I know this. But I am against divorce and single parents altogether. So it isn't any consolation.
I explained that I used a somewhat looser definition.
Also, you believe modern western women are sane. they're not.
I am a "modern western woman". I was raped. I did not like it. I am not insanely religious or insanely feminist (as you stated women have to be to not want to be raped). The man that raped me was not wealthy, well off, or "sexy". He was a disgusting monster who felt that women were property and that he had some right over me because he was a man (sound familiar to you?). Again. I did not like it or ask for it. I was not "dressed provocatively" either. I was dressed in a sweatshirt and jeans. Not even tight ones either. No skin was being flashed except for my face and maybe my throat, hands, and maybe, just maybe, my ankle (gasp!). I did not ask to be raped. I did not want it. And I certainly did not enjoy it in any way. End of story. Everything you have said has just been disproven.
No woman, even a "modern western woman", wants to be raped. It is the most horrible experience I have ever gone through. I wouldn't even wish it on someone vile like you.
And before you go on a "how can you call me vile" rant... You fucking beat up your parents, asked your mom to fuck you, blatantly said you would consider beating and blackmailing (with horse porn) your girlfriend/date so that she couldn't leave you, and actually think rape is ok and desirable. Those are qualities of a vile individual.
But please, do not write back about just the vile individual part. There have been at least 20 people on here that have said "I am a woman, I do not like rape/violence in my relationship" and you have simply called them insane. I want you to actually comprehend this. I have just told you that the things you have been claiming all women want, is false. No woman wants to be raped. This isn't feminism talking. This isn't religion talking. This is a woman straight up telling you women do not want to be raped or abused. Why can't you understand this fact? Am I, as a woman, completely unable to comprehend what I want and thus need a man, like you, to tell me what I actually want?