Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Lord of the Large Pants]

Dude had a weird obsession with Chloe from Life is Strange (one of the most awfully-written and genuinely cringey attempts by a mid-40s frenchman to emulate dialogue amongst teenage americans I can think of), which is itself always a red flag; but then also several of those anime characters that troons latch to becoming more prominent.

I genuinely think that game is some kind of CIA mind control experiment or some shit. Years ago when it first came out there was a girl I knew who played Life is Strange and is still BEYOND obsessed with it 7 years later. She didn't troon out, but it was almost like she became a different person after she played it. Went DEEP SJW when she was only mildly liberal before. Changed all her online usernames to Life is Strange related stuff, constantly talks about it years later, and yes, is obsessed with Chloe.

I tried to play it, because I was kind of into her and I wanted to impress her. It was the most boring and cringe thing I'd ever seen. I couldn't get past the first 20 minutes. We ended up falling out over something else that was (I think) unrelated, but since we still associate with some of the same people I occasionally run across her social media stuff. I've never see it without something Life is Strange related. I don't know what it is about that game, but it seems to seriously fuck up a certain kind of person.

 

[snake aids]

Lmao my ex is such a troon fag creep that even my full on trans positive FTM friend thinks he's fucking disgusting. If he starts skinwalking me I am going to lose it even more. Nightmares have started again and I've been having panic attacks randomly over him and his troon shit. Intense paranoia that he's after me, spying on me, going to make people collect info on me. I hope everyone else is doing better, I feel like I'm just deteriorating further some days. Love you all.

 

[BroccoliBrain]

our 70 year old grandmother bluntly said 'No, I'm not going to do that.'

Your grandmother is based and I'm sorry your sister is a massive bitch, I hope people document more cases of old folks (or anyone, really) shutting it down because it's hilarious (we got too many sadcows/horrorcows here).

I tried to play it, because I was kind of into her and I wanted to impress her. It was the most boring and cringe thing I'd ever seen. I couldn't get past the first 20 minutes. We ended up falling out over something else that was (I think) unrelated, but since we still associate with some of the same people I occasionally run across her social media stuff. I've never see it without something Life is Strange related. I don't know what it is about that game, but it seems to seriously fuck up a certain kind of person.

I must be immune to whatever they're smoking because I played it with a friend because we heard it was bad and we mocked it for the entire play time. I don't think LiS is secret poison, I think the lesbianism and the high school setting with teenspeak grabs the minds of people with shit taste young women with arrested development, who like shipping who have shit taste. Even the most mediocre games and shows have fanatical fanbases. Give girls a reasonably varied cast and they will go batshit for years with the roleplaying and make up soap opera levels of plot, playing dolls with otherwise bland or shitty characters.

Lmao my ex is such a troon fag creep that even my full on trans positive FTM friend thinks he's fucking disgusting. If he starts skinwalking me I am going to lose it even more. Nightmares have started again and I've been having panic attacks randomly over him and his troon shit. Intense paranoia that he's after me, spying on me, going to make people collect info on me. I hope everyone else is doing better, I feel like I'm just deteriorating further some days. Love you all.

We love you too but seriously get some therapy and get a good therapist, don't settle for those shitty online services that take people's money to tell them what they want to hear. You can even find ones who are equipped to talk about your dreams with you. Remind yourself that that level of suspicion is not keeping you safe from him, it only hurts you and clouds your mind from thinking of better ways to protect yourself.

 

[DumbDude42]

Your grandmother is based and I'm sorry your sister is a massive bitch, I hope people document more cases of old folks (or anyone, really) shutting it down because it's hilarious (we got too many sadcows/horrorcows here).

I must be immune to whatever they're smoking because I played it with a friend because we heard it was bad and we mocked it for the entire play time. I don't think LiS is secret poison, I think the lesbianism and the high school setting with teenspeak grabs the minds of people with shit taste young women with arrested development, who like shipping who have shit taste. Even the most mediocre games and shows have fanatical fanbases. Give girls a reasonably varied cast and they will go batshit for years with the roleplaying and make up soap opera levels of plot, playing dolls with otherwise bland or shitty characters.

We love you too but seriously get some therapy and get a good therapist, don't settle for those shitty online services that take people's money to tell them what they want to hear. You can even find ones who are equipped to talk about your dreams with you. Remind yourself that that level of suspicion is not keeping you safe from him, it only hurts you and clouds your mind from thinking of better ways to protect yourself.

with how many 'trans positive' and 'gender affirming' therapists there are i'd be very reserved about recommending therapy to anybody, even more so than i already was before (cause lets be real, psychology is pseudoscience at best, quacks and grifters at worst)

 

[glass_houses]

Lmao my ex is such a troon fag creep that even my full on trans positive FTM friend thinks he's fucking disgusting. If he starts skinwalking me I am going to lose it even more. Nightmares have started again and I've been having panic attacks randomly over him and his troon shit. Intense paranoia that he's after me, spying on me, going to make people collect info on me. I hope everyone else is doing better, I feel like I'm just deteriorating further some days. Love you all.

We're all autists my friend, we may love you too but we're not really qualified in the emotions department. I think it might be a good idea to find a professional who can help you with this, because I don't think we can.

 

[teriyakiburns]

Another chat bites the dust. This one was related to a former client, which I'd stuck around in for networking opportunities, so it doesn't really count as "losing" people as such. I lose one more source of notifications on slack. Oh no. It's another case of not paying attention for a while and looking in to see this bizarre culture shift that seems to have happened overnight, with half the people there suddenly flashing pronouns. I got to witness an "egg cracking" in real time and it was intensely creepy, like something out of a bad horror film. They had the whole works: an admission of enjoying something feminine, the love-bombing, the confession of newfound faith, the celebration of a new convert to the fold, everything.

I wish I'd got screen caps before I quit, but in retrospect it's probably for the best. I don't want to risk my professional life just to poke fun.

 

[Rich Evans Ayypologist]

I don't know what it is about that game, but it seems to seriously fuck up a certain kind of person.

Everything clicks when you realize the story and characters were written by middle-aged Frenchmen, explaining such weird contrivances as "a school that is still high school but which has dorms, which you only live at for one year, and which nevertheless still somehow has cliques that have immediately formed before the first day of class."

It's a bunch of middle-aged men writing what they think teenaged girls are like. Sortof like those mid-40s fellas who act like teenaged girls. Hmmmmmmmmmm
bubblehearthed right out of there

 

[NerdShamer]

Lmao my ex is such a troon fag creep that even my full on trans positive FTM friend thinks he's fucking disgusting. If he starts skinwalking me I am going to lose it even more. Nightmares have started again and I've been having panic attacks randomly over him and his troon shit. Intense paranoia that he's after me, spying on me, going to make people collect info on me. I hope everyone else is doing better, I feel like I'm just deteriorating further some days. Love you all.

Move to an different county?

Shit's going to get worse if you're living in the same area as him and you unintentionally run into him (as low as the odds are).

 

[Lord of the Large Pants]

Everything clicks when you realize the story and characters were written by middle-aged Frenchmen, explaining such weird contrivances as "a school that is still high school but which has dorms, which you only live at for one year, and which nevertheless still somehow has cliques that have immediately formed before the first day of class."

It's a bunch of middle-aged men writing what they think teenaged girls are like. Sortof like those mid-40s fellas who act like teenaged girls. Hmmmmmmmmmm
bubblehearthed right out of there

Possibly true for trannies, but the person I'm talking about was a genetic woman in her early 20s. Although I got the feeling sometimes that she peaked in high school. Maybe that's the common thread?

 

[snake aids]

We're all autists my friend, we may love you too but we're not really qualified in the emotions department. I think it might be a good idea to find a professional who can help you with this, because I don't think we can.

Oh of course, at this point I'm more rambling like some schizo haha. I have a psychologist who is helping me currently :-). I'll try to cut down on the ranting though lol. Thank you

We love you too but seriously get some therapy and get a good therapist, don't settle for those shitty online services that take people's money to tell them what they want to hear. You can even find ones who are equipped to talk about your dreams with you. Remind yourself that that level of suspicion is not keeping you safe from him, it only hurts you and clouds your mind from thinking of better ways to protect yourself.

I'm currently seeing a psychologist, she just had covid and I couldn't see her for a bit. I would never use those scammy services. I'm aware that it doesn't do anything to help me, it's just intrusive thoughts I think and the fact that he knows where I live. Thank you for looking out for me

Move to an different county?

Shit's going to get worse if you're living in the same area as him and you unintentionally run into him (as low as the odds are).

Nah, I can't move countries and there's no real point in it. He lives forever away from me even if its in the same country. Its just irrational on my part.

 

[FeatherPlucker]

Hello, Kiwis.
It finally happened to me.
A friend of mine from college. Straight, white, male. Married to a woman. They recently had a daughter together. He has a good job, recently got promoted. Talks about pouring money into renovating his house.
Tells the group chat that after talking with a therapist, he's now non-binary.
Motherfucker, how? Can I trust no one in this stupid world?
Like, you fathered a child. Only men can do that. What part of you isn't a man? How fucked up is this therapist?
The group chat, all other men, love bombed him. "We support you! Heart emoji!". One or two of us just didn't reply.
How will this effect your daughter? Your wife?
How fucking delusional are you? How fucked is my life that I can't talk to anyone about this, so I'm resorting to longposting on this hive of autism?
I hope he just snaps out of it.
Like you impregnated a woman and watched her give birth to your child, how can you say sex isn't real and is just a feeling in your head?
I don't know why, but this one hits hard. I can't even laugh at Kevin Gibes anymore. I'm so fed up with this stupid gender-cult.
He's the last person I would expect to do this.

Makes me sick. I hope she divorces his ass and gets a good chunk of the money. Any dude who wastes a woman's precious youth, uses her to breed children, and then turns trans is a fraud.
Chances are, he's a pornsick pervert who hides his habit well. He wants to live in a fantasy land now that he has the responsibility of a child.
Sorry, I have a feeling since he has some money and just had a child, he WILL troon out. He WILL abuse his wife and expect her to comply, even if the abusiveness isn't public. He WILL abandon his child and/or expect her to call him mommy. It seems as if they follow that pattern.

Off topic, but I noticed this weird phenomenon in Austria where all these married/coupled men with young children were being cheered on Facebook when they brought their male lovers out in public. It was bizarre as hell, since this was a conservative Catholic area in rural Austria. I guess dudes love to take advantage of the "kink pozzie" "you have a right to have sex with anything anytime they want" aspect of acronym extremism. It forces people to "cheer" on other people's sexual degeneracy and public humiliation/abuse of their spouses.

 

[Dirk Willems]

The thread poll is interesting. I voted 4, which is apparently the least common number? I would assume it would be a bell curve around whatever the average is, but it's almost a perfect reverse bell curve. Has God cursed me with trannies?

Also, I am so sorry to anyone posting here. Best of luck.

 

[Polish Businessman]

The thread poll is interesting. I voted 4, which is apparently the least common number? I would assume it would be a bell curve around whatever the average is, but it's almost a perfect reverse bell curve. Has God cursed me with trannies?

Spoiler: Math sperging

Nah, it's Poisson distribution (as expected), with a mean somewhere between 1 and 2. The "5+" option swallows all the long tail, that's why it's higher than 4. You're not cursed.

 

[The Emperor Skeksis]

Nah, I can't move countries and there's no real point in it. He lives forever away from me even if its in the same country. Its just irrational on my part.

Maybe it can help you to remember that AGP troons are in-cre-di-bly self-absorbed. He will have room in his head for three things: himself, the COOM, and toys/cartoons/Marvel movies/anime/whatever pop culture thing he obsesses about. He probably almost never even thinks about you, let alone wants to spy on you. Not when he can post on twitter and have people kiss his ass all day.

 

[Insert Username Here]

Well shit, my friend that i've known for 6 years who was one of the most normie dudes i've ever known, mid 20's, the MCU, COD, Star wars, funko pop consoomer type of guy, has gotten addicted to vrchat and has been acting very weirdly lately, he met some girl on there who's been getting him into all kinds of degenerate shit. all of a sudden he has some femboy anime shit as his profile picture and put pronouns in his bio (the dude was very right wing up until now) and saying shit like "he can be his true self on there" is really starting to make me worry he's getting groomed to troon out or something

He's been obsessed with getting a girlfriend for years now and it's to the point where he's basically our friend groups personal lolcow, i could easily see someone taking advantage of that and getting him into this garbage, he's known this bitch for less than a week and he's spending thousands on a vr gaming setup and shit

 

[Protistology]

Well shit, my friend that i've known for 6 years who was one of the most normie dudes i've ever known, mid 20's, the MCU, COD, Star wars, funko pop consoomer type of guy, has gotten addicted to vrchat and has been acting very weirdly lately, he met some girl on there who's been getting him into all kinds of degenerate shit. all of a sudden he has some femboy anime shit as his profile picture and put pronouns in his bio (the dude was very right wing up until now) and saying shit like "he can be his true self on there" is really starting to make me worry he's getting groomed to troon out or something

He's been obsessed with getting a girlfriend for years now and it's to the point where he's basically our friend groups personal lolcow, i could easily see someone taking advantage of that and getting him into this garbage, he's known this bitch for less than a week and he's spending thousands on a vr gaming setup and shit

Ah yes, the Amanda Morris effect.

 

[Agarathium1066]

Well shit, my friend that i've known for 6 years who was one of the most normie dudes i've ever known, mid 20's, the MCU, COD, Star wars, funko pop consoomer type of guy, has gotten addicted to vrchat and has been acting very weirdly lately, he met some girl on there who's been getting him into all kinds of degenerate shit. all of a sudden he has some femboy anime shit as his profile picture and put pronouns in his bio (the dude was very right wing up until now) and saying shit like "he can be his true self on there" is really starting to make me worry he's getting groomed to troon out or something

Sounds like he likely caught some attention from a fujo-type who is aiming to get their ideal anime husbando. I'm sorry to hear, I've had a similar experience with a friend who more or less has shown he's desperate enough for attention he didn't hesitate to mutilate himself in the hopes of getting more.

It's a sad state.

 

[toilet_rainbow]

One of the old friends I mentioned a few pages back has gone on full tranny on her Facebook. I'll probably post about an FTM whose post she shared on the trannies on social media thread, because said FTM was another lesbian that trans widowed her wife of over 20 years. But the one that fully trooned out has been:

• talking how euphoric T has made her
• posted pictures of her on T and how she's so happy to get the faintest bit of stubble nine months after T (what the fuck). Photos also show sores where she picked at her "second puberty" acne
• talking about how her state senators think that she's a pedo and want to kill her by depriving her of T in five years (so she must escape to California)
• comparing detransitioners to ex gays
• initially said that it was fine to use her dead/real name in reference to past events, but now is going "I've always been [trans name]"
• Maintains that she was always a boy/man
• expressing that she wants top surgery (despite barely having a chest) and bottom surgery to be a "real man"

I may have to unfollow the first friend I made in college over this trans shit. All the other ones I've seen weren't this fucking indoctrinated this fast.

As for the one that declares that she's an actual woman but wants T anyway... She's frustrated because she lives in a European country that is surprisingly based enough to only give someone HRT if they are not autistic and not trying to be some Milo Stewart "gender confusion" mess. So +1 for the Nordics here. She's probably gonna try to find another clinic and larp being a trans guy but at least there's complications in her trying to get that poison.

 

[Hepativore]

One of the old friends I mentioned a few pages back has gone on full tranny on her Facebook. I'll probably post about an FTM whose post she shared on the trannies on social media thread, because said FTM was another lesbian that trans widowed her wife of over 20 years. But the one that fully trooned out has been:

• talking how euphoric T has made her
• posted pictures of her on T and how she's so happy to get the faintest bit of stubble nine months after T (what the fuck). Photos also show sores where she picked at her "second puberty" acne
• talking about how her state senators think that she's a pedo and want to kill her by depriving her of T in five years (so she must escape to California)
• comparing detransitioners to ex gays
• initially said that it was fine to use her dead/real name in reference to past events, but now is going "I've always been [trans name]"
• Maintains that she was always a boy/man
• expressing that she wants top surgery (despite barely having a chest) and bottom surgery to be a "real man"

I may have to unfollow the first friend I made in college over this trans shit. All the other ones I've seen weren't this fucking indoctrinated this fast.

As for the one that declares that she's an actual woman but wants T anyway... She's frustrated because she lives in a European country that is surprisingly based enough to only give someone HRT if they are not autistic and not trying to be some Milo Stewart "gender confusion" mess. So +1 for the Nordics here. She's probably gonna try to find another clinic and larp being a trans guy but at least there's complications in her trying to get that poison.

What is the latter's reasoning for wanting to take testosterone even if she identifies as "female"? I know that these sorts of people are a few fries short of a Happy Meal, but it should be stressed by clinics and health providers that HRT is not something to casually fool around with.

 

[Aunt Carol]

has gotten addicted to vrchat and has been acting very weirdly lately, he met some girl on there who's been getting him into all kinds of degenerate shit. all of a sudden he has some femboy anime shit as his profile picture and put pronouns in his bio (the dude was very right wing up until now) and saying shit like "he can be his true self on there" is really starting to make me worry he's getting groomed to troon out or something

VRChat is bad, bad news for lonely people and autists. You can walk away for a moment from IRC or Discord, long enough to clean the catbox or nuke some Hot Pockets. VR immersion is not good for time management, among other things.

Did he meet a girl or a "girl?"

If you have a whole friend group, time for helpful bullying. Ask him how it's going being groomed, and if he's worried about making the move from junior high to high school.