I've met muslims that some of them drank or smoked pot or whatever, some of them didn't. But I knew one guy who didn't drink, didn't shave, didn't smoke pot. Pretty much just got swole all day. He was quite openly dating a white stripper.
Another muslim college friend I had was dating a french girl who was in ESL with him, there was no shortage of mulsim females both westernized and in burkas of varying degrees of attractiveness at my school, though the burka ones stayed very much to themselves. I have a muslim internet friend who is a girl and she hasn't been shy admitting she likes me although she wears a scarf and stuff.
If you don't mind my asking... where are you located? You can just say "somewhere strict/not strict" if you want.