Also fascinating is the complete botchery of the meaning of confidence by these incels..
Their only 'confidence' is in their belief that they can just conjure it up at will, and turn it on and off like a switch, but it makes no difference either way...so why bother. Lol
Oh the tricks the mind plays to protect oneself ..
Then, when the turtle proves this newfound confidence by throwing on a cape in a sudden grand spectacle making an absurd bombastic display ..and it fails spectacularly, well there you go, conclusive proof that confidence does not matter!
The curious thing is how the misguided belief that they need do nothing to better themselves like every other successful person does continuously every single day. Nope they are completely at their peak right now. A woman should see that & instinctively adore them (but not based on looks the way they choose their love quests) and not on intelligence, personality, charm, accomplishments, interests but on just being.
Oh wait, strike that. Forgot the most important attributes. They should be adored for being 'nice' guys, not sagging their pants, (drugs, rap, i.e. not being a thug) and for having a job. Oh and for caring about the girl's feelings; the girl they want nothing from... except to make them whole..
Got it now. Perfectly reasonable and not at all selfish or oblivious.
My advice would be start being productive.
No girl wants a dude who laments about his woes & mopes around all day obsessing over his lack of attraction.
The men who women find attractive are doers not self pitiers but men who seek and find ways around their obstacles-which isn't accomplished by moping and dwelling on being a loser. All that does is permanently cement it and demolish all self worth.
An attractive man is not fearful or ultra paranoid waiting for the next rejection. Successful men don't even flinch at rejection -and yes, they get it too but we don't know because they turn it around so quickly that they are busy working on something bigger, something substantial not related to obsessively pursuit of subjective validation from random chicks. Kent should think about how much more appealing that is in anyone's eyes. Do you want a moper who is a self ascribed loser? Or an ambitious too busy to flinch achiever of bigger pursuits than the attention of a checkout girl?
Then what if you get her attention?
You better have something else to hold her interest because a guy with no other qualities or drive than being a nice guy is not going to hold her.