Opinion I’ve attended Utah’s Pride Festival for 17 years. It’s become a feedback loop of mediocrity

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By Collin Washburn
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Pride flags at the Pride Parade, on Sunday, June 8, 2025

As someone who’s been to 17 of Utah’s Pride Festivals, I’ve noticed that attendance — and community support — has declined noticeably. It’s not hard to see why.

Once a vibrant celebration of resistance and community, the festival now feels more like a corporate fair than a movement. Booths hand out branded stickers instead of ideas, and the parade — with no grand marshal, seems to run in circles — literally and figuratively.

What happened?

The Pride Center, which organizes the event, appears to be operating without vision. The focus seems to have shifted from community empowerment to financial survival. The festival’s primary function now seems to be funding the Pride Center itself, rather than championing the LGBTQ+ community. It’s a feedback loop of mediocrity: more booths, fewer moments of meaning.

It’s a familiar pattern. Just as Burning Man was diluted by commercialism and mismanagement, Pride has become performative and routine. It’s no longer about defiance or identity — it’s about staying solvent.

As LGBTQ+ people have gained broader social acceptance, the energy that once fueled Pride has waned. In many ways, we achieved what we were fighting for: equality. But perhaps that goal lacked imagination. Being equal to the straight majority was never going to be enough to satisfy a community defined by its difference, creativity and resilience, and frankly, the goal lacked ambition.

Now, many of the younger attendees were born after Stonewall — some don’t even know what it was. And that’s not their fault; it’s ours. We’ve failed to pass on the stories, the struggle, the sense of purpose. Instead of cultivating new visionaries, we’ve handed them rainbow wristbands and told them to celebrate.

It’s time to admit that the current stewards of pride have lost the plot. If this movement is going to matter again, it can’t just be another city-sponsored party with food trucks and a merch tent. It needs to challenge, to educate, and yes — to provoke.

Maybe it’s time we looked back to those who paved the way. Not out of nostalgia, but for guidance. Because if we don’t restore purpose to the Pride Festival, we risk losing the very thing that made it powerful in the first place.


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Collin Washburn is a long-time Salt Lake City resident and has regularly attended the Utah Pride festival for nearly 20 years.
 
As LGBTQ+ people have gained broader social acceptance, the energy that once fueled Pride has waned. In many ways, we achieved what we were fighting for: equality. But perhaps that goal lacked imagination. Being equal to the straight majority was never going to be enough to satisfy a community defined by its difference, creativity and resilience, and frankly, the goal lacked ambition.
You're, uh, you're not supposed to say this part out loud, guy.
 
It’s time to admit that the current stewards of pride have lost the plot. If this movement is going to matter again, it can’t just be another city-sponsored party with food trucks and a merch tent. It needs to challenge, to educate, and yes — to provoke.
To provoke huh? Like walking naked in front of little children? Do they not realize that constant provocation is actually doing the exact opposite? Even memebers of the Alphabet mafia are getting sick with the public shown degenaracy. Probably because they wanted that to stay quiet
 
It was never about "rights", it was always about destroying the family and with it Western Civilization. Marxism is based on using spiteful mutants like faggots, niggers, and other degenerates to destabilize society so Jews can control it. It's why Progressivism, which is just Marxism, has no end goal besides chaos.
Indeed, Ordo Ab Chao!
 
What the fuck ideas does a pride festival offer? Butt play is a-ok? Leather daddies are human too? This is shit from 50 years ago, and no one is buying the new spiel like girlcock is heterosexual or puberty blockers are wholesome for all ages.
I was curious about this too because "they handed out stickers instead of ideas" is such a stupid sentence. I tried to do some digging, but there doesn't seem to be much on Utah Pride. But I did find a bisexual website that goes over London Pride in 1996, which I have to assume would have been similar:
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Breakdown of the tents:
Trade DTPM Kitty Lips Disco - each of these was a club night, so it played club music
Youth Tent - a "youth community tent" that seemed to mostly be distributing condoms and dental dams
Kenric Tea Tent - an alcohol free tent that served tea and cakes, run by Kenric (lesbian organisation)
Metropolitan Community Church - a reverend was giving blessings to couples along with a certificate "recognised by some local authorities, banks, buildings societies, employers or other organisations as proof of a stable relationship for partnership rights"
Samaritans - anti-suicide group that was offering a sympathetic ear to people who dropped in
People of Colour focus - apparently another dance tent, that also distributed materials about promoting HIV awareness to black and Asian communities
Women's tent - a women only dance tent
Substation - gay club that played house music
Popstarz - gay club that played indie/britpop
Bisexual tent - see below
Crusaid - "Europe's largest outdoor health expo, this horseshoe of three enormous tents will focus upon HIV/AIDS issues and a broader range of Health Issues such as coronary heart disease, cancers and womens' general health including screening, contraception, STDs and HRT. Over 100 different organisations will be exhibiting and there will be therapy and counselling areas. The primary purpose of the tent is information, and entertainment will be scheduled so as not to interfere with that goal. The Health Tent entertainment will be audience participatory with a strong country & western flavour provided by line dancing clubs, as well as quizzes aerobic and other fun".
Stonewall Variety Tent - variety show, including the then newly lesbian Sandi Toksvig
Cabaret tent - cabaret, but specifically men singing songs about men and women singing songs about women
Planet Patrol - a "cybercocktail" lounge (advertising an internet service provider)
Pride Video - a gay porn studio offering to shoot "screen tests" of attendees
Then some food and drinks stalls and a note on the market area - The Market Area is always popular. Around half the stalls are taken by voluntary organisations who use their space to fundraise, inform and recruit. There are businesses, selling everything from novelty items to books, to records, cards, hammocks, paintings, sportswear, jewellery Many businesses who exhibit, like Clone Zone, help the voluntary sector. Others like Bobs Rubber and Leatherwear have supported the event through thick and thin since the start. Here, you can buy official Pride merchandise (beware of imitations!).
The bi tent looked like this:
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"Ungagged" was apparently a bisexual BDSM zine, and otherwise it's selling t-shirts and advertising "Bicon 96" - annual report here, amusingly there were arguments about who counted as a transsexual and whether or not transsexuals should be allowed in the men only/women only events.

Notorious "bad girl" journalist Charlotte Raven (who had bisexual affairs) had this to say on the tent.
The second thing which struck me was the bisexual stall. Staffed by a wistful but nonetheless cheery selection of the self-identified Undecided, the purpose of the exercise seemed to be to increase visibility, that oddly unchallenged goal of all 1990s sexual sub-genres, while trying to sell bisexuality as an exciting and viable lifestyle option. Towards the latter end they were peddling propaganda which hopefully suggested that riding the sexual metronome would give you 'Twice the Fun!'. It's that exclamation mark, recalling the self-conscious attempts at chattiness you get in a parish newsletter, which made me think bisexuality, for them, might not be quite such a laugh as they claimed. No one who is really having fun would ever need to emphasise it thus. (Have you ever been to a party, advertised as a PARTY!, which was actually any good?) And that phrase – 'Twice the Fun!' – it sounds like one of those restaurants which, in allowing you to Eat All You Can!, appeals to your basest gluttony and denies discrimination any role.
So there's not really loads of "ideas" being handed out. The health tent (with inexplicable line dancing) seems to have been the main outreach source. There's a couple of poignant things, like a vicar offering blessings and rest tents for people dying of AIDS. But it's a time capsule for a reason.

In the UK in 1996 there were no legal protections for sexuality. LGB people could be subject to housing discrimination, service discrimination and employment discrimination - they'd have lists of hotels that would rent to gay and lesbian couples, they'd have list of banks that would offer mortgages to gay and lesbian couples (gay men especially were usually denied on the grounds they'd probably get AIDS and die before paying off a mortgage), they'd have lists of therapists who weren't homophobes, they'd have advice for dealing with homophobic employers or police harassment. Most people did not have internet and local authorities were banned from discussing homosexuality (which I'm assuming is what the petition was about), so for many young people these sorts of events were the only places they could learn relevant sex education, and HIV still basically had no treatment available so there were community organisations fundraising for things like AIDS hospices (as regular hospices would often refuse HIV positive patients).

None of those things apply any more. That just leaves entertainment and selling novelty merchandise, but being gay isn't shocking like it was in the 90s and anything like that can be ordered online now... so it's basically just a festival. This seems to be the author's complaint, but the reasons for something like this existing has gone away. The LGB community don't really have much to organise about any more because they've achieved equality. Even looking at something like the "Bicon 96" - a lot of the events are about things like "how to be bisexual" (you can just google that now), "navigating being bisexual" (it's not really controversial now) and "meet other bisexuals" (there's apps for that now). So what does that leave? Trans rights. But it really does seem like the average gay or lesbian person doesn't really care that much about trans stuff, "opposing transphobia" isn't about them, it's them sticking their neck out for something that they might not even agree with.
 
Gosh maybe because nobody gives a fuck anymore? Gay has been main stream for 35 fucking years.
Gay Pride festivals are basically an excuse for gays to get drunk in public, dance to washed up pop or obscure Euro disco stars lipsyncing on a rented stage, eating kettle corn, and hooking up. Except for the hardcore degen parade ones, the average Pride in a small city or big town looks like any other Fest in the local park, except with rainbow motifs and different music.

I have yet to understand what there is to be proud of. How does being a sexual degenerate equal pride? Are they really proud? Do they call their parents and tell them about their latest achievement? "Hi mom, I went to the bath house and buggered twenty anonymous men last weekend!"
 
What ideas? More piss troughs? A push to eliminate the age of consent? Teaching preschoolers about anal sex before many know how to read? Decriminalizing spreading HIV?
I think most of these aren't new ideas. We need to go deeper into the depravity rabbit hole.

"True equality for gays will not be achieved unless they can rape and kill toddlers legally", how about that?
 
Raise your hand if you remember monkeypox.

Keep it raised if you remember when and why they memory-holed it.
Also recall they whined like little children at the mere suggestion that they spend 2 weeks at home to "flatten the curve" like they'd been telling all of us to do for the last 2 years. '

And how they raged and snarled at the fact the FDA? An agency that were just 5 minutes ago heroes and saints in their eyes were now awful homophobic bigots because they couldn't whip up a vaccine by the weekend for the next hook-up party and was killing a billion of them a day just like Reagan with AIDS!!!!
 
When you go to the gay event and it turned out to be really gay. Not in the homosexual way but the lame way.
 
Being equal to the straight majority was never going to be enough to satisfy a community defined by its difference, creativity and resilience, and frankly, the goal lacked ambition.
Faggot seethes that fags are outnumbered, exposed, and no longer the revered ruling class driving the tides of culture.
It needs to challenge, to educate, and yes — to provoke.
Oh there it is, he’s mad the child supply was too low this year. Corporations don’t come out for live pornography displays for kids in the year of the orange man.
 
Being equal to the straight majority was never going to be enough to satisfy a community defined by its difference, creativity and resilience, and frankly, the goal lacked ambition
There you go, the core message. This gay man thinks he knows what's best for straight people and he's frustrated his movement failed to give him that power.

So pray tell, if you were in fact granted supremacy rather than just equality, what "different," "creative" and "resillient" things do you have in mind for us?
 
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