LGBT Kiwis, How Do You Feel About Negative Threads about It on the Forum?

Coming to terms with my sexuality and own discomfort with it was a long and intensely personal journey. So long and intensely personal as a matter of fact that I don't give a flying fuck what a neckbeard who's touched less boobs then most gays thinks of it. Also let's be real, the LGBT "community" is a masterclass in cringe. You are right to mock us.
BipolarPon said:
I came here knowing well that people here don't tolerate faggotory, also there are already plenty people here who don't really care ethier way, and there are enough supportive people out there anyway, it dosent bother me.
Honestly your less likely to be shat on here for saying something dumb or misguided, than say twitter where accidentally using the wrong pronoun can get you tons of death threats.
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You know what's funny, I mention my sexuality on the farms and people are actually way less judgmental and fucked up about it here then on most mainstream sites. Yeah, you guys use the word faggot copiously and hate the shit out of trans people with a burning intensity for some reason, but at least you don't act like me liking dick means I need to agree with you or think Rupaul is a good show.

I may be a faggot, but I'm not a faggot, you get me?
Frank D'arbo said:
I dont give a shit, i still call people faggots even if i am one.
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Admitting to myself I was a faggot made me start using the word faggot more then I ever did in middle school.
 
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Don't care. It's always one of the two things any gay has heard a thousand times before. 1) blabbering religious gobbledygook ranting you've either chosen to engage with or ignore by this point, 2) some flavor of eeeeeewwww groooooooss you eat da poopoo which, again, heard a thousand times before.

If it's not one of those two things, it's pointing out one of the many, many degenerate things about the LGBT "community" or its official political activists they're determined to either sweep under the rug or pretend isn't a problem (like exhibitionism, sluttiness, pedo and grooming shit) that's completely deserving of mockery. Criticize away.
 
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every community has their bad apples, The queer community isn't any different. To imply otherwise is honesty braindead.

Speaking as a bi/lesbian woman, I've met my fair share of chill and crazy weirdos from such a community just as I have others. Now does some of the content discuss here offend me? A tad but that's normal for someone who's been in hugboxes most of their lives.

Having to actually engage with other opinions helps in broaden one's horizons honestly. I may be a bit more open in terms of being tolerate of many things but sometimes such people need to get toned down a peg.
 
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I genuinely couldn't give two shits what gets put on the internet, whether it be directed at myself or otherwise, I'm openly bisexual and have effectively been pushed back into the closet for not wanting to identify as queer, to the point where my girlfriend's faggy roommates are calling me a white supremacist for appropriating queer culture. I also don't like to push the free speech narrative, but it *is* incredibly important to have open lines of conversation about everything, and if we have this level of gay ops in social engineering going on nowadays I just don't understand the people who feel like people sticking to their convictions is more harmful than forcibly causing internal conflict.
 
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Don't care. As a general rule, most users of this site are gonna feel the same way about these kinds of things. Normies don't use this site because it scares them, so any gay/trans/whatever kiwis you might find here aren't going to be the same kind of people that talk about "the community" and get pissed about the use of some slurs.
 
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weirdMcGee said:
every community has their bad apples, The queer community isn't any different. To imply otherwise is honesty braindead.

Speaking as a bi/lesbian woman, I've met my fair share of chill and crazy weirdos from such a community just as I have others. Now does some of the content discuss here offend me? A tad but that's normal for someone who's been in hugboxes most of their lives.

Having to actually engage with other opinions helps in broaden one's horizons honestly. I may be a bit more open in terms of being tolerate of many things but sometimes such people need to get toned down a peg.
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It's a vulnerable thing to me. I guess there's a lot of reasons for that. Never mind the farms, do I wish I live in a world where I could bring a guy home and not have the people I know go "wait...what?!". Yes. I'm a fucking prude in general, I never liked talking about sex much less other people commenting on me having sex. No, I do not want the people I live with to ask me if I catch or pitch. So yeah, it's a little annoying that something I've often had to struggle with and that I still deal with profound feelings of shame about gets written off as a joke by idiots who's only knowledge of this shit comes from family guy and their baby diddling pastor. Catholicism already made me hate myself, can I at least hate myself by myself?

Flip side the gay community is one of the most ridiculous, cringey, narcisisstic collections of people I've ever encountered. The self importance so many people manage to find by getting fucked in the butt is truly astounding to me. So maybe we ask for it.

Word faggot doesn't bother me though. I think a lot of white gay people just really, really, want to pretend to be oppressed. Oh sure, I'm part of a group of people that has been treated like dirt by mainstream society for a long time. Same time I'm a middle class kid who never suffered a day in his life. Fuck if I care if somebody says a mean word to me? You'll get under my skin more by mentioning my hairline then calling me a faggot. Hell I'll call myself a faggot right now, "hey feedtheoctopus, you fucking faggot!"

Damn bro, I'm so oppressed. Guess I'm gonna have to write a blog post about it and get a job at vice to make it better.
 
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I don't know about it being a mental illness but I think we def owe Rick Santorum a bit of an apology.
 
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I count myself lucky I wasn't living through the 1980's at the height of AIDS pandemic. My Mother knew people back then who were infected with HIV due to blood transfusions as gay men and junkies donated blood. I can not even imagine the terror back then. The Covid pandemic is not even comparable, if you got infected with AIDS in the 80's especially you were looking death straight in the face. You had no chance. Shame on the gay's for spreading that shit.
 
Gays spreading HIV is terrible, and the cavalier attitude toward STDs is disgusting. The only point where I raise an eyebrow at wider society on this issue: black people. Black people are also HIV superspreaders, but the entire health narrative surrounding them is flipped. They're the helpless victims of HIV, you see, not disgusting disease vectors who need to learn how to use condoms. Gays can't give blood if they're sexually active, but black people can.

Again, don't get me wrong, it's gross when gays do it. But the West sticks the collective fingers in their ears and screams LALALALALA when it comes to black people. They're just as disease-riddled, but pointing that out would be raaaaaacist.
 
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Kiwifarms might hate me for being a female faggot (whore is the main bisexual slur, but it doesn't have the same ring to it), but I'd rather be ridiculed for wrongthink than get kicked off the platform for it. Put a toe out of line regarding most websites' political stances (whatever they may be), and any mainstream forum is going to ban my account whether I'm a pwecious wittle mwinority or not. You people are just going to call me a nigger.
 
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The great thing about the internet is that if something personally really bothers you, nobody is forcing you to look at it. I avoid some parts of the farms because of a lack of interest, and I avoid some parts because they feel overly hostile. Problem (mostly) solved.
There is pervasive homophobia and transphobia that's present in probably every thread, but it isn't anything that most queers haven't heard before. If you lurk before engaging, you're already aware that people throw around slurs like they're 12 and just discovered the word. It really shouldn't be a surprise, and if you're engaging with the community you're agreeing to be exposed to that aspect of kiwi culture (not necessarily participate in, nobody is making you say shit).

When I came out, most LGBTQ people just wanted to live a normal life like everyone else and have equal rights. These days it's different. The entire trans community is viewed as a joke because of a very loud sub-community. Half of the trans women I've met are overly sexual, constantly talking about their girldicks and not realizing when someone doesn't want to flirt back. Almost every trans boy (no such thing as a trans man anymore, huh?) and nonbinary person is a teenage or early-mid 20s woman who wants to look androgynous, have green hair, and not be subjected to nonstop misogyny. Trenders and fetishists are a problem, maybe not as prevalent or damaging as some kiwis seem to believe but they do exist.
In between the shitposting, I've actually seen some serious discussion of these huge flaws in the LGBTQ community. I don't know of any other platform, in person or online, that allows criticism of harmful behavior of minority groups. Being a minority does not mean you are immune to criticism and/or incapable of doing shitty things.
Most of this introspection and criticism is coming from other LGBTQ people who have seen it happen in person. These people are also usually the ones who can actually do shit about the problems.
 
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Really glad to see fags who hate faggot culture. Hopefully they take the next step and try to stop being faggots.

That's tough though, since that mental illness status is long gone and now the only professional help a fag can seek is asskissing affirmative care.
 
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