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Literally all of these problems can be solved by just avoiding casual sex and instead only fucking a woman you've gotten to know and actually like. I'm not even saying you gotta be married first.
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I'm autistic and kept dwelling on the Saberspark thing and why chat gave Josh a rash of shit about 'consent forms'.
As @Jotch said, the knot of it all is premarital sex but I think it's deeper than that.
The hook-up culture of the day has created a glamour around something that people want to participate in. You don't have to be an incel to buy in to the idea that the ability to flaunt your influence and charm your fans into letting you fuck them is tempting. You don't have to be a pick-up artist to desire the ability to charm women. The reality that shatters the fantasy is that it's a minefield. On top of all of that, how many YouTubers have demonstrated that they had the presence of mind to navigate the choppy waters of parasocial relationships and having fan interactions just because they enjoyed their content?
I like to listen to Chris Hansen busts for background noise. In those stings you're dealing with someone who knows that there's a ton of risk in what they're doing and they very likely are getting set up. They'll mention it while chatting with the decoy. They'll even bring up Chris by name. And when caught, they'll be asked if they've seen the show and will say they have. The impulse and compulsion to engage in this fantasy is so powerful that it defies self-preservation to just not do it in the first place. If Saberspark really acknowledged it was wrong to date, that suggests he knew there were risks associated with what he was doing.
Of course casual hook-ups are risky. If you're a YouTuber, especially so when you're hooking up with fans. It's probably a bad idea to invite a female fan into your hotel room. It's probably a bad idea to talk about how wrong it would be to date, but then start making out. It's probably wrong to repeat this over and over, for a year, and then take her into a bathroom and fuck her mouth. It's a really bad idea not to make your intentions crystal clear, and also a really bad idea to wait until after you've cum in her to make sure you're on good terms, and offer a handshake while you do it. Why did Saberspark do all of this? It's the fantasy of being so appealing that you can wield that influence to sate baser impulses, and you'll turn off your self-preservation drives to satisfy it.
I don't think Josh is saying he needed to fill out a consent form, or ask if it's okay to kiss in all cases. But if you're going to pursue casual sex, there's a degree of 'Cover Your Ass' that needs to happen, even if some people say it takes the fun out of the pursuit. What are you pursuing? Five minutes of feeling like a hot-shit casanova because you're a relatively successful youtube known for covering... *checks notes* ...children's cartoons. Yeah, I'm sure he feels real good about his escapades right now.
Without the advent of YouTube I doubt Saberspark would have ever had the popularity and wealth to get into this position in the first place. We're in an age where people like him are achieving attention they ordinarily would not get and was not equipped to handle. This is the case for many, like Destiny, would would still be a carpet cleaner in Kansas if not for the Internet allowing him to gain a following that he can exploit to be a gross coom-gremlin. Many such cases. It's not hard to fuck your fans, but it might be if you were never of strong moral character before the wealth and means.
I'm not into hook-up culture and never was. I'm engaged to a fellow Catholic and we're waiting until our wedding day to give that gift to one another. I can't expect everyone have the same attitude about premarital sex; If you think spontaneous hook-ups is the spice of life, go for it, but don't delude yourselves into ignoring the obvious inherent risks of doing so. Otherwise you're also coping about the fantasy of no-strings fucking and how easily it can get your shit all retarded. Obviously you're not going to need a consent form if you're pursuing someone for a relationship grounded in mutual love, trust, and forming a life together. If you're going to wield your meager pngtuber influence to get pussy, just CYA. Maybe find Jesus while you're at it.
As @Jotch said, the knot of it all is premarital sex but I think it's deeper than that.
The hook-up culture of the day has created a glamour around something that people want to participate in. You don't have to be an incel to buy in to the idea that the ability to flaunt your influence and charm your fans into letting you fuck them is tempting. You don't have to be a pick-up artist to desire the ability to charm women. The reality that shatters the fantasy is that it's a minefield. On top of all of that, how many YouTubers have demonstrated that they had the presence of mind to navigate the choppy waters of parasocial relationships and having fan interactions just because they enjoyed their content?
I traveled to Knoxville to meet Nick Rekieta and Vic Mignonga at Bubbafest to support them. I had enough awareness of parasocial relationships that I already understood I don't know Nick personally just because I listened to his streams. At the same time, while I only think I know him, he doesn't know me at all. If I were in Nick's position, or Saberspark, or Destiny, I don't know what I would do knowing I've achieved some level of notoriety that everyone who meets me because of that content is going to immediately have a charitable inclination toward me, but will also be complete strangers to me. A lot of that clicked into clarity for me because of this trip, and I left Knoxville believing you had to be a special kind of narcissist to enjoy this kind of thing. Also met my fiancé, so that was nice.
I like to listen to Chris Hansen busts for background noise. In those stings you're dealing with someone who knows that there's a ton of risk in what they're doing and they very likely are getting set up. They'll mention it while chatting with the decoy. They'll even bring up Chris by name. And when caught, they'll be asked if they've seen the show and will say they have. The impulse and compulsion to engage in this fantasy is so powerful that it defies self-preservation to just not do it in the first place. If Saberspark really acknowledged it was wrong to date, that suggests he knew there were risks associated with what he was doing.
Of course casual hook-ups are risky. If you're a YouTuber, especially so when you're hooking up with fans. It's probably a bad idea to invite a female fan into your hotel room. It's probably a bad idea to talk about how wrong it would be to date, but then start making out. It's probably wrong to repeat this over and over, for a year, and then take her into a bathroom and fuck her mouth. It's a really bad idea not to make your intentions crystal clear, and also a really bad idea to wait until after you've cum in her to make sure you're on good terms, and offer a handshake while you do it. Why did Saberspark do all of this? It's the fantasy of being so appealing that you can wield that influence to sate baser impulses, and you'll turn off your self-preservation drives to satisfy it.
I don't think Josh is saying he needed to fill out a consent form, or ask if it's okay to kiss in all cases. But if you're going to pursue casual sex, there's a degree of 'Cover Your Ass' that needs to happen, even if some people say it takes the fun out of the pursuit. What are you pursuing? Five minutes of feeling like a hot-shit casanova because you're a relatively successful youtube known for covering... *checks notes* ...children's cartoons. Yeah, I'm sure he feels real good about his escapades right now.
Without the advent of YouTube I doubt Saberspark would have ever had the popularity and wealth to get into this position in the first place. We're in an age where people like him are achieving attention they ordinarily would not get and was not equipped to handle. This is the case for many, like Destiny, would would still be a carpet cleaner in Kansas if not for the Internet allowing him to gain a following that he can exploit to be a gross coom-gremlin. Many such cases. It's not hard to fuck your fans, but it might be if you were never of strong moral character before the wealth and means.
I'm not into hook-up culture and never was. I'm engaged to a fellow Catholic and we're waiting until our wedding day to give that gift to one another. I can't expect everyone have the same attitude about premarital sex; If you think spontaneous hook-ups is the spice of life, go for it, but don't delude yourselves into ignoring the obvious inherent risks of doing so. Otherwise you're also coping about the fantasy of no-strings fucking and how easily it can get your shit all retarded. Obviously you're not going to need a consent form if you're pursuing someone for a relationship grounded in mutual love, trust, and forming a life together. If you're going to wield your meager pngtuber influence to get pussy, just CYA. Maybe find Jesus while you're at it.
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5'9 270 pound American running up to serbian women holding up 20 dollars USD and going "SEX! MONEY! MONEY.
SEX. 
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Putting your earlier angry incelrantings aside for a moment, this is comedy gold.5'9 270 pound American running up to serbian women holding up 20 dollars USD and going "SEX! MONEY! MONEY.
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New MATI on the Bluetooth noise cancelling ear protection. Nice out. First mow of the year. A cold monster riding beside me. It's a good day
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If you never try to fuck a woman that isn't your wife, you'll probably be fine. Starting with foreplay like a sane person helps too. It gives her plenty of opportunity to say no or signal she isn't into it. In my experience, bluntly talking about sex is a turn off while non-verbal queues suffice. It's not hard to not rape people.
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dude look when your young your horny. There are communties where teen pregnancy's is high and the solution is shot gun weddings.
Getting married in your teens is a very fucking bad Idea and I ve seen how it ends in divorce. or cheating or other forms of white trash bullshit.
Yes being a hoe is stupid, yes permiscuity is bad, but having two young people horny people marry doesnt work.
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Easiest way to obtain consent without a signed and notarized love contract
Though in that Amazon show Upload, there's this scene in the first episode where two people have casual sex and before starting they both put on what are basically sex bodycams where they both verbally state they consent before fucking. To be fair the show is about living in a technological hellscape so I guess it makes sense.
Though in that Amazon show Upload, there's this scene in the first episode where two people have casual sex and before starting they both put on what are basically sex bodycams where they both verbally state they consent before fucking. To be fair the show is about living in a technological hellscape so I guess it makes sense.
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Is this all known Joshs?
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Thigh touches work, I'm a typical non-noticer of female interest but this move has broken my autistic defences on more than one occasion. Do they teach this in women's magazines or something?
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Anything else? Do I need to be a part of a royal family, to own a diamond the size of a baseball, or a couple of private supersonic jets?
I have an easy solution, it's called abstinence.
I works best when teens aren't bombarded with "HAVE SEX, INCEL!" every waking moment of their lives.
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Also even fat men are fuckable as long as they are also useful or actually do things. You know what women find more attractive than your "canthal tilt" or your deltoids? Being useful, competency, having a job and other skills. If a woman can't respect you as a grown man basically nothing else matters.
Like you have to be able to take care of yourself before you can take of anyone else and you have to be able to take care of your partner in an emergency or when they need you to function in a relationship.
Null can be a buttery weirdo but if he's a capable adult and he doesn't act like he should be on a sex registry and he leaves his room to actually talk to people it's actually not hard to form a relationship.
Like a perfectly symmetrical face isn't necessary, so his eyes are far apart, so what? He's a visionary.
Like you have to be able to take care of yourself before you can take of anyone else and you have to be able to take care of your partner in an emergency or when they need you to function in a relationship.
Null can be a buttery weirdo but if he's a capable adult and he doesn't act like he should be on a sex registry and he leaves his room to actually talk to people it's actually not hard to form a relationship.
Like a perfectly symmetrical face isn't necessary, so his eyes are far apart, so what? He's a visionary.
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does someone has the video from the last MATI where she dances with the song?
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It is incredibly gay that Chris is DMCA'ing Geno Samuel's Sonichu the Animated Series, but Geno Samuel's animated series is also low-effort trash. It's the exact same premise as his "documentary," where he reads entries from the CWCki in his low affect autism voice, except now he's reading the Sonichu comic in his low affect autism voice accompanied by really shitty After Effects animation. The reason Geno Samuel isn't fighting it is because it takes effort, and he's already made a boatload of cash off reading the CWCki. If Chris is going to be even a mild inconvenience to acquiring a second boatload of cash, he'll just sit there and enjoy his first money pile. Also, Spazkidin3D already made a Sonichu animated series like a decade ago.
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He spends more time watching the archive than I do.Josh your favorite rabid former ”fan” is having a schizophrenic meltdown in the archive comments lmao
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