Yeah, but we all know captain is single because he's an easy man to read.
People have to consider the guy's situation. What's he going to say to woo the ladies?
"Sup gurl, how's it going? Oh, what do I do? Well I run one of the most persecuted websites on the internet, my entire income is based off cryptocurrency donations and periodic contract work, I've had hulking transexuals show up at my front door with a knife before, and uh, in some countries I'm considered a wanted criminal. Also I'm a bit of a quiet, awkward weirdo in person and find people and public a little difficult to deal with.
So how about it, want to move out to my tiny Eastern European apartment where I spend the day drinking diet energy drinks and trying to moderate my forum? I'll sleep on the couch, you can have the bed."
There's nothing wrong with Josh aside from being a little quirky, but he's like countless other guys his age in that he doesn't want to just casually date because he has other goals and focuses in life, but he's not equipped for anything serious. It sucks but you know as an adult man that it's your responsibility to get things straightened out before you go bringing anyone else into your life.
None of this is intended to disparage the guy, quite the opposite, but he's in the same boat tons of guys are.
Edit: Also I realize women online thirst after him because his streams are very personable and he's clearly a guy with principles, but internet thirst and sane real life intent are two completely different things.