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ShootyPee said:
Non response because I am correct. Maybe you're too hurt by all your sick and suicided friends?
Even if I was straight I should be allowed to talk about the LGBT STIs because gays want all treatment publicly funded. Gay people have no problem calling fetuses clumps of cells so obviously they agree
not being involved in the actions debated isn't a disqualifier. That's tough.
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Okay.
 
They used to call us log cabin Republicans. Not sure what the current term is (besides traitor).
 
Newton Pud said:
What about gay conservative men who hate other gay men? Do they think about gay sex more?
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You rang?

I don’t hate gay people on an individualistic level. I hate the community and the cesspool of degeneracy it fosters though and have nothing to do with it.

As far as thinking about gay sex, I can think a guy is hot but unless I’m in a relationship with someone I’m not constantly obsessed with the idea of fucking morning noon and night. The crazy amount of hypersexuality in our community can be obnoxious. Annoys me when I’m trying to talk to a guy and within five minutes I’m getting sent dick pics or having him want to fuck while barely knowing each other.
 
Tanuki Mixed Nuts said:
tbh I kinda feel like an alien with how not sexual I am in comparison with the average homo. But idk man maybe I've just had lame ass sex or something but it doesn't really give me any cwazy pay off vs just doing the jizzness and shooting up a glob and going about my day.

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The one period of time where I made attempts to be in touch with ""the community"" made me feel the same way.

Very long story short: after the initial cult induction period of being told I'm "among friends" now, I was quickly ostracized for not wanting to be a freelance Bull for twink/pooner/cuck couples, and for being very hostile towards people telling me my own monogamous relationship should be "open".
Everyone I interacted with in the community was either an offensive campy male parody of femininity or an AWFL/Pooner, and I was more than happy to be excluded from a group of people I had pretty much immediately come to see as sexpests, manipulators, and just generally bad people.

That period of time was one of the many experiences that damaged my ability just to trust and form relations with people, let alone get to where I'm interested in sex with anyone.


Coochie Coffee said:
not wanting to deal with the stigma that'd likely follow them if they came out and were open about it, among other things.
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Unfortunately had to deal with that myself - really reinforced my desire to not let people know:
I had told my family I'm bi, but since for one I don't look or sound or act not-straight in any way, and for two I was completely uninterested in relationships or sex all through highschool, they refused to believe me until I actually brought a guy home.

Overnight, my mother started using me for clout-chasing, my uncles started standing with their asses up against the nearest wall, and my brother was worried I'd get offended at profanity like "fag" that both I and my boyfriend used regularly (extra retarded assumption given we met on 4chan).

Usually the worst responses come from women - the instant I mention I had a boyfriend once, their disrespect is unmissable. In social situations, they'll start to make a big show and dance of ignoring everything I say, dismissing every opinion I have, start manufacturing and spreading rumors about me, or suddenly get reeeeeeally comfortable with hitting and slapping me in a way no woman would be comfortable physically interacting with any normal man, let alone a 6ft5 yeti with Resting "My Name Is Not Important" Face.

Similar to the thundercunt earlier in this thread, most of the women who acted this way towards me were also hyper-focused on sexual acts and gross-out shit. They will insert unfunny sexual innuendo (or just blatantly talk about shitting, cumming, how many men they've given snowballs, etc) or invasive questions about my sex life into conversations where they'd never have done these things before. A boss and a police detective (separate women, separate situations) both used their position above me to try intimidate me into giving them very private details about my relationship and sex life for their own gratification. It's disturbing, and has served to give me a really really bad outlook on a lot of women, pushing me away from bi and a lot closer to just being gay, frankly.

I pretty much avoid telling anyone I've met IRL that I'm bi unless they ask me directly, and even then I try to dodge around it.
Just like I dont drink with other people because I hate how drunks behave, I don’t like the things other people reveal about themselves when they learn I'm bi.
 
Dollar Store Crack Whore said:
Dicks are awesome
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This motherfucker never had a girlcock. Laughing so hard at you.
But an excuse to sing the praises of estrogenised penis? Don't mind if I do
For a starter she just Looks Pretty, I've never looked at a girlcock and not been consumed with hunger and desire.
Softer not just to the eye but to the touch. And I'm not just talking about the velvety feel of the skin its like someone has filled them with gentle clouds of joy that pule with every squeeze
And that's another thing, The Pulsing. As I have very happily observed the girlcock loves to bounce and throb and show its little appreciations for every action you give unto its gorgeous owner.
Adherent to this is mouth feel. I can suck girlcock for soooo much longer than a strap or harder cock, not only is it sometimes easier to fit but the malleability makes it so easy to get drippy with spit run my tongue over every beautiful inch.
But if we're talking about wetness in the mouth we gotta talk about leaking. Now if you have ever made a transfem leak (ibcluding yourself sister) you know how affirming it is to the identity to get wet. A few simple kisses often do it for me and the discovery after is a truly perfectly joyful experience.
Also I'm gunna be blunt. One hit pre e of cum and I'm reaching for the water bottle cus it's like I've been swimming in the dead sea.
But girlcum? Oooh baby girlcum is a gentle taste, in my case it has more of the pure cum taste with the perfect lubricating feel, and touch of well I wouldn't say sweetness per se but certainly a less violent savory. Think potato wedge instead of salt and vinger chips.
The fact that they're constantly leaking means you get to taste them straight away, and you know if they're going to fill your mouth or just leisurely leak as they squirm or fuck into you that youre going to be enjoying that taste the entire time
This is getting a lil long so just honourable shout outs to soft girlcocks, literally prettiest thing on the planet, the way they are Made for tgirl frotting and of course how they bounce whilst getting fucked.
 
Tanuki Mixed Nuts said:
tbh I kinda feel like an alien with how not sexual I am in comparison with the average homo. Like I read about Betonhaus getting fucked by strangers in public until he bleeds, or the kink thread about small penis chastity stuff or doing drugs to fuck and I'm just kinda over here like damn thats cwazy.

I mean, straight dudes do it to, wanting to get laid as much as possible. But idk man maybe I've just had lame ass sex or something but it doesn't really give me any cwazy pay off vs just doing the jizzness and shooting up a glob and going about my day. Like niggas will ruin their lives to get a hole for their penis.
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I don't think it's that unusual, it's probably just that the gay men who do obsess over sex tend very vocal and make it their whole personality, so gay men who don't do that fly under the radar and are less likely to register as a gay dude in passing. I would say, though, that there is almost definitely a far larger proportion of gay men who obsess over sex than straight men who do that. Especially since imo gay sex is a lot more pleasant in the abstract than reality, it is good but is not uncommonly uncomfortable. Maybe I am just bad at sex and that's why I don't think about it or maybe a lot of gays focus on it because intellectually it's more enjoyable than practically. I also acknowledge I have personal hangups with intimacy, so I might not be the norm here, but I still maintain it's not unusual to not think about sex much.

If I see someone I like my mind more often goes to "I'd love to go on a date with this person/share an autistic interest with him/live with him" as opposed to wanting to be plowed. Though that does come to mind if I'm already horny but that tends not to be the norm.
 
Lurkerish Kandor said:
for twink/pooner/cuck couples
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My condolences.
Lurkerish Kandor said:
with hitting and slapping me in a way no woman would be comfortable physically interacting with any normal man
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I can't begin to enumerate how many times a woman finds out I'm not strictly heterosxual and suddenly that gives them carte blanche to objectify and even physically grope me in ways that same woman would go to the cops for. The double standard is real once they see you as 'safe' aka 'emasculated.'
synthetic_glazer said:
I don't think it's that unusual, it's probably just that the gay men who do obsess over sex tend very vocal and make it their whole personality, so gay men who don't do that fly under the radar and are less likely to register as a gay dude in passing.
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It's their form of validation. They get it from sex instead of feeling confident in themselves or their skills, accomplishments, and abilities. Unfortunately bareback gangbangs are far more dangerous than say, taking up baking. So when you have a guy who is totally turned off by the 'community' and how based around hyprsexuality it is, it's normal to seem like the black sheep when in reality they're the ones broken or missing something.
 
synthetic_glazer said:
If I see someone I like my mind more often goes to "I'd love to go on a date with this person/share an autistic interest with him/live with him" as opposed to wanting to be plowed. Though that does come to mind if I'm already horny but that tends not to be the norm.
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We are kindred spirits. Back when I was more invested in trying to not end up alone I "ruined" many a date by talking about life or myself and not skipping to wanting to suck/fuck like they were expecting I guess. Online dating is horrific.
 
Jason Wynn said:
Annoys me when I’m trying to talk to a guy and within five minutes I’m getting sent dick pics or having him want to fuck while barely knowing each other.
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Or when you already know each other, but the person can't have a 5 minute conversation without making it sexual. Makes me lose all interest. You talk about how was your day, specially if you had a eventful or stressful one, and instead of a insightful conversation, i get a literally a "wow that sucks, wanna see me naked?". Then he complained why i took longer and longer to message him or go out with him. It's too hard to get a friends with benefits relationship without it going this way unfortunately
 
souschef said:
He's been away for a while

Hope he's ok
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Wow, thank you!

Hope you're OK too.
Zeftax said:
I know @We Are The Witches was at least thinking about it.
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:waifu: "Thinking about it"?

My actual ideology probably makes an impossibility for the idea of "transgender" to exist, technically speaking, since "gender identity" in my eyes is a desire of being born with certain physical traits, and involving yourself with activities perceived by society to be usual of a particular gender.

The "identity" some people speak of (besides anatomy) often involves stereotypes, such as "I identify as a woman because I'm way too emotional, I don't like manly-perceived activities, wearing feminine clothes makes me happy, I prefer how (stereotypically) female groups interact as opposed to male groups, etc", which by itself doesn't make you of one gender or another. Every person is a unique universe of its own (physically and psychologically), and assigning the psychological aspect to a particular gender in my eyes is too simplistic, so that leaves me with the conclusion that "gender identity" is a preference like any other, it doesn't make you male/female.

But there's nothing wrong with that, because you can still live your life how you want to. That's where I am on the middle on this issue (so I get hit by both sides, no one likes how I think :story:), even though that's my opinion, I have no problem with the idea of transgenderism by itself, and how you want to live your life.

Furthermore, I dislike prejudice against someone just because they are transgender, so I do not mix with most Kiwifarmers on these issues, yet at the same time, I don't share the beliefs some of the most vocal trans "public figures" spread (such as: facilitating or encouraging minors to take drugs for "gender affirming" purposes).

So to expand on what you said, I wouldn't mind living like a trans person (which would involve presenting more feminine for example), even when my ideology is metaphorically on a different universe, and even clashes with the original notion of what "trans" means, yet at the same time is accepting and empathetic of folks who are.


Yes there are trans kiwis, I'm not going to tag them though.
 
Jason Wynn said:
You rang?

I don’t hate gay people on an individualistic level. I hate the community and the cesspool of degeneracy it fosters though and have nothing to do with it.

As far as thinking about gay sex, I can think a guy is hot but unless I’m in a relationship with someone I’m not constantly obsessed with the idea of fucking morning noon and night. The crazy amount of hypersexuality in our community can be obnoxious. Annoys me when I’m trying to talk to a guy and within five minutes I’m getting sent dick pics or having him want to fuck while barely knowing each other.
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You summed it up to a tee pretty much.

The sexual promiscuity within the community is something that isn't just tolerated, but promoted constantly. I don't think this promiscuity is an inherent part about being gay, although its kind of just been baked into the community ever since we've started getting more widespread acceptance and have been able to start getting together a lot more easily. People are told to be more open with themselves and do so with pride, and that naturally fosters a lot less shame when it comes to talking about sex openly.

Something I think also contributes pretty heavily to this hypersexuality is the fact the community is literally based upon the concept of being attracted to and desiring intercourse with the same sex and adjacent non-heterosexual desires. Its not like meeting a partner from church or work, relationships you form with the people you meet in this community start a lot less platonic and a lot more sexual right off the bat because you both know there's some sexual attraction going both ways. It'd almost be like meeting someone in a fetish community, only its a bit less degenerate and a lot bigger.

Until the community at large shifts to be a bit less accepting promiscuity, its probably gonna just be accepted as 'normal' for a lot of queer people to worry about sex first and an honest relationship second, and that's a shame.
 
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