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- Jul 22, 2013
So you completely ignore the other stuff I posted? Well that's fine. Kinda assumed you would.what the hell does any of this have to do with what my writings are about?
my writings are about who those who want relationships and sex but can't have them. if you think these people can just decide not to have these there's no point in even replying to you. in any sane society you'd be locked up for just thinking that.
You don't always get what you want Holden. It's just a fact of life. I've always wanted a pet teacup pig, but I'm not ever going to get one... so that's sad. I've also always wanted a lot of things I'll never have.. but I've gotten over it. People who want relationships and sex but can't have them, for whatever reason, need to realize that a relationship and sex are wants, not needs; and then they need to go do some self-reflection on WHY they aren't getting the success they think they deserve. And yes, it's relatively easy to decide not to have sex or a relationship. It's like.. the easiest thing ever. Would I like to have a relationship? Yeah, as long as it was meaningful and the man cherished and respected me as much as I cherished and respected him. Would I like to have a sexual relationship? Well... right now? No. That's not something I want. I refuse to have sex with just anyone, so to just have sex means nothing to me. It's unattractive to me and unappealing.
To "just decide" not to have sex or a relationship just requires that the person has will power and the ability to say No. It's like saying someone loves chocolate... they can say no to it. Relationships are not a necessity. Sex is not a necessity. Do you honestly think a Monk wouldn't love to have a family? To have a wife and kids? I'm sure they would. But they have DECIDED not to in exchange for becoming a special member in their faith. No one wakes up one day and says "I guess I don't want sex anymore. I guess I don't want love/relationships anymore." They abstain from these things. It's a show of willpower.
So what exactly would I be locked up for in a sane society? My believe that sex and relationships are not a necessity for human survival? Because, factually, they aren't. I've explained this.