I'm sorry, I know a lot has happened since this was posted (what with Wedge's cone moobs being posted for all to see) but I'm just so stuck on this post.
I'm just imagining this poor woman, trying so hard to be devoted to her partner while at the same time struggling with the most obvious case of cognitive dissonance I've ever seen. She (like much of the cis female population) has been been groomed to blindly accept the wishes of trannies and that everything about the situation is normal and fine. But obviously, everything is not normal and fine. She can see and fucking taste something wrong. The overwhelming pain of dilation, the pervasive stench of the wound: everything is pointing to something horrible and unnatural occuring. But... to argue against it would be... transphobic, right? To say that anything is wrong with this would mean she doesn't agree that getting this procedure is the right and healthy thing to do. It's almost like it's all a fucking lie, and the SRS her mentally ill boyfriend got has ruined not only his body but their sexual and emotional relationship. She's taking the blame for all of this, of course: she's just not open and accepting enough of his new lifestyle. The doctor parrots that it's fine, and her partner has buried himself too deep into denial to say anything is wrong, so where does that leave her? It's just horrible.
That's the truth of the transgender movement: it's built on denial and mental illness masqueraded as an identity that should be respected without criticism. Kevin's situation is a pretty good encapsulation of it, I think. Anyway, rant ended.