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Im forever skinny AF due to a chronic disease I have. Therefore my attraction in skinny women is about zero. Plus, bones hitting bones seems kind of painful.
 
I remember reading a post a while ago (I think on 4chan) where someone was talking about this manga with a chick who had a rape fetish, so the man would say things like "stop struggling or I'll buy you roses and take you out to dinner" and shit like that. Does anyone have that post? Unsurprisingly, googling "rape fetish manga" did not give any relevant results.
 
I remember reading a post a while ago (I think on 4chan) where someone was talking about this manga with a chick who had a rape fetish, so the man would say things like "stop struggling or I'll buy you roses and take you out to dinner" and shit like that. Does anyone have that post? Unsurprisingly, googling "rape fetish manga" did not give any relevant results.
Honestly I've seen almost that exact same punchline in probably a dozen different memes.
 
Why can't people be into normal shit like looking at donkey kong action figures on ebay while also thinking about possible futures with loving families why is it always shit like being told "oooo you wanna war a diaper and shit yourself and be called a sissy girl ooooo" I want to kill these people sometimes. seriously how the fuck did this bullshit get so widespread the last decade
People were NEVER into normal shit, you're asking for blue roses. It's just that people are bolder to admit it now, but it's always been this way. I've known a lot of people who presented as totally normal in public but trusted me enough to admit they were into some hyper specific weird shit. With age you just stop caring as long as they're not making it everyone else's problem. I'm the friend that they're allowed to make it my problem, cause human sexuality is interesting to hear about to me.

Honestly I can't imagine a world where everyone's just into having normal sex with a conventionally attractive partner, it almost sounds... Boring.
 
Im forever skinny AF due to a chronic disease I have.
AIDS?
I bet it's AIDS.
Therefore my attraction in skinny women is about zero. Plus, bones hitting bones seems kind of painful.
I think you're just mad because every time you have sex with another skinny girl your parents have to hear this from the other room
 
People were NEVER into normal shit, you're asking for blue roses. It's just that people are bolder to admit it now, but it's always been this way. I've known a lot of people who presented as totally normal in public but trusted me enough to admit they were into some hyper specific weird shit. With age you just stop caring as long as they're not making it everyone else's problem. I'm the friend that they're allowed to make it my problem, cause human sexuality is interesting to hear about to me.

Honestly I can't imagine a world where everyone's just into having normal sex with a conventionally attractive partner, it almost sounds... Boring.
nigga it's just overcomplicating rod into hole to make baby or not make baby if you don't want to but you gotta cover up the rod's hole to do the not having baby thing.

...I mean unless you wanna give one of the people involved possible perma brain damage from birth control drugs.
 
People were NEVER into normal shit, you're asking for blue roses. It's just that people are bolder to admit it now, but it's always been this way. I've known a lot of people who presented as totally normal in public but trusted me enough to admit they were into some hyper specific weird shit. With age you just stop caring as long as they're not making it everyone else's problem. I'm the friend that they're allowed to make it my problem, cause human sexuality is interesting to hear about to me.

Honestly I can't imagine a world where everyone's just into having normal sex with a conventionally attractive partner, it almost sounds... Boring.
Like attracts like, deviant that finds normal sex boring. People is also delightfully vague, as 0.0001% of people can also be considered just "people" if you're determined enough to represent things a certain way.
 
Im putting this here because it mainly applies to kinks but its concepts do bleed over into furry and tranny content.

But I have a theory that people who engage with kink content, initially are working on a kind of mental "bungee cord" kind of setup. This works where they "dive into" the content and come up during "post nut clarity".
However, the more they interact with the content the harder it is to come back unless they have a strong will or a desire to return.

But when it comes increasing levels of degeneracy they lose the desire to return and just keep diving deeper never reaching the proverbial bottom of the barrel.
 
Like attracts like, deviant that finds normal sex boring. People is also delightfully vague, as 0.0001% of people can also be considered just "people" if you're determined enough to represent things a certain way.
People refers to human beings.
Im putting this here because it mainly applies to kinks but its concepts do bleed over into furry and tranny content.

But I have a theory that people who engage with kink content, initially are working on a kind of mental "bungee cord" kind of setup. This works where they "dive into" the content and come up during "post nut clarity".
However, the more they interact with the content the harder it is to come back unless they have a strong will or a desire to return.

But when it comes increasing levels of degeneracy they lose the desire to return and just keep diving deeper never reaching the proverbial bottom of the barrel.
It depends on the kink tbh, most people into feet or inflation definitely don't go through this, cause most people into both of those sort of have it hardwired into them via autism. Or if they're neurotypical, they're just too fascinated in it to really feel shame or regret. There's a whole subset of fetishes that are more so "inherent" fetishes than anything you learn from somewhere. But when it comes to kinks people "adapt" to have some spice in their life, then this is true. Like a heterosexual man dressing as a femboy one night and regretting it that morning.

There's a legitimate phenomena of "poppy kinks" that people get into just cause they're popular, personally I like using the word "fetish" to describe True & Honest ™️ kinks that people legit just have, and "kink" to describe poppy crap people got into just cause they wanted to be quirky. Though don't hold me to this code cause sometimes I forget I even have it.
nigga it's just overcomplicating rod into hole to make baby or not make baby if you don't want to but you gotta cover up the rod's hole to do the not having baby thing.
That's definitely the difference between the autistic and the normal. To the average guy, one may see a fetish as "overcomplicating" sex, perhaps even making it a chore. Rather to the autistic, it makes sex accessible, I honestly think fetishes are what make a lot of autistic people even like sex period. I've seen a lot of autistic guys be genuinely confused on why sex is even enjoyable, and then they find out they have a fetish, and suddenly they wanna have sex. This can happen to people without autism too of course, my theory is that there is a genuine subset of people who just don't understand or derive pleasure from sex, and the closest they can get to normal sexual arousal is immense infatuation with a certain specific action or thing.

Which again, I don't see an issue with cause it's not my business in the first place. It's only my business if they make it my business and if they haven't made it my business then it's not my business and I certainly don't want to "kill them sometimes". Unless they're talking about pedo shit. My theory is if it weren't fetishes, these people would just identify as "asexual", so it's up to you which is more annoying.
 
that people get into just cause they're popular
Well what is and isn't attractive in general is heavily dependent on culture. That's not just a fetish thing but just attraction in general. Even then I don't think it's quite as simple as just yea this thing is popular so everyone is into it. Idk how to put it but the less normal people as a whole have a different reaction to those trends. The further you are away from a normal person the further your attraction to a trend will be. Back when everyone was going haha lol clussy it was mostly just conventionally attractive women dressing as clowns and having sex for most people that was it. Then there is the other group of more kinky people and they all went hmmm yes no I would like to have sex with a clown's red nose or whatever.

It does seem to be more autistic to socially gain a fetish. Just look at the amount of abdl drone petplay type things in transgender circles. Like wanting to fit in. But I assume there's also something similar to how conventions are more likely to be autistic than the average person. Not just wanting to be a part of the new popular thing. But also as a shorthand way of making friends. Like why bother having things in common or finding each other funny or whatever shit that takes effort and is pretty situational when instead you can just spam good girl under someone's posts until they like you.

I wonder how much is also the classic autism emotion problem. Ok yea part of sex is it feels good but it feels good because you love the person, unless you're whoring out at least. Idk do autistic people have the same emotional payoff too? Or is that emotional part kinda missing so it's more just a 'yea i stuck my cock in some wet hole thing and it felt slightly better than my hand' and that's it? Are autistic people more likely to get bored of normal sex? Are they more likely to be into furry or latex or abdl stuff because it has a certain feeling? Is latex a wearable weighted blanket?
 
It does seem to be more autistic to socially gain a fetish. Just look at the amount of abdl drone petplay type things in transgender circles.
Atp I don't think it's really a fetish though, you're just faking it to fit in. I see it as more neurotypical normie to actually get into something just cause it's popular.
I wonder how much is also the classic autism emotion problem. Ok yea part of sex is it feels good but it feels good because you love the person, unless you're whoring out at least. Idk do autistic people have the same emotional payoff too? Or is that emotional part kinda missing so it's more just a 'yea i stuck my cock in some wet hole thing and it felt slightly better than my hand' and that's it? Are autistic people more likely to get bored of normal sex? Are they more likely to be into furry or latex or abdl stuff because it has a certain feeling? Is latex a wearable weighted blanket?
A big part of autism is that most autistics don't really see people as people, if y'know what I mean. They can't relate to them on any aspects other than maybe having two hands, two legs, and two eyes. So the idea of deriving pleasure from just slamming bodies against another human is frankly, stupid to them. That's sort of like deriving pleasure from slamming bodies with a pillow to them. But if that pillow looked like Minerva Mink, or was inflated like that one cool balloon you saw at the fair, OR! What if the pillow got a beautiful haircut??? Now it's interesting!
 
I don't think it's really a fetish though, you're just faking it to fit in.
If you're 'ironically' wanking to feet then that's not ironic. If you like something enough to actually wank over it then that's not a joke. Even then all jokes are somewhat based in reality, the type of person to ironically joke about fetish shit is the type of person to be into that genuinely.
inflated like that one cool balloon
relatable (fat)
 
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