My sexual experiences with men are pretty limited, and I think it's going to stay that way because gay men I encounter are just way, way, too intense about all this. I guess that comes with the territory if you like fucking people in the ass though. Like I get most people aren't as prudish as I am but Jesus christ I never experience this level of just sheer disregard for basic nicety with women. It's not even grindr, just in general. Once I had a guy at a concert just come up, to go "hi" in my ear (uhh, hi?) and then proceed to grind his erect cock on my ass. First of all, bold on his part, that took moxy random pervert. Second, he wasn't a bad looking guy and do to the unwanted frottage I can tell you firsthand he had a pretty impressive one down there. Too bad he thought sexual harassment was the way to go with this.
The one time I ended up in a gay bar motherfuckers are just coming up to me and touching me and shit like this is normal behavior.
Can at least one of you motherfuckers try to manipulate my deeply engrained need for acceptance and validation before trying to get me to suck your dick? Just one? Just somebody to cynically play off my own fears and insecurities through vapid comments about my eyes and fake laughter at my jokes while secretly checking the clock and wondering when the best time to try to reach in my pants is? C'mon goes, just so gaslighting, that's all I'm asking for.