There's a term called "respectability poltics" that's very controversial in woke circles. It's basically the idea that some people think minority groups should try to make themselves more presentable to mainstream society to get more accepted (for example, Bill Cosby talking about how young black people need to "pull up their pants")
Most woketards hate that shit despite the fact that it actually helps their cause. The mainstream gay community doing it's best to distance itself from the more unseemly elements, such as disavowing NAMBLA and promoting a more wholesome image of loving monogamous gay couples instead of the anything goes free for all that was the stereotype of gay men certainly helped the general public come around to gay marriage a lot quicker.
People like Kevin absolutely hate that shit cause basically, they know they aren't respectable and they don't want to change their ways. They want to be fully accepted by society, but they don't want to act in a way that well, makes them acceptable to society. basically they want their cake and eat it too. that's why they circle the wagons and protect any trans person no matter how bad they are. if the community starts actually gate keeping and making a point to protect it's reputation, they know their asses will be out the door next