1. a slut is in modern terms is a promiscous woman. most modern women are incapable of relationships and simply understand just sex. this goes for men too. Have you ever seen anybody here talking about relationships? They just don't know what these are, because their parents and friends didn't either. Most of these idiots here don't know who their father is, and neither do their mothers.
Also, about my friend - she used to be a slut when younger, but since she turned to women she has problems meeting any and doesn't really date or have sex so i stopped seeing her as such.
i did ask her the question you gave her - about what positive traits she sees in me? she says i am a good friend and a good person to talk to or confide in. when she spends a night in my town she does so with me in my bed, since she knows i won't touch her or try to have sex with her.
2. i do believe you. but there is nothing anybody can do. no therapy, no meds, no secret cure.
1A. I would disagree with you on the point where women don;'t understand relationships. I've had several relationships, some good, some not so good. I don't presume to be any expert, but I like to think I've grown as a person throughout each shared experience. I've never hooked up with anyone just for sex, but I have boinked and leveled up social ranks with a couple people. Would that make me a slut, since I have no qualms about healthy, responsibly handed sexual activity between two consenting adults?
1B. This friend of yours seems to prove that 'sluts' can better themselves as people and grow, by your own definition. Therefore, do you feel that it is hypocritical to condemn all western women as sluts, since we could all take after your friend (although to be honest, I still don't understand what she has done to revoke the slut moniker from you, besides coming out as a lesbian)?
1C. That's very interesting to know. Do you feel any desire to sleep with her, or do you respect her boundaries and personality too much to put her needs beneath your own? If so, do you feel that this is a fair case with all women, in that they all have their own needs and wants that shouldn't be trampled upon for sexual gratification?
2. That strikes me as extremely sad. I gave you some points earlier in the thread that were completely separate from medication or therapy. Would you consider any of those? Surely there's something you want to do that you haven't accomplished yet (apart from finishing your book and any activities related your philosophy on women, I should say).
If any of this is unclear, please let me know. I'd be happy to try and elaborate further in order to try and get you to a healthier place.
EDIT: I should add, do you believe me when I state I understand what relationships are, even though I have a somewhat limited worldview given I am a young woman? Do you believe me, or will you discount my experience based off your generalizations?
*spreads subversive ideas about equality and empathy*
