most hook ups I never looked for sex. I was out being a drunken goof at parties and girls fell all over me.

As said before it was people trying for sex who didn't get it.

Lots of people dont want to "throw it away " and that's fine. It's your body do you. If anything sex has got better as I've grown up so start young lol. Just be safe. Last thing we need is kiwis next generation.
 
Thanks for the responses, a lot to mull over.

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i obviously have no idea how any of this translates to gays or lesbians though
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Just to weigh in on this last bit from what I've seen.

Sluttiness among lesbians seems to be strongly frowned upon, but among gay men, it's expected. When I've told dates I've never logged into Grindr/Tindr or had a one night stand I'd say seven times out of ten they've looked at me like I'm from another planet and often ask if I'm religious. The ones who haven't have tended to be ones not involved in "the scene" or who actually are religious. Couldn't tell you about autistics, I've never been out with one.

I've had a couple of longer-term relationships in the past, which again has been unusual rather than the norm (In RL I know one gay married couple, I don't know any gay men bar my ex's who've been in a relationship longer than six months) because it's only really post 35-40 gay men I've met have decided to "settle" when they can't get laid anymore if they're ever going to.

Just my experience and $0.02. Milage may vary.
 
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There is nothing wrong with virginity. Virgins are the problem...


But, if you want a serious answer:

Unlike what many people want to believe (probably due to the need for validation), sex is something important for which you need to be prepared both physically and mentally as, even protected sex, can fail and you can end up getting pregnant or catching a sexual disease, and of course, all the psychological consequences. So, it's not only ok to wait to be prepared for it, but it should also be encouraged as "I'm horny" should not always be a valid reason to have sex, particularly if you're young.

So no, there i nothing wrong with being a virgin.

On the other hand, if an adult is unable to find a suitable partner after certain time, and such person is not a peaky bitch with impossible standards, there could be even medical reasons like depression, anxiety caused by some traumatic episode, and many other disorders that can lower your libido and stop you from having sex so you might need medical help and there is nothing wrong with that either.
 
It’s kind of cute to me, but I’ll jab on it sometimes because I know it’s an insecure point for most men.
 
It's only when they want to have sex, but can't get someone to have it with them. If you're abstinent, or just not looking for sex, it's not that big of a deal.
 
I agree with what a lot of people have said already: IRL, for the most part, I think being a virgin isn't something to laugh (or even care) about. Maybe there's religious reason, maybe they just haven't found anybody they really like yet, maybe they've been busy with school/career, whatever.

When it comes to cows however it's usually just another symptom of their cowdom. Some fucked up perception of what they offer to the world/opposite sex vs. what they actually bring to the table, sense of entitlement, complete failure to connect with other people while being oblivious to their shortcomings.
 
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Like all social stigmas, virginity only matters if you think it does.

However if you're in your mid twenties and have never had any sexual contact, that probably speaks to something more (i.e. you're asexual, closeted or an incel).
 
Depends on context. Like, I've known people who have decided that they don't want to have sex until it's with somebody who feels 'right' and it wasn't that they didn't have a myriad of opportunities, they just made a conscious decision. Hearing people take the piss out of them for it seems redundant. "Oh look at you, you have better impulse control and follow a personal belief that neither affects me personally or has any effect on society at large!" Seems like a bad insult. On the other hand you have somebody like CwC who rages like fuck because he tries his hardest and fails before resorting to a hooker, that's.... kinda funny.
 
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No, it's really not a big deal. There are plenty of legitimate reasons to be a virgin (religion for instance), and it only matters if we act like it does.
 
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